Its an adventure that will either make or break relationship- needless to say it is a HUGE gamble. And unless the couple came in as an "open relationship" meaning they both understood they both have these desires, then 9times of 10, only one of the two initiated the idea, and chances are both don't always -fully- agree, but in time even just submit to the act for whatever reasons, such as stability, fear, security, or emotional attachment.
Couple Swapping
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We are swinging for a couple of years, but we are doing only TOGETHER. I think that's the most important thing while swinging, to do it together. We are meeting couples only on
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We are searching couples together and then we are trying to make a connection with them. If there is no connection, we are not doing it. So yeah, that's my opinion.
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We are searching couples together and then we are trying to make a connection with them. If there is no connection, we are not doing it. So yeah, that's my opinion.
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I actually met my girlfriend on a swinging site! We both thought that we were looking for an extra 'something' to spice up our respective marriages (which were already on shaky ground) but we ended up falling for each other :angel:
She is bi and I'm bi-curious and we have talked about meeting other women and possibly other couples although our criteria is quite strict. I'm happy for her to play with another woman as I can't give her a 'woman to woman' experience and she'd like to see me play with another woman or a guy
We do spend lot of time on foreplay and she says that she'd love to see me make another woman cum Now strangely enough I'm not too fussed about playing with another woman as my girlfriend gives me everything I need in that department (and much more) but I would consider having some soft fun with another guy (touching, maybe oral, etc) especially if it turned her on (and she thinks that it will lol).
Neither of us wants to fuck someone else although we'd kinda like to fuck each other in the company of a like-minded couple, i.e same room fun but only with our respective partners We do have 2 couples who we chat with and are looking for the same but we haven't rushed things and we'll just let things progress naturally
She is bi and I'm bi-curious and we have talked about meeting other women and possibly other couples although our criteria is quite strict. I'm happy for her to play with another woman as I can't give her a 'woman to woman' experience and she'd like to see me play with another woman or a guy
We do spend lot of time on foreplay and she says that she'd love to see me make another woman cum Now strangely enough I'm not too fussed about playing with another woman as my girlfriend gives me everything I need in that department (and much more) but I would consider having some soft fun with another guy (touching, maybe oral, etc) especially if it turned her on (and she thinks that it will lol).Neither of us wants to fuck someone else although we'd kinda like to fuck each other in the company of a like-minded couple, i.e same room fun but only with our respective partners
We do have 2 couples who we chat with and are looking for the same but we haven't rushed things and we'll just let things progress naturally Best of luck, sounds like you have a close to perfect relationship and that you will have a lot of fun. I have been thinking about some similar stuff and i think my gf can be into it. But i’m scared that the dicksize thing might become an issue.. thoughts?
With almost 20cm, you shouldn't be too worried about the other dick size. Chances are that most of the dicks you'll encounter if you decide to ride that train, will be smaller than yours, mate!
Me, with a meager 6.5 by 6.1 inches, is another story! But I would never go down that road. I'm a shy guy and could never really enjoy such a situation, I think. Plus, I know I wouldn't enjoy to see my woman (not wife, but partner and mother of one of my boys) getting another dick whether in front of me or not. I just have enough problems accepting that she was going out for 3 years with the incredible hulk and his gigantic cock (never investigated the real size of it. Never will, as I fear she'd tell me that his dick flaccid was bigger and longer than mine erect!! sh*t!).
So for me swinging is a great no-no. My best friend does it, but only because all his partners are, for him, almost meaningless thence no problem sharing something you don't give a fuck about and getting in return something you care even less about.
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I've been with 2 swinger couples but I've never shared a gf, I have to say I'm personally not fond of being with a couple for a 3some and I wouldn't wanna share my gf/wife but to each their own, the couples I've been with loved it so if both are into it I don't see why not but on one condition, the couple should really give it a thought because I know many couples who done it and then it kept causing arguments and ended in a break up
