Edging 101

[The Legend]

Hello Sirco !!

For the sake of understanding I know that I 'm continuously disturbing you but I have to ask someone so that's why .I want to know that during this edging process should I go for ejaculation at the end or no????It means should I go for masturabation or not ....

 

[burtybasset]

It's a good idea to ejaculate at the end of an edging session, you might want to limit the edging sessions to about three times a week.

 

[Face Palm]

Hi,
Sorry to ask this question on your thread, but I didn't want to start another one.
When you edge, are you supposed reach PONR and then do a hard kegel to hold it in? or do you get close to the point PONR and then wait for a minute and then start again?
Thanks

 

[MrB8]

Hi,
Sorry to ask this question on your thread, but I didn't want to start another one.
When you edge, are you supposed reach PONR and then do a hard kegel to hold it in? or do you get close to the point PONR and then wait for a minute and then start again?
Thanks

No need to apologize, it is a helpful community, we like to help one another.


If you are just starting, then stop stimulation or slow it down if you are nearing the PONR, and wait until the urge subsides before you resume, you can also switch focus to the shaft instead of the glans.

I recommend you read the OP and the informative discussion on this thread to learn how to edge.

 

[Face Palm]

No need to apologize, it is a helpful community, we like to help one another.


If you are just starting, then stop stimulation or slow it down if you are nearing the PONR, and wait until the urge subsides before you resume, you can also switch focus to the shaft instead of the glans.

I recommend you read the OP and the informative discussion on this thread to learn how to edge.

Thank you but I just read somewhere that some people decide to do a Hard kegel at PONR, is this an advanced technique?

 

[MrB8]

Thank you but I just read somewhere that some people decide to do a Hard kegel at PONR, is this an advanced technique?

Yes, that (MMO/DO) is an advanced technique that requires pelvic floor muscles conditioning and edging experience.

You are welcome.

 

[somewhere]

As the same stated above, I have the feeling that I come but I can probably hold in my ejaculation if I stop masturbating and kegel hard. I usually try to kegel and 'build' up and then let go. I try to extend that time to build up though.

Another thing. When edging. I find myself quite boring sometimes, my boner lowers a bit and varies during the edging. But after 20 minutes not even reaching an orgasm I start to really masturbate harder and faster and more around the glans to speed up things. Isn't it with edging that you just want to reach your PONR and set back and do this all-over?
After about 20 minutes of masturbation I feel rather bored and want to do something else (I am really fast bored though, maybe some ADHD/ADD?) so I want to 'finish' and try to hit my ponr and do it over again in a couple of minutes.
I had something like this. edge 15min-->ponr, wait a couple of seconds/minute, edge 3-5 min-->ponr, wait couple of seconds/minute, edge 3-5min-->ponr. That is just really hard to do though.

 

[Pegasus]

As the same stated above, I have the feeling that I come but I can probably hold in my ejaculation if I stop masturbating and kegel hard. I usually try to kegel and 'build' up and then let go. I try to extend that time to build up though.

Another thing. When edging. I find myself quite boring sometimes, my boner lowers a bit and varies during the edging. But after 20 minutes not even reaching an orgasm I start to really masturbate harder and faster and more around the glans to speed up things. Isn't it with edging that you just want to reach your PONR and set back and do this all-over?
After about 20 minutes of masturbation I feel rather bored and want to do something else (I am really fast bored though, maybe some ADHD/ADD?) so I want to 'finish' and try to hit my ponr and do it over again in a couple of minutes.
I had something like this. edge 15min-->ponr, wait a couple of seconds/minute, edge 3-5 min-->ponr, wait couple of seconds/minute, edge 3-5min-->ponr. That is just really hard to do though.

You might find info in the mmo club of interest.

 

[somewhere]

mmo?

Thanks

 

[MrB8]

mmo?

Thanks

Male Multiple Orgasm.

 

[Pegasus]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/groups/multiple-male-orgasm-dry-orgasms.html

 

[waymaker]

I'm actually due to edge tonight been drinking erection tea on and off all day.

Hey, KingPole, I have a few ?'s. How often and how long do you edge, and do you take Ginger Root, how much,....and how much, how often do you drink, erection tea. One last ?, for now, can I alternate taking Pine Bark Extract and Ginkgo Biloba in the evening, or should I just take one of the two? Thanks for your input.

