I have already tried 2 actually and cannot be referred anymore.
I'm just answering what people are asking.... how is that wasting energy?
People on here are just really mean imo. On a 'we hate C-P' rant I think.
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I have already tried 2 actually and cannot be referred anymore.
I'm just answering what people are asking.... how is that wasting energy?
People on here are just really mean imo. On a 'we hate C-P' rant I think.
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You can always start finding your brothers and sisters attractive.
On some level we're all related. I think I once heard that all of humanity could have come from 7 women at the beginning of our history. But honestly, you don't have blood relations to any one of them. This is a head problem that YOU need to explore. It's tough for us to explore that with you because it seems like you already know all of the answers.
We're not psychologists. We're not doctors. You clearly have some emotional/psychological block that's keeping you from your goal.
All I can recommend is going in search of getting rid of those blocks. How? Well I don't know. You have to figure it out.
On some level we're all related. I think I once heard that all of humanity could have come from 7 women at the beginning of our history. But honestly, you don't have blood relations to any one of them. This is a head problem that YOU need to explore. It's tough for us to explore that with you because it seems like you already know all of the answers.
We're not psychologists. We're not doctors. You clearly have some emotional/psychological block that's keeping you from your goal.
All I can recommend is going in search of getting rid of those blocks. How? Well I don't know. You have to figure it out.
If I could figure it out I wouldn't have posted here. I have tried.... I'm not changing and its been years now. And the same thing is just going to keep happening - nothing will magically change. I don't think doing the same thing over and over will help. I want to progress but I'm stuck and have no idea how to fix this.
I certianly don't have all the answers - I'm just answering the questions posted by members and that makes me argumentative/resistant to change? Makes no sense.
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I'm sorry to say this but the only cure for your condition is to have an incest relationship with your sister which will finally break you free from your mental problems. Go explain your problem to your sister and tell her why you need to do what you have to do in order to break free from this ball and chain you got in your head.
Never kiss a hooker on the lips or downstairs Bro, as tempting as it may be. There are so many STD's and now a new strain of Ghonneria that is expected to kill a lot of people like AIDS did.. Wrap up tight and protect yourself. Other than that it's a perfectly fine idea.
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CHARLES-PERRY! MAN! You know what, Im gonna tell you what to do, listen...
...if you meet a hot chick and then you talk with her, get to know her and then..its starts to happen again, you dont find her attractive anymore, you feel like sleeping with her would be bad cause shes like a sister to you...you know what, forget about all that at that moment. IF the girl finds YOU attractive and would sleep with you, you should feel it and seduce her, like flirt with her a little bit and it will all come naturally, you will sleep with her...but MAN LISTEN, It seems to me like you meet a girl and talk to her with the intention that you are gonna make a friend...NO, go talk to hot chick with intention to GET LAID...Im not saying you should force her to have sex with you, thats bad...but IF she finds you attractive and you feel she would sleep with you THEN GO FOR IT! Both of you want it, so wheres the problem?! You came to her and talked to her with the intention to get physical with her cause shes hot, so dont forget that, dont forget why you started and then never continue pursuing that until you eventually get it. And remember, you can be friendly with her, thats great, but you HAVE TO FLIRT with her a also sometimes so she knows why you started to talk to her! Thats it, good luck!
...if you meet a hot chick and then you talk with her, get to know her and then..its starts to happen again, you dont find her attractive anymore, you feel like sleeping with her would be bad cause shes like a sister to you...you know what, forget about all that at that moment. IF the girl finds YOU attractive and would sleep with you, you should feel it and seduce her, like flirt with her a little bit and it will all come naturally, you will sleep with her...but MAN LISTEN, It seems to me like you meet a girl and talk to her with the intention that you are gonna make a friend...NO, go talk to hot chick with intention to GET LAID...Im not saying you should force her to have sex with you, thats bad...but IF she finds you attractive and you feel she would sleep with you THEN GO FOR IT! Both of you want it, so wheres the problem?! You came to her and talked to her with the intention to get physical with her cause shes hot, so dont forget that, dont forget why you started and then never continue pursuing that until you eventually get it. And remember, you can be friendly with her, thats great, but you HAVE TO FLIRT with her a also sometimes so she knows why you started to talk to her! Thats it, good luck!
Some good advice. Is there a thread or something on how to flirt? Perhaps I'm being too nice and therefore not picking up signals or something causing the mental block. Idk. Like I can't ask 'do you want to sleep with me' can I? Probably get slapped lol.
Also I tried this with a couple of women online and they were happy sleeping with me but then I never went for it.... (yes they saw my face and we talked). If not the sister thing then my brain says 'wait you can find someone even better'. Idk whats wrong with me. Some of those women were really perfect imo. Is there something I can take to get this edge off and just go for it? I'm annoying myself now.
No one is trying to be mean! This thread has 68 posts. At least half are people giving you advice. 34 people have given you their input on this subject. What have you done to help yourself since starting this thread? You say 2 paid psychologist could not help you how the hell can we?
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When I read your first post, I thought to myself this young man is gay or at least bi. Then someone posted it and I has happy. You have had every type of good and bad advice out there. But I don't think you have tried any of them. This is PEGym not dating 101.
Some good advice. Is there a thread or something on how to flirt? Perhaps I'm being too nice and therefore not picking up signals or something causing the mental block. Idk. Like I can't ask 'do you want to sleep with me' can I? Probably get slapped lol.
Also I tried this with a couple of women online and they were happy sleeping with me but then I never went for it.... (yes they saw my face and we talked). If not the sister thing then my brain says 'wait you can find someone even better'. Idk whats wrong with me. Some of those women were really perfect imo. Is there something I can take to get this edge off and just go for it? I'm annoying myself now.
