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Hi there. Im 21, and I cum fast a fuck. As far as I can remember, I always came really fast.
To have an idea of what im talking about, i'll try to describe it step by step:
1) Put on some porn
2) We start counting here, clock at 0:00 till around 1:30 where im hard
3) Now, im hard enough to be able to masturbate, so I start stroking, lets say, for 10, 20, 30 seconds
4) We are now around 1:50-2:00, where I guarantee I already had to stop any stimulation to avoid cumming. I have to STOP. Any contact with my penis when I feel like im about to cum would in fact make me start ejaculating, including leaving your hand there without stroking. Same goes for the PC muscle. I have to keep it relaxed. If I try to contract it, or do anything fancy with it, what I would do is start ejaculating.
5) I stop all stimulation for about 20 seconds, 30. So we are now at around 2:30. Cock went now semi-erect
6) I start stroking again, for lets say, 10, 20, 30 seconds. So we are at around 2:50
7) I feel like im cumming so I have to stop any stimulation.
Notice the loop?
After years and years of trying to do something with it, nothing worked. I can't get past that loop. I can't last longer than that before feeling that really pleasing feeling on the prostate zone that forces you to flex your PC muscle because the pleasure is not bearable anymore, and if you flex it, you cum. If I stop stimulation, as you can see, nothing changes, since soon (10 or 20 seconds) i'll be on that same point of "im about to cum" again, so sex is unviable, since just by having my cock inside a girls pussy would be enough to make me cum when I reach that point. When I say I have to stop ALL stimulation I mean ALL of it, as I said, including not leaving your hand there. The constant contact with the vaginal walls, temperature, the little vaginal contractions, vaginal juices... all of that is enough stimulation to make me cum, so I can't fuck. Yeah, I can't have sex.
Let me tell you, sometimes i've managed to cum semi erect. More flacid than erect. See point 5. When I get there and I stop, rest for around 30 seconds where it goes semi erect, then continue, I sometimes managed to cum after 20 or 30 seconds when I started to jerk off again. The shaft wasn't even able to get erect on that little time but I felt like fucking cumming again.
I also managed to stop ejaculation by flexing my PC muscle at the right time, but this doesn't help much. This would be helpful for normal people who feel like cuming every 4, 5 or 6 minutes. This is definitely not useable if you feel like cuming practically constantly. In fact it doesn't work if you don't stop all stimulation as well when you do the flexing. Example: Im hard as fuck reaching point 5, where I have to stop all stimulation. I decide to flex it before ejaculating, and if I don't get my hand out of my dick, I would cum anyway, sometimes managing a retrograde ejaculation, where I keep flexing hard as fuck while I feel the little contractions that you do in regular ejaculation, but without ejaculating. This is a pretty retarded thing to do, since you lose your bonner anyway.
Sometimes i've been able to do this like 3 or 4 times in a row. I don't know if this constitutes as being multiorgasmic, but as I said, it's pretty retarded since in real life situation: With a girl, having sex, you would FAIL.
As I said, the thing is, when I do that flexing right at the point of no return and I get a retro-ejaculation, feels like an orgasm, not as awesomely good as just letting yourself go and having a proper orgasm with ejaculation tho. Anyway, so as I said after the retro-ejaculation thing, your bonner fades a lot. So you are with a semi-boner. Definitely you don't feel as if you had a normal orgasm with ejaculation, you still feel like you didn't lost all your hornyness so to speak, but your penis is semi-erect and, if you are not pretty big (like me) it's pretty un-useable. What happens if I continue jerking off at this point is the following: If I don't rest like 30 or 40 seconds, and I inmediately after the retro-orgasm continue jerking off with the semi-boner state, I would cum pretty much inmediately, because my cock is still somehow in orgasm state, having those little involuntary PC muscle spasms that you get after ejaculating. So what I do is stopping for 30 or 40 seconds till this tingling sensation fades a bit. Then, I continue jerking off in semi-erect status, and im able to make it a bit harder again and reach another retro-orgasm if I decide to do a PC flex again when im about to cum. This takes like 40 or 50 seconds, not sure. If I flex again when im about to cum, same will happen, but this time, the semi-bonner will be much poorer, and it will take a bit longer (not too much tho) to be able to retro-ejaculate again. As I said I managed to have like 4 or 5 orgasms like this in the shower in no less than 5 minutes.
Again, this is simply not useable during sex. It's a waste of time. During sex you wouldn't be able to stop every fucking 20 or 30 seconds for half a minute, because the girl would simply get pissed off at you (that is if you didn't came when you tried to flex the PC muscle and stop the ejaculation inside her vagina, and I guarantee you I would came). And it doesn't even feel that good. I would prefeer to be able to have my cock fully erect and be able to stroke it as much as I want for at least 5 fucking minutes. This translates as being sexually functional, in other words being able to at least fuck a girl for 5 minutes. Im not.
