Anal: it's all in the mood

[Brandon85]

A few cocktails doesn't help your chance putting your cock in her tail??? Maybe one day she'll come around.

And yes, she is a very horny woman. So much so that she is almost always undressed before I am and am tugging my cock to get him hard even faster for sex.

I got a blow job from her once (as no woman has given me what I consider a full deep throat) but now receive head on occasion. Again, not complaining. But would love a full deep throat just once more in my life.

 

[Mrs H&D]

I don't want to be a part pooper or anything, but I just don't understand how some people are so eager to have anal? Doesn't it smell? And I see so much about "flicking assholes" on here. How do you possibly put up with the taste? Granted I've never tried any of it, but it doesn't seem like much fun to me.

Understandable comment. For one, anal is very tight it seems, I feel it and I think hubs would agree. 99.9% of the time there is no smell or taste if your partner cares for themselves. Some people make sure their colon is 'empty'. Others enema on purpose to ensure cleansing.

"Flicking assholes"....what's that? Is it literally flicking an asshole? I can't help but laugh at that. Doesn't sound like fun.

If you haven't tried it, then don't knock it.

 

[Ivor]

At least she said she will do it with me wearing a condom. But then she quickly changed her mind saying that she has never had me wear one and wouldn't start just for anal. Which, I think, means no anal.

I don't think there's any particular reason to use condoms for anal if you don't use them for regular sex. You shouldn't have to worry about mess if she's generally healthy in that area and has been to the toilet in the past hour or two.

 

[Ivor]

I don't want to be a part pooper or anything, but I just don't understand how some people are so eager to have anal? Doesn't it smell?

Not usually, no.

And I see so much about "flicking assholes" on here. How do you possibly put up with the taste? Granted I've never tried any of it, but it doesn't seem like much fun to me.

Uh, I guess you probably mean 'licking'...and no, there's no taste, as long as your partner is squeaky clean. A lot of people do it when they're fresh from the bath or shower.

Ass-play is a bit like blue cheese: kind of a gross idea, when you get down to it, and a lot of people won't go near on principle - but once you've tried it properly, you can be hooked.

 

[Mrs H&D]

Ass-play is a bit like blue cheese: kind of a gross idea, when you get down to it, and a lot of people won't go near on principle - but once you've tried it properly, you can be hooked.

What a hilarious way to describe it. But it's true.

 

[Batwoman]

Anal can be fabulous, but it's definitely true: the receiver has to want it. Once I learned how great it could be, I have definitely wanted more!

 

[CUSP82]

Oh my, time for a rum!

 

[Mrs H&D]

And yes, she is a very horny woman. So much so that she is almost always undressed before I am and am tugging my cock to get him hard even faster for sex.

I got a blow job from her once (as no woman has given me what I consider a full deep throat) but now receive head on occasion. Again, not complaining. But would love a full deep throat just once more in my life.

Full deep throat....its certainly possible. She just needs to work on her gag reflex.

 

[CUSP82]

Ok more rum! Oh my my!!!!!!!

 

[rbi99]

I haven't done anal with my wife, but recently I started to experiment using her dildo on myself. I have sometimes wondered how it felt to be on the receiving side of the penetration. I should add that the whole idea of trying what I did was completely repulsive to me in years past. At work I made no pretense to the fact that I would never have anal sex. With that as a background it wasn't like I jumped at this with great expectations or anything. Once I decided to try it, it took about a week to get it in fully, then about another week to reach the point were I can do anything I want with it even though it is 6" of girth. Two things I learned should the time ever come for my wife to insert it in me (or a guy who is about to enter his wife/gf anally) is this: assuming you or her went to the john and cleaned up prior, the receiver should use a dildo on themselves in private to really loosen things up, and if there is any feces still in their rectum it will most likely all come out when the dildo is removed. Anal sex following that is very straight forward, and the chances of things staying clean when done is greatly enhanced. Once I first get the dildo in (it takes perhaps two or three minutes from a cold start), I can do whatever I want from that point on.

A partner worrying about how her partner is going to enter her will not have any problems if she first puts her dildo inside herself in private, taking all of the time she needs. He will almost easily be able to enter her after that. If your partner is thinking about trying it for the first time, teaching herself how to do it using a dildo will make it so much easier for her the first time she has her man enter her. She will learn what hurts, how to stop the hurting, what things feel like as it enters her deeper and deeper, etc. She will have a very sound idea of what is going to happen even before and as it does, which will greatly reduce many if not all of her fears or anxieties. You now add the intimacy of the two of you and it takes it to a whole new level.

 

[Brandon85]

I don't think there's any particular reason to use condoms for anal if you don't use them for regular sex. You shouldn't have to worry about mess if she's generally healthy in that area and has been to the toilet in the past hour or two.

Her concern was the 'mess' from me cumming inside of her anally. I am a little puzzled by this as she seems to love my cum inside of her vagina. So much so that she gets a little annoyed if I pull out too fast and some cum spills out before she can plug herself up to keep me in her. She will at times, unplug herself when she is somewhere public and let some of my cum run down her leg. If I am not with her, she will text to tell me that she is dripping. Which is pretty hot to me.

