royally fucked up last night

[phil88]

Last night just did not go well. One of my really old good friends screwed me over in a way I never expected. Stabbed me in the back, and he is one of the few people I actually trusted, seriously there is like 3 of them and he was one.... on top of that the girl I have been on here whining about lately has a boyfriend and he came into my place of work last night. He doesnt know me, I am not aloud to have contact with him lol, but last night I was just in a really bad mood. I walked by him bumped him and spilled his drunk and when he asked what my problem was I told him to go and fuck himself. So he punched me in the face and dropped me (hes a bigger guy and had some serious weight behind him). I get up and kick him in the knee, he buckles and I jumped on him and kicked the sh*t out of him, I think I broke his nose lol. Anyways after that I left work and called up this girl who my aforementioned friend has been working on for about a month. Sure enough she was happy to hear from me and would love to see me, so I went to her place and we had sex.

Here is where the problem lies, today I am sober, I am supposed to see that girl again on thursday, but I dont want to, i feel bad for using her and screwing my friend over, also if that guy tells Alyssa where he got into the fight she might put it all together and realize what happened. So what should I do? Tell Alyssa and said friend I screwed him over and beat up her boyfriend? Or just leave it since he screwed me over first and technically I did not start the fight.....

 

[Always Ready Brek]

just come out with it and tell all of em you fucked up. Also if you respect your buddy you probably shouldnt go out with that girl. But then that depends on how his is about her, how he is about those kinda things etc. As for the beating up the boyfriend thing.. Well shes going to find out it was you anyway. No matter what way you want to look at it, you started the fight. Be a man and own up to it all, either way its all going to come back to you anyway so you might as well just face it head on

 

[ErictheGed]

How did your mate screw you over? And why was the girl letting you kiss over her neck and sh*t if she had a bloke?

 

[MrBigDick]

OK, could we have all that in English please? I got lost in how everyone relates to one another.........all I got out of it was some dude got his ass kicked and then you went and fucked some other dudes girlfriend??

 

[TTBB]

One of his best mates is annoyed with him and backstabbed him
he then went to work and the girl he has been trying to have sex with has a boyfriend ..the boyfriend came in to work.. phil lost his cool and got into a fight.
then he went home and fucked a girl who i believe is attached to his best mate who backstabbed him .. so he must have been using the girl to get at his mate...

he wants to know if he should own up to the fact he is a .....

 

[vankush]

How did your friend screw you over?

Edit: Regardless, tell him what happened, apologize, and do it all sincerely. If he's really a friend you value, then it'll be much better for him to hear it from you then someone else. If he hears it from a 3rd party it'll come off a lot worse and could put some strain on your relationship which would be hard to recover from.

 

[DemOne]

Is hide in a hole a viable option?

 

[MrBigDick]

One of his best mates is annoyed with him and backstabbed him
he then went to work and the girl he has been trying to have sex with has a boyfriend ..the boyfriend came in to work.. phil lost his cool and got into a fight.
then he went home and fucked a girl who i believe is attached to his best mate who backstabbed him .. so he must have been using the girl to get at his mate...

he wants to know if he should own up to the fact he is a .....

Wow.....lol, I think I now have it. I can't believe I needed interpretation for that. So Phil kicked the crap out of the guy who has the gf that Phil wants so instead of getting her, he went and fucked the gf of the guy who fucked him over?? IF I understand this correctly. sh*t, I need a drink after all this...lmao.

Here's my 2 cents..........Two wrongs DO NOT make a right bro. I'm not sure how your best mate fucked you over but going out and fucking his gf in what I can see only as an attempt at revenge was pretty fucking low. I know in the heat of the moment, people tend to do things they will later on regret and I hope this isn't one of those situations for you.

Karma can be a serious bitch. Your best mate would've have alot of bad Karma coming to you depending on how it is he fucked you over. BUT, since you went and had sex with his gf AND beat the sh*t out of the boyfriend of the gf you've been TRYING to get with, you've now got what I can see as some double bad joo joo coming your way.

 

[TTBB]

I could be wrong but that is what is my understanding of what he wrote ..lol

 

[vankush]

I don't think it was his friend's girlfriend, just a girl his friend liked and had been "working on" (which in my experience means trying to date/hook-up with, but nothing has happened yet). Not as bad as a girlfriend but still low.

 

[TTBB]

Yes i would agree .. i chose the word 'attached' because it could be an emotional attachment like a crush...its a girl that his friend has feelings for... its still very low

 

[ErictheGed]

Yeah come clean with your pal anyway. He can then decide if his chick is a slut or not. And is the girl you fucked in the car the same one with the bf? So shes a slut too?! Also watch your back for the bf coming for you, that one might not be over!

 

[GTO]

Also watch your back for the bf coming for you, that one might not be over!

Grow eyes in back of your head ...

 

[phil88]

No the boyfriend is that of the girl I lost my virginity to. The situation is complicated, but its another one I screwed up . The girl who works at the bar is not a part of this. I am not gonna say what my friend did, but it was fucking low. He does not give a sh*t about the girl, he will care about the respect aspect. Hes an ass when it comes to women. She knows he is a player in the stereotypical sense and thats why its taken him this long to get anywhere.

 

[phil88]

One of his best mates is annoyed with him and backstabbed him

lol because obviously I did something to annoy him in the first place. I mean knowing me, I have to be in the wrong. About right? lol

 

[Ongekibou]

Well, the way the story tells it, while you were hostile towards him, he was the aggressor. As far as I'm aware, you're in the right.

Crushes mean nothing (c'mon, they're just physical attraction signs. Hence "celebrity crushes"), and if this friend screwed you over, he probably deserved what you did to him... which seems to be nothing.

Eh, whatever, if you wanna angst, go ahead and angst. But in a crapsack world such as this one, pick the right stuff to angst about... murder, rape, deforestation...

 

[GTO]

No the boyfriend is that of the girl I lost my virginity to. The situation is complicated, but its another one I screwed up . The girl who works at the bar is not a part of this. I am not gonna say what my friend did, but it was fucking low. He does not give a sh*t about the girl, he will care about the respect aspect. Hes an ass when it comes to women. She knows he is a player in the stereotypical sense and thats why its taken him this long to get anywhere.

So if the guy isn't all that into the girl, what's the big deal there? I would think that would be negligible then ...

 

[TTBB]

lol because obviously I did something to annoy him in the first place. I mean knowing me, I have to be in the wrong. About right? lol

Nope.. said it because generally when back stabbing happens the person who does it has resentment and annoyance towards the person they do it towards.. it can be based on a something very small or something big .. the person might not even know that is why they did because it..which is why sometimes people don't have a good reason for it.

 

[phil88]

Nope.. said it because generally when back stabbing happens the person who does it has resentment and annoyance towards the person they do it towards.. it can be based on a something very small or something big .. the person might not even know that is why they did because it..which is why sometimes people don't have a good reason for it.

yup i get it, i am an asshole. i really only need to be told only so many times though.....

 

[DemOne]

So, I gotta ask. After bumping into a co-workers boyfriend, spilling his drink, then telling him to go fuck himself before getting into a fight with him, do you still have a job after that?