Read through all of the responses you have received, tried any?
A thread on how to flirt? Maybe you need to find a second Forum on insecurities, dating, flirting etc. Stay here for your penis health and growth, but try a forum specializing in your needs. I can help you with what a woman wants, but not if you cant even get to first base with her. I wish luck.
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Why?
Also tried what? I replied to the comments because they asked me questions.
The other 'suggestions' were 'bang your sister' which is not even funny.
What does a woman want?
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Gee I think this guy was simply making a joke; hell they do it in Alabama all the time! Now to complain that this may bother young people the fact is that young people are not allowed on here!
Some good advice. Is there a thread or something on how to flirt? Perhaps I'm being too nice and therefore not picking up signals or something causing the mental block. Idk. Like I can't ask 'do you want to sleep with me' can I? Probably get slapped lol.
Also I tried this with a couple of women online and they were happy sleeping with me but then I never went for it.... (yes they saw my face and we talked). If not the sister thing then my brain says 'wait you can find someone even better'. Idk whats wrong with me. Some of those women were really perfect imo. Is there something I can take to get this edge off and just go for it? I'm annoying myself now.
Last time for me on this subject...... A girl, young lady, female, wife and anything with a vagina that likes men...... want to be desired, touched loved, needed, respected etc etc etc! Women want the same thing men do when it comes to a relationship (romantic or sexual involvement) No one wants a "door mat" as a partner. No one wants a spineless wimp as a partner (male and female) A true relationship is based on mutual respect.
I believe in my heart that you are carrying a lot baggage from your past! You must deal with this baggage before you will ever find happiness with anyone, be it male or female! You must be happy with yourself before you will ever be happy with anyone else. You know the saying, "money doesn't buy happiness?" A girl friend wont bring you happiness either.
Admit you have a problem (emotional), take advice from professionals( no not us), stop arguing with people trying to help you and get on medication if you have to. I speak from personal experience dealing with my crazy Aunt. She was dropped by every psychologist, because she never admitted she had a problem, argued with the shrink on everything, took no ones advice and refused to take her meds to make her tolerable for the rest of us. She is 55 years old! I finally cut off all communication with her April 2012! You are in control of you! If your not, get on meds so you can address the true underlying cause of you issues.
God bless and move on.....
Last time for me on this subject...... A girl, young lady, female, wife and anything with a vagina that likes men...... want to be desired, touched loved, needed, respected etc etc etc! Women want the same thing men do when it comes to a relationship (romantic or sexual involvement) No one wants a "door mat" as a partner. No one wants a spineless wimp as a partner (male and female) A true relationship is based on mutual respect.
I believe in my heart that you are carrying a lot baggage from your past! You must deal with this baggage before you will ever find happiness with anyone, be it male or female! You must be happy with yourself before you will ever be happy with anyone else. You know the saying, "money doesn't buy happiness?" A girl friend wont bring you happiness either.
Admit you have a problem (emotional), take advice from professionals( no not us), stop arguing with people trying to help you and get on medication if you have to. I speak from personal experience dealing with my crazy Aunt. She was dropped by every psychologist, because she never admitted she had a problem, argued with the shrink on everything, took no ones advice and refused to take her meds to make her tolerable for the rest of us. She is 55 years old! I finally cut off all communication with her April 2012! You are in control of you! If your not, get on meds so you can address the true underlying cause of you issues.
God bless and move on.....
I know I have a problem - I NEVER denied this. I didn't dismiss myself from the physcologists they did (they said I should just give it time which is obviously the worst thing I can do).... thats why I posted on here for help. Yes I have baggage but how am I supposed to fix it when everyone on here is just having a go at me instead of recommending what I do? I have gone to my doc several times to get referred to another therapist or sex therapist but they refuse as my problem isn't 'serious enough' for them.... what do I do?
And I'm not arguing - I'm saying what I've tried and replying to peoples comments. How is that arguing? You want me to just nod instead?
You think people are just ridiculing you instead of giving you good advice? A lot of people has given you good advices on this thread but the problem is you can't even acknowledge their tips because you assume right away their advice will never work to begin with. You say you can't just expect to nod and agree with the advice people give you and that is why no one can ever help you on this forum. Sometimes you have to try what people suggest you instead of assuming it won't work. Sometimes you just have to do what you got to do to get something done that's how it is and in general that nature. Next time you see an attractive girl that wants to be intimate with you tell yourself that if you don't do her you will die perhaps that will help you. And after that from then on every time you want to have sex think of it as putting your life on the line. If you don't fuck her you will die and she will kill you. Or just attack the root of the problem and have an incest relationship with your sister. By the way, I hope you change your point of view on Bib because calling him a scammer when he's contributed so much in the PE world just makes you look bad (no offense). I hope you didn't just buy a Bib hanger from his site without reading the stuff in there, he certainly stated that it can't work 100% in every individual so buy at your own risk.
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Explore your sexuality and find out what the hell you want - because life is just too short for this & you are missing out.
Today I asked a (very hot) girl out on the train for the first time... turns out she didn't speak English
I also stopped all porn pretty much completely and feel the urge to find a 'real woman' which has helped.
I guess I'm finally on a roll.
Will keep you guys posted.
I also stopped all porn pretty much completely and feel the urge to find a 'real woman' which has helped.
I guess I'm finally on a roll.
Will keep you guys posted.
Why not find a women then make your own porn best of both worlds!Today I asked a (very hot) girl out on the train for the first time... turns out she didn't speak English
I also stopped all porn pretty much completely and feel the urge to find a 'real woman' which has helped.
I guess I'm finally on a roll.
Will keep you guys posted.