 

[MrB8]

Hey, KingPole, I have a few ?'s. How often and how long do you edge, and do you take Ginger Root, how much,....and how much, how often do you drink, erection tea. One last ?, for now, can I alternate taking Pine Bark Extract and Ginkgo Biloba in the evening, or should I just take one of the two? Thanks for your input.

KingPole has not been online for a while now.

Generally speaking, edging can help with many things, increase your stamina, treat Pre-E, train/practice for MMO/DO, improve EQ.

Iit is a good supplement to your PE routine, according to your PIs, two to three nonconsecutive times a week should be enough.

 

[waymaker]

Im 8" and grew almost three I edge all the time. I think that is a myth.

KingPole, may I ask, how much edging do you do and do you believe it had a lot to do with your growth? My wife has a problem with edging, how does your wife feel about? Hope I'm not to personal?

 

[Pegasus]

Say a prayer for KP who has health issues and has not been onsite lately.

I edged daily for prolonged periods and yes I did get growth with this as my only pe exercise..

 

[waymaker]

......Thanks, Pergasus for your response and sorry to hear about KingPole's health issues, he seems to be very knowledgable on this sight, miss seeing his input. Will be praying for his healing.

 

[waymaker]

How to:

1: Get an erection. Your goign to be at it a while so privacy and no destractions are the best conditions to start an edging routine.

2: If you are a two second man ejacualate first, wait for the return then proceed to edge. (masturbate)

3: Use a good lube, KY jelly is is to drying use a good hand lotion.

4: Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulim. The frenulim is the trigger this is what makes you cum to soon, avoid the frenulim unless you feel it is time to cum. Remember edging teaches you to be in control not your biological sensations.

5: If you feel the urge start to move back down to the base again. Keep the strokes slow at first don't stroke fast until you have mastered edging.

6: When you feel like you are about to cum(PONR) stop edging until the sensation leaves then resume edging (Masturbating)
PONR means point of no return. At this time you can play with your nuts. Explore for the "G" spots you did not realize you had in this area untill the sensation to ejaculate subsides.

You will learn when your shaft is loading up with cum to ejaculate. When you feel it in the base you can stop jerking off at this point instead of waiting for it to travle higher up the shaft.

After a few months of doing this those stopages will become dry orgasms. (ejaculating without cumming) This is a very spiritual expierence.

Adendum added 7/7/10

Now, eventually once you have mastered base stroking and you can last 20 minutes your edging session should now include the entire shaft of the penis. Stimulate the entire thing from base to tip and back again. When you can delay ejacualtion from stimulating the entire shaft for 20 minutes then you would likely start lasting longer during vaginal sex.

.......I need some advice! I have just started Edging. My reason is not just for pleasure, but to last longer, multiple orgasms, better EQ that last longer. My erections are on and off, I almost reach PONR but not getting there. It may be involuntary kegels. It seems I may have small orgasms but not reaching PONR. I don't know what I am doing wrong. My erections are 50-90%, off and on. At least I am getting better erections as I progress in the program. Thanks for any help you can advise.

 

[MrB8]

.......I need some advice! I have just started Edging. My reason is not just for pleasure, but to last longer, multiple orgasms, better EQ that last longer. My erections are on and off, I almost reach PONR but not getting there. It may be involuntary kegels. It seems I may have small orgasms but not reaching PONR. I don't know what I am doing wrong. My erections are 50-90%, off and on. At least I am getting better erections as I progress in the program. Thanks for any help you can advise.

Take it slow, one step at a time, start withe the basic technique, and workup to more as you gain control.

 

[DakkaBomb]

Hey. Well I was about to start edging properly and I have question. I have read somwhere that ejaculatory orgasms will turn into "dry orgasms". Does that mean that load capacity will get smaller? Is it possible to control when you will do a dry orgasm and when you will do a ejaculatory one? Cheers!

 

[MrB8]

Hey. Well I was about to start edging properly and I have question. I have read somwhere that ejaculatory orgasms will turn into "dry orgasms". Does that mean that load capacity will get smaller? Is it possible to control when you will do a dry orgasm and when you will do a ejaculatory one? Cheers!

With proper training and after lots of practice, you will be able to control when you have dry orgasm and when you have a wet one, and no the amount of your ejaculation will not be decreased.