I would be surprised if it was a prudish thing.

 

[Brandon85]

Full deep throat....its certainly possible. She just needs to work on her gag reflex.

She has deep throated me once...I think. I don't know if it was full deep throat but it felt like it and was pretty amazing.

She stopped because she developed a nasty painful click in her jaw joints and will now give me head every so often. And I am not complaining at all about getting head.

 

[Batwoman]

Her concern was the 'mess' from me cumming inside of her anally. I am a little puzzled by this as she seems to love my cum inside of her vagina. So much so that she gets a little annoyed if I pull out too fast and some cum spills out before she can plug herself up to keep me in her. She will at times, unplug herself when she is somewhere public and let some of my cum run down her leg. If I am not with her, she will text to tell me that she is dripping. Which is pretty hot to me.

I would be surprised if it was a prudish thing.

There is no mess from having a man cum in your ass. The anal sphincter is well-designed to keep what is inside inside, if you know what I mean, until it is time to defecate.

Personal clean-up after anal sex is very straightforward: take a shower. For us ladies, the hours afterwards are even cleaner than after vaginal sex, since there is no dribbling cum to deal with as you get dressed and walk around afterwards.

 

[CUSP82]

Is it too early to drink? Hell it's got to be 5 o'clock somewhere!

 

[rbi99]

Is it too early to drink? Hell it's got to be 5 o'clock somewhere!

Cusp, you need to stop reading all of these pornographic posts - it's killing you (or at least your liver)!!!

 

[benschmidt]

I dub thee Sir Osis, of Liverpool.

 

[Ivor]

I haven't done anal with my wife, but recently I started to experiment using her dildo on myself. I have sometimes wondered how it felt to be on the receiving side of the penetration. I should add that the whole idea of trying what I did was completely repulsive to me in years past. At work I made no pretense to the fact that I would never have anal sex. With that as a background it wasn't like I jumped at this with great expectations or anything. Once I decided to try it, it took about a week to get it in fully, then about another week to reach the point were I can do anything I want with it even though it is 6" of girth. Two things I learned should the time ever come for my wife to insert it in me (or a guy who is about to enter his wife/gf anally) is this: assuming you or her went to the john and cleaned up prior, the receiver should use a dildo on themselves in private to really loosen things up, and if there is any feces still in their rectum it will most likely all come out when the dildo is removed. Anal sex following that is very straight forward, and the chances of things staying clean when done is greatly enhanced. Once I first get the dildo in (it takes perhaps two or three minutes from a cold start), I can do whatever I want from that point on.

A partner worrying about how her partner is going to enter her will not have any problems if she first puts her dildo inside herself in private, taking all of the time she needs. He will almost easily be able to enter her after that. If your partner is thinking about trying it for the first time, teaching herself how to do it using a dildo will make it so much easier for her the first time she has her man enter her. She will learn what hurts, how to stop the hurting, what things feel like as it enters her deeper and deeper, etc. She will have a very sound idea of what is going to happen even before and as it does, which will greatly reduce many if not all of her fears or anxieties. You now add the intimacy of the two of you and it takes it to a whole new level.

Interesting that you've experimented on yourself without yet going down that route with your wife! (What sort of work do you do, btw? I can't really imagine having this kind of conversation with my colleagues, I have to say...)

I don't think it's strictly necessary to get dildos involved, I mean for one thing it's just more stuff to wash up - I generally find a finger does the trick. Last night my girlfriend was really in the mood, and we started out with me just nudging the head around while she used a small vibrator on her clit. She actually told me to go straight in after a while, although I applied some lube with my finger before going in properly. And yes, she came like absolute crazy.

 

[Ivor]

There is no mess from having a man cum in your ass. The anal sphincter is well-designed to keep what is inside inside, if you know what I mean, until it is time to defecate.

Personal clean-up after anal sex is very straightforward: take a shower. For us ladies, the hours afterwards are even cleaner than after vaginal sex, since there is no dribbling cum to deal with as you get dressed and walk around afterwards.

I love it that the implication here is that you have a quick mid-morning buttfuck and then shower, dress and get on with your day, rather than doing it at night and then going to sleep.

 

[Batwoman]

I agree with Ivor. All my early experimentation with anal was with fingers (his and mine) which was both fun and productive in terms of getting me used to the sensations and ready for more serious penetration.

We have also used butt plugs as a way to prepare. Like a dildo, a butt plug can aide with stretching and relaxing prior to anal sex.... and can be arousing to wear during other activities (e.g., oral sex or even vaginal intercourse). I have also worn a butt plug around for a few hours ahead of time, so he and I would both know what was coming. Rather fun but more about mental preparation than physical, really. (The butt plug I am talking about here is not a huge one, just a small one).

As for getting clean ahead of time, I just use my fingers and a moist washcloth.

 

[CUSP82]

So what's for breakfast? Sorry wrong thread.