Okay lets get straight to the point: I cum really fast. Things i've tried:
-I've tried Kegel routines, reverse Kegels, superKegels, etc. Never worked. My PC muscle is strong enough to be flexed for a minute straight if I tried.
-Trying to fuck/masturbate with your PC muscle totally relaxed: Doesn't work. The sensation of "omfg, im about to cum" will be there, and when it's there, i'll fucking flex it involuntarily if I don't stop all stimulation because the pleasure is way too much.
-Edging. I've been doing this forever. Always trying to spend at least 30 minutes in a fap session, never cum too fast. But again, read the 7 steps I described. Im still at that 30-50 second margin loop, so no progress done.
So now I ask: What is there for me left to try?
You know what. God or whoever that cunt up there is has a sense of humor. So he gives me the ability to attract girls easily. Tick there. He gives me the ability to bring these girls to bed. Tick there. He gives me a 5.9 inch penis that is 3.9 flacid (so be sure to not get your pants down unless you at least have a semiboner), with premature ejaculation to boot. FML
The last thing I can think about that has something to do with my premature ejaculation is my frenulum being short. My penis is uncut, so I have the foresking intact. I can get my foreskin all the way back down flacid, but when its fully erect, I can't without the frenulum being really tight. I can pull the foreskin back down the glans if im holding it with my hand and putting presure down, but since at this point the frenulum is really tight, if I stop holding it with my hand the foreskin go up and cover at least half the gland. This, besides being annoying as fuck and having the risk of tearing your frenulum, makes for a less aesthetically pleasing cock.
Another thing I hate about my cock is my curvature. It's curved like 40 degrees or so to the left, which also kills the aesthetics of your cock and makes it look smaller. Also it's pretty anoying because the girl wouldn't be able to blowjob you nohands, since she would always need to hold it with a hand to avoid it falling down to the left.
The way the curvature is done and the way the frenulum curves aswell makes me think that the curvature is a result of having a short frenulum and during development the shaft curved.
Anyway, the main problem is not being able to fuck, and here is some medical research that link frenulum breve with premature ejaculation:
The only thing that scares me about the surgery is the unaesthetic marks/bumps that may result from it. I've heard people talking about some disgusting bump in the frenulum area after the surgery. Anyone got the surgery done and can comment on results?
What method did the surgeon use? Afaik there are 3: scalp, electric-scalp and laser. Whats the best one? (whats the one that leaves less marks). Can't find much information on this out there.
Also something very interesting i've found is this method:
Tying Up the Frenulum
The pictures are impressive. I can't see the frenulum anymore, and I can't see any ugly bump or scar, looks great.
The problem is I've *never* heard anyone talking about that method, and theres no fucking way im doing it to myself, even if its "simple". Do you think urologist are aware of this method? If so, why the hell aren't they applying this by default to everyone? For me aesthetics are as important as functionability. It pisses me off a lot that it seems that unless you aren't a porn actor or something it doesn't matter if they leave you an ugly bump or scars and you aren't allowed to complain. I want my penis looking as good as possible, fuck. Im sure everyone with a penis wants that.
Im going to an urologist soon. I've never been to one. I will tell him (or her, I hope. Why the fuck there aren't hot girls as urologists) about my frenulum problem, then I'll tell him I cum really fast, if both problems are linked and so on. Embarrasing as fuck but I can't take it anymore. I hope something can be done about it, otherwise im not sure what im going to do. A life without being able to please a girl is not a life, but a cognitive hell of frustration.
Im young and im not interested in relationships. Im interested in having sex with hot girls. I can't do this and feels really bad. Feels even worse knowing that your only problem is that, because you can attract girls easily, but can't deliver good sex.
PS: Im really interested in Penis Enlargement in general. Im wanting to start exercising so I recently started with the newbie routine off Thundersplace. I do them at the shower with really hot water to warm up. It's basically 5 minutes of warm up, 10 minutes of stretching, 10 minutes of jelqing, warm up again. The problem is I can't be on the shower for 20 minutes because my parents would think im retarded, so I stretch and do the jelqings when im here on the computer. Is there any problem with this? Another problem I have is that when stretching, it's really difficult for me to hold the penis in order to make a proper stretch. I think its all the frenulum's fault. It's REALLY annoying because since it's tight it can hurt and the foreskin gets on the way. What I do to stretch is, when totally flacid, I retract