Purring like a cat?

[turtler]

This one is primarily for the few, brave females on this forum. Don't mind feedback from males with relevant experience, though

In general, I love the touch of a woman's hand. A lot. Like in, there's no way I could enough of it even if I were surrounded by sympathetic women constantly and I lived to be 120 yo. There's just nothing I like more. I love it when she cups my hand, carresses my arm, strokes my back, digs into my chest, and... so on.

I don't want it to stop. Ever. So to encourage further activity, I let out gasps and groans and moans of approval. Not loud loud, but not quiet either. It's not something I think about during, it just happens. Thinking about it after, tho, it's very hard to shake the thought that I'm exactly like a big, cozy house cat.

So, the question is: Am I the odd one out here, or is it normal behavior? Do women enjoy the feedback? (horribly generalized question, I know, but still)

Unless there is a barrage of posts disapproving of my habits, I'm not thinking of changing them. Just curious as to what is "the norm" and how people feel about it. Feedback much appreciated.

 

[Looking4more]

Unless there is a barrage of posts disapproving of my habits, I'm not thinking of changing them. Just curious as to what is "the norm" and how people feel about it. Feedback much appreciated.

I'm not really aware of what kind of noises I make but I think I do make some while she touches me. I'm sure she'll chime in and tell you all about it.
If you do get bombarded with disapproving posts (I'm sure you won't though), tell them all to take a long walk off a short pier. You are you and if anyone doesn't approve, too bad! As long as your lady approves, that's all that matters.

 

[CUSP82]

Hey if it works keep doing it!

 

[turtler]

Hey if it works keep doing it!

Thanks cusp and l4m. I'd have to make a serious conscious effort not to make my sounds, and so far I haven't... The sounds work in the sense that women understand that I really, really, really like what their hands are up to, and so far they've been happy to oblige. I'm hoping of course that it's not something that takes them out of the moment, that's just the opposite of what I want, but it's one of those things I always wanted to know but never had the courage to ask.

 

[MrsDonjelqer76]

I don't see anything wrong with any of that! I love when my husband touches me in any way, shape, or form. I love back tickles and everything else he does. He also enjoys back tickles. I'm pretty sure he enjoys my touch as well. He'll have to chime in here himself, but I think it's all normal.

I also love the feedback from my husband. Whether it's groans, moans, or squirming of his body, I appreciate the feedback he provides. His feedback also turns me on, which is a bonus haha!

 

[camaro]

That is some interesting info Mrs DJ.

IMO you can say what you want as long as she does not find it distracting/annoying.

 

[BossBoy93]

The big cozy house cat thing is cracking me up. Funny sh*t.

If a girl brush by me at work I start getting a boner. Sitting on my lap, playing with my hair, rubbing on my arm, giving me a tattoo. I don't really make noises but I love that sh*t.

 

[Robberman]

I to love the various touches, but are you the same in having one place that is a complete no go? For me having my belly button touched hurts and when I first found that out the woman who did it jumped back out of shock

 

[turtler]

I to love the various touches, but are you the same in having one place that is a complete no go? For me having my belly button touched hurts and when I first found that out the woman who did it jumped back out of shock

The belly button is very sensitive area, but so far nobody's rubbed it the wrong way. Thus far, the only no-go for me is when the girl slides her finger up my anus that one knuckle too far. I'm open minded and all that, but my anus is my castle, not to be penetrated or besieged without my express written consent. None shall pass!

 

[TPW]

I'm not sure what constitutes "normal" responses when it comes to nurturing, sensual or sexual touch but personally, I think it is purrrrrfectly wonderful that you are so vocally-responsive and I think a majority of women would agree with me. Like MrsDJ stated...the sounds of your contentment can be a huge turn on!!

 

[MrsLooking4more]

turtler by all means purr, we love the feedback. What's not to love? It is and indication that what we are doing is liked, loved and appreciated. Just like you males enjoy hearing your female purr for you (for the same reasons and the ego stroke that we all get from getting the feedback), we ladies love to get your motors (sounds) running and the feedback tell us we a oiling the engine well. I especially love it when the Mr yells during orgasm I fee like fist pumping and in my head I said...... (you still got it momma!). LOL

Of course now you got me thinking, is time for me to go do an check engine check.

 

[turtler]

Thanks to the wonderful ladies of this forum and everyone else for your feedback and support! I'm trying my best to give from myself during the act, but it's a work in progress. I like my moans, they're part of me, and I won't be worrying 'bout them anymore. Not like I could change it anyway: When the woman lines up behind me and wraps her arms around my waist, while breathing into my ear and nibbling at my lobe, I'll be either a) moaning in delight, or b) dead.

 

[Toadstool]

I like cuddles. Who doesn't?
I love it when she lays down on my chest and I can look down and watch as her head moves up and down with the rhythm of my breathing. I like it when she grasps onto my arm when we're walking or when she's scared. I like it when she outlines the contours of my muscles and doesn't say anything. I like the physical attention.

I just don't let out any moans or groans or whatever. I just let her do her thing and enjoy it.

 

[donjelqer76]

Sounds normal to me. Purring/cooing/groaning provides your partner with feedback so she'll know what you like.

 

[BWC]

You and I are on completely the same boat. Although I never questioned my groans and facial expressions.