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Maximus ... I hate to say it but you post reeks of troll.

How would you know his dick was 9" long?

Assuming you're not a troll ... welcome and best of luck with your gains.
 

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Do you consider yourself jealous? Like do you feel your BF should not have female friends or get possessive at times? Or have you been cheated on a few times in the past?

I am just curious as I know most people are interested in "serial monogamy" over swinging so is pretty much the norm, but reading your reaction it sounds less like "not really my thing" and more like "AINT EVER gonna happen" as if maybe it is a sore spot.

Thanks.

I do consider myself jealous, dont know what the cure is. I dont act jealous in front of my boyfriend but I feel it inside. There is no way I could watch my bf have SEX with another girl. We talked about it, he said "I'm glad ur not into that type of thing cause I could NEVER watch some dude fuck my girl" and he isnt the jealous type at ALLLLL. So, is it REALLY a "jealous" thing?
 

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I dont think its a jealous thing. Every relationship has things that are considered special for the relationship and usually sex is a common one. Even swingers have special things in their relationship that would upset them if their lover broke them.
 

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Maximus ... I hate to say it but you post reeks of troll.

How would you know his dick was 9" long?

Assuming you're not a troll ... welcome and best of luck with your gains.

Hi Nacho, Its quite easy to tell the approximate size of someone if you can visualise the inch in your head, and thanks for the welcome.
 

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call me old fashioned but i dont want to share my gf with any other man... and i dont want to sleep with ther women also... for me, i want to know that whenver i see her im the only one shes in love with and get the hots over... that goes for me as well... im not saying that couple swapping is a bad thing and if youre into it then have fun and enjoy, for me though i dont want to try it...
 

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I do consider myself jealous, dont know what the cure is. I dont act jealous in front of my boyfriend but I feel it inside. There is no way I could watch my bf have SEX with another girl. We talked about it, he said "I'm glad ur not into that type of thing cause I could NEVER watch some dude fuck my girl" and he isnt the jealous type at ALLLLL. So, is it REALLY a "jealous" thing?

I agree. It's not a jealousy issue, though. More of a respect issue.

BTW, I once dated a guy who asked me if it was okay to just get a blowjob from another woman. Needless to say, we are not dating anymore.
 

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Mi Lady and I were talking a few years back about swinging etc. I was the person who brought up the idea. A few weeks went by, when to my surprise she bought a membership to a site. We started chatting and even met a few couples for lunch etc. When meeting with each couple, we just couldn't go the whole adventure. I finally mentioned on a drive home to Mi Lady, "I have all the Love I'll ever need in you." She looked at me with a glassy eye and said "I just want to make you happy."

We haven't thought of an adventure of that sort since. We still enjoy the simple treasure of each others company, romance and acts of newly dating anctics. 14 years of Marriage thus far. =]

I've always wondered if someone should do a survey of couples that do agree with the lifestyle in 5,10,15,20 years graduations. Just to see what impact if any, it may have on the relationship?
 

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Mi Lady and I were talking a few years back about swinging etc. I was the person who brought up the idea. A few weeks went by, when to my surprise she bought a membership to a site. We started chatting and even met a few couples for lunch etc. When meeting with each couple, we just couldn't go the whole adventure. I finally mentioned on a drive home to Mi Lady, "I have all the Love I'll ever need in you." She looked at me with a glassy eye and said "I just want to make you happy."

We haven't thought of an adventure of that sort since. We still enjoy the simple treasure of each others company, romance and acts of newly dating anctics. 14 years of Marriage thus far. =]

I've always wondered if someone should do a survey of couples that do agree with the lifestyle in 5,10,15,20 years graduations. Just to see what impact if any, it may have on the relationship?

Awwww that is SO sweet :cry:
 

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It is really a great story squid thanks for sharing.
 

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Okay I'll swap. I'll give you JonPop and Toadstool. Who do I get in return?
 

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The main reason that wife swapping has become so successful is that society has now become more open-minded to these practices
 
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I am also open to this type of relationship even if I never tried it:) I am looking for having this in the future
 

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I agree. It's not a jealousy issue, though. More of a respect issue
BTW, I once dated a guy who asked me if it was okay to just get a blowjob from another woman. Needless to say, we are not dating anymore.

I know I'm bumping way back into the past here, but you have to give this
guy some credit for asking - you wouldn't want to leave any blow jobs from
strange women on the table:)

By the way, whenever I read one of these old threads that resurfaces,
it's freaks me out that I usually don't recognize any of the people posting
as current posters. Why is that? If my dick gets bigger as a result of PE,
you people will never hear the end of me - I'll be around forever,
basking in it.

I would like to think that it's the people whole don't gain who
disappear, but I'm pretty sure I checked that and there
are some substantial gainers who completely disappear,
never to be heard from again.

I can understand some guys thinking, "I've got my big dick,
I'm out of here boys", but you would think they would at
least check in once in a while and tell us how big their dick
still is, or how it has shrunk to half its original size after
they stopped PE. I don't know, its just seems strange.
 

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I think it's a bad idea all the way around..........I think I posted that sentiment 3 years ago and nothing's changed......at least where my opinion is concerned.
 

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I think it's a bad idea all the way around..........I think I posted that sentiment 3 years ago and nothing's changed......at least where my opinion is concerned.

Yeah I kind of hear ya on that.
My GF & I have talked threesomes before.
She's usually very against the idea.
Her main concern is that she feels it will effect our relationship negatively.
However occasionally she sounds more ok with the MMF form.
_ (obviously I really want the FFM form :) )
I just feel it would be fun, and would add some spice to our relationship.
I'm fiercely loyal, and I wouldn't ever f*ck another girl without her permission.
Since we're both pretty young and in a committed relationship, I feel like I won't be able to explore as many woman's bodies as I would have liked to. That's were the threesome, or possibly swapping factor comes in. However, like most guys, I really don't like the idea of her having sex with another guy.

Ohhh, if only she were of a more bisexual nature...
 

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Yeah I kind of hear ya on that.
My GF & I have talked threesomes before.
She's usually very against the idea.
Her main concern is that she feels it will effect our relationship negatively.
However occasionally she sounds more ok with the MMF form.
_ (obviously I really want the FFM form :) )
I just feel it would be fun, and would add some spice to our relationship.
I'm fiercely loyal, and I wouldn't ever f*ck another girl without her permission.
Since we're both pretty young and in a committed relationship, I feel like I won't be able to explore as many woman's bodies as I would have liked to. That's were the threesome, or possibly swapping factor comes in. However, like most guys, I really don't like the idea of her having sex with another guy.

Ohhh, if only she were of a more bisexual nature...


Hmmm, well, I don't have any experiences to speak of where threesomes are concerned. IF I did, MMF or FFM....neither one would bother me. However, I still think it's not worth the risk of damaging the committed relationship you're involved in. I've seen it happen many times where the couple invites a third party into the bedroom and things go sideways and it ends up destroying what the original couple had..........it's sad.

Give me a one man and one woman scenario and I'm good to go. Then again, I venture to guess I'm a tad older than you and am a tad more set in my ways......I'm all about experimentation in the bedroom, don't get me wrong, I eat that sh*t up, but just between me and her and no 3rd parties. But, to each his or her own....