Fat tummy = Erection Killer !!!

[Going411x7]

The hottest women I've had (including my wife) are soft, curvy women. Thin to skinny women
turn me off. To each his own, I guess.

Yes, for sure!! Don't date heavier women.

 

[DarkSide]

From the photo posted... The Girl on the right is a BombShell!

We really don't know if these are thick girls or obese girls... To me there would be a difference in sexual attraction.

If she has had any children then EXPECT her to have a belly, this is normal. The Women who've had kids without a belly, stretch marks, ect.. Are quite honestly the lucky ones. You can only CoCo butter so many body changes away.

Bottom line though as said above. Date Women you find attractive. If you're standards are too high, then you will know it, because you will have a very small group to choose from. But I don't think there is anything Un-healthy about being at least a wee bit selective.

Regards,

 

[goal_of_8inches]

As a female who has extra curves and a belly at this point in time.
I recommend you 1)start watching the chubby and or bww porn (i mean if you watch porn )The more you watch it the less offensive fat will become to you. the more you will realize that sexy comes in all shapes. You don't have to get a boner or get off to it. you just have to watch it and become familiar with different body types 2) start looking around at couples and random people picture what they would look like having sex 3) take a careful look at yourself and figure out what your fears are and why you feel fat girls aren't good enough for you sexually. 4) don't get intimate with females till you feel you can look past any extra giggle they have.

I am not going to say don't date thick girls because you could end up missing out on a great relationship.. but i will say step back a little and work it out before you hurt someone self confidence and esteem..body put downs are very hard to bounce back from. Being told you are undesirable is heartbreaking.Men have many fears when it comes to sex but so do women and being rejected based on body is a fear that is shared by both sexes. Why do you think most females want to have sex with the light off.

Why do you choose these ladies? There must be attraction if you are wanting to fuck them yes? or no?

Thank you for the tips. And My longest relationship was 3 years with a lady that also had a large tummy. I was able to get around it because she would keep her shirt on most of the time, And I would focus on her legs & cheeks.

 

[goal_of_8inches]

Just to clear it up. I don't think "i'm better than them" , and each time I show them the up most respect.

 

[Wda628]

Ironic I found this. I had never had erection issues until the last two weeks. I'm 36 and married. However I have stepped out of marriage with a girl these last two times. This past weekend she even got a hotel room for the reason of hooking up. We make out great, but for the second week in a row, my dick just will not cooperate. I'm assuming the combo of not being that attractive and the guilt of cheating on my (nearly hot) wife is the issue. I feel like an apsolute idiot. I almost hope she thinks its all her.

 

[longrodten]

Ironic I found this. I had never had erection issues until the last two weeks. I'm 36 and married. However I have stepped out of marriage with a girl these last two times. This past weekend she even got a hotel room for the reason of hooking up. We make out great, but for the second week in a row, my dick just will not cooperate. I'm assuming the combo of not being that attractive and the guilt of cheating on my (nearly hot) wife is the issue. I feel like an apsolute idiot. I almost hope she thinks its all her.

Stop stepping out and stop being an idiot. Leave that bullshit land alone. That's what it is.

 

[Wda628]

Stop stepping out and stop being an idiot. Leave that bullshit land alone. That's what it is.

Yeah that's what I figured. Marriage and kids etc. just gets so boring. Although I've never had erection issues with my wife. In fact quite the opposite. She's "thick" and has "mommy tummy" but never an issue.
It has to be the stress and guilt then with this other, much less attractive lady. You're right though, I am an idiot.

 

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

I know my standards are too high, but I know I can pull top notch ladies, my ex wife and last gf were so 10s+ so I wont settle, even just to get a nut...

 

[Dick Whammy]

Dr. Oz just said that the belly and lack thereof is the key to preventing erectile dysfunction. I
agree with him wholeheartedly. I am working hard to get rid of my sagging belly. So far I have lost 20
pounds, and my goal is 20 more.

KUDOS!! Good for you going411by7!

 

[Dick Whammy]

When I was younger, I used to think that for an Orange to be tasty and deliciously sweet, it had to look perfect too! To this day, when I buy a bag of oranges, quite often the perfect looking one is all dried out and not as tasty as the greenish off colored oranges. Well my point is that we miss out on things when we go by external looks alone. One thing I hate is a woman that is beautiful on the outside that is hideous on the inside. Over the years I've learned to see something different in women....even the LARGE not so PRETTY ones need love and a dick too,,,,and quite often can offer something that the model type can't. I know this is all a matter of preference and we are all entitled to our preference, but I just had to add my 2 cents regarding this. I'm overweight myself, I've still had many physically attractive women take a liking to me (I'm not ugly) so some women are also looking beneath the surface. One thing I do insist on is that she is clean! LOL