Edging 101

[opiates]

How long is too long? I can edge for over an hour or two until either I start to get tired or my unit starts to pulsate because its been hard for so long. Should I keep going until I finally reach a point of no return or is 2+ hours too long?

I usually use baby powder when doing it because lotion or gel becomes dry after awhile and I think the powder has a slight numbing sensation which allows me to last so long. Another thing I do is change stances or positions to recreate what I would be doing with a women. So 30 minutes in missionary then 30 mins sitting in a chair, 20 standing, 20 on knees, etc.

I just started to take jelqing seriously but prior I was just using the bathmate 20-30 minutes a day and 1-2 hours of edging once or twice per week since it becomes tiresome. But I would like an answer from more experienced edgers who are in the same boat as me and what worked best for them.

Thanks

 

[Pegasus]

You should be able to reach a ponr virtually whenever you want ,do you have delayed ejaculation?
Certainly a number of members have regularly exceeded and hour and 2 hr would not be an issue . However really prolonged erections can risk damage and I would be carefull .

 

[longerlastingnoob]

Just asking because of your username, do you take anything that delays it?

 

[opiates]

@pegasus - You're right, I could 'flip the switch' to create a ponr but I mentally chose not to.
@longerlastingnoob - I do take suboxone but for awhile now (and on a super low dose) so it doesn't have that 'pain relief' sensation it normally would when starting out on it.

 

[longerlastingnoob]

Ok well it's a side affect, what dose are you on?

 

[Nunanik]

Hi guys, how you doing.

I just have a little question. When I edge, I get harder the more time passes. Like, when Im doing 18 minutes, I get really hard at 12 minute in... Dont know if this is normal, or if its lack of focus.

 

[Jay1983]

Hi guys, how you doing.

I just have a little question. When I edge, I get harder the more time passes. Like, when Im doing 18 minutes, I get really hard at 12 minute in... Dont know if this is normal, or if its lack of focus.

Could be your arousal level.

 

[Nunanik]

Hmmm yeah that would be a good explanation. What can I do to fix this? I do around 15 minutes edge and end up ejaculating because my sexual life is almost non-existent at the moment.

 

[Togar315]

Can't download it.

 

[maki]

KP, do you think using masturbator like Fleshlight for edging can help? I've read about their Stamina Training Unit, can that help? or just stick with my hands?

 

[Sp112233]

Hi, nice thread. I understand the aim of all this is to control/train yourself whilst near ponr, however how do I train myself to not get near ponr in the first place? I have a high sex drive so even a nice make out session with my girlfriend gets me very aroused and even makes entrance difficult due to already being near ponr. How do I stop this from happening in the first place?

 

[Pegasus]

Check this edging form.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/68863-edging-premature-ejaculation.html

 

[Jason30]

I am sorry for my Noob question, but I am a bit confused.

The first thing:
Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulim.

And then on the end the instruction says:
Now, eventually once you have mastered base stroking and you can last 20 minutes your edging session should now include the entire shaft of the penis.

But from the base to the frenulim includes the entire shaft as well?

 

[6inDongNotForLong]

How to:

1: Get an erection. Your goign to be at it a while so privacy and no destractions are the best conditions to start an edging routine.

2: If you are a two second man ejacualate first, wait for the return then proceed to edge. (masturbate)

3: Use a good lube, KY jelly is is to drying use a good hand lotion.

4: Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulim. The frenulim is the trigger this is what makes you cum to soon, avoid the frenulim unless you feel it is time to cum. Remember edging teaches you to be in control not your biological sensations.

5: If you feel the urge start to move back down to the base again. Keep the strokes slow at first don't stroke fast until you have mastered edging.

6: When you feel like you are about to cum(PONR) stop edging until the sensation leaves then resume edging (Masturbating)
PONR means point of no return. At this time you can play with your nuts. Explore for the "G" spots you did not realize you had in this area untill the sensation to ejaculate subsides.

You will learn when your shaft is loading up with cum to ejaculate. When you feel it in the base you can stop jerking off at this point instead of waiting for it to travle higher up the shaft.

After a few months of doing this those stopages will become dry orgasms. (ejaculating without cumming) This is a very spiritual expierence.

Adendum added 7/7/10

Now, eventually once you have mastered base stroking and you can last 20 minutes your edging session should now include the entire shaft of the penis. Stimulate the entire thing from base to tip and back again. When you can delay ejacualtion from stimulating the entire shaft for 20 minutes then you would likely start lasting longer during vaginal sex.

So let me get this straight, we're supposed to stop BEFORE the frenulim?

 

[Pegasus]

In initial training in this form.

 

[6inDongNotForLong]

In initial training in this form.

But if I'm able to kegel to stop orgasm then I don't need to do that, right?

 

[Pegasus]

Do the training you think you need.

 

[toqchista]

Can someone tell me easy, how to do edging exercise ?

I cant understand, what is about talking ?

 

[Cavalier]

Can someone tell me easy, how to do edging exercise ?

I cant understand, what is about talking ?

Edging is basically masturbating up to the point of feeling the urge to ejaculate and then stopping before you ejaculate. Let the urge subside and then repeat it. Doing this multiple times during each edging session over time will help you a little more control over when you ejaculate so that you can last longer during sex.

 

[toqchista]

Edging is basically masturbating up to the point of feeling the urge to ejaculate and then stopping before you ejaculate. Let the urge subside and then repeat it. Doing this multiple times during each edging session over time will help you a little more control over when you ejaculate so that you can last longer during sex.

wooow
bro thnx;
i thought it was more difficult and some of particular method.

but i want ask you; how many times do i do again ?

can i do per week only one time ? still i will get result ?

if i use that method, can i get full control of orgasm ?