Edging 101

[Pl0xs]

Hi, I have a question.
I've tried edging for 2 weeks now, my longest session so far is 45 minutes where I've edged for 20 minutes straight without reaching the PONR, but with my eyes closed and not thinking anything sexual. Now I've tried to take the next step and edge with some sexual pictures. However, with these pictures I reach the PONR in like under a minute. What should I do?

 

[OnMyWayThere]

Hi, I have a question.
I've tried edging for 2 weeks now, my longest session so far is 45 minutes where I've edged for 20 minutes straight without reaching the PONR, but with my eyes closed and not thinking anything sexual. Now I've tried to take the next step and edge with some sexual pictures. However, with these pictures I reach the PONR in like under a minute. What should I do?

This is definitely mental. I recommend checking out the sticky's in the PremE forum as some of them go into exactly this. Do you notice yourself doing anything physically different when edging to pictures, like kegeling or edging harder?

EDIT: This is the one I was thinking of: https://www.pegym.com/forums/premat...de-controlling-your-ejaculation-response.html

 

[Pl0xs]

This is definitely mental. I recommend checking out the sticky's in the PremE forum as some of them go into exactly this. Do you notice yourself doing anything physically different when edging to pictures, like kegeling or edging harder?

EDIT: This is the one I was thinking of: https://www.pegym.com/forums/premat...de-controlling-your-ejaculation-response.html

Thanks for the link, I will definitely check it out.

I'm not kegeling. I try to be relaxed as possible. What do you mean with edging harder?

 

[kickinthemebs]

Visual stimulation is more intense for most and will get you to ponr quicker. However,your imagination has its advantages over visual. For me it is way easier to dry orgasm and edge for longer.

 

[Durandal]

So just to clarity. One should expect results in around 3 to 6 months? And is it possible to last for 2 hours if one edges to last that amount?

 

[OnMyWayThere]

Thanks for the link, I will definitely check it out.

I'm not kegeling. I try to be relaxed as possible. What do you mean with edging harder?

By edging harder I just mean providing more physical stimulation.

 

[OnMyWayThere]

So just to clarity. One should expect results in around 3 to 6 months? And is it possible to last for 2 hours if one edges to last that amount?

Yeah, it's definitely *possible* to last for 2 hours edging, but not many do. I think jay1983 has had long ballooning sessions in the past, although they caused some issues with overtraining. You can check out his log.

The amount of time it takes varies considerably, but after three months of practice, if you're doing things right you probably should be noticeably better.

 

[Django12]

Quick questions, what is the maximum amount of time one should edge? Assuming that too much could start to cause minor - major problems.

 

[Durandal]

Yeah, it's definitely *possible* to last for 2 hours edging, but not many do. I think jay1983 has had long ballooning sessions in the past, although they caused some issues with overtraining. You can check out his log.

The amount of time it takes varies considerably, but after three months of practice, if you're doing things right you probably should be noticeably better.

I use a Fleshlight Stamina Training unit. Bought it off of Amazon. I have been edging using this toy for around 4 weeks now. I also bought a " fleshlight shower mount " for a hands free experience. I edge for 30 minutes straight.
I begin stimulation and as soon as I feel the sensation to ejaculate, I stop stimulation until the feeling to ejaculate leaves, or when I start loosing my erection, then I start stimulation again. At times I do try to get as close to the PONR but I don't risk it too much. That's about it. So what do you think? Is this ok?

 

[MrB8]

About 20 minutes, work up to them if you cant do it at first, and enjoy your sessions.

 

[minchamincha]

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[MrB8]

Consider the overall workload.

 

[minchamincha]

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[MrB8]

yes, but all im doing is edging with no pe otherwise

Do you do kegels?

And do you mean turtle as in return to its normal flaccid size or shrink to a smaller size?

 

[minchamincha]

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[closed224]

The penis goes into a refractory mode after ejaculation. It shrinks, and stays smaller and softer. Try edging without ejaculation until the third time.

 

[minchamincha]

ok ill try this^^

 

[minchamincha]

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[computerguy]

I consider edging like jogging. Sometimes you can jog 10 miles and feel like a million bucks when your done. Other times you will go 2 and feel completely drained after.

I would say edging and having no change is better than edging and having your pi's tank.

Positive pis = good
Neutral pis= good
Negative pis = possibly not very good

 

[Pegasus]

Some vary is to be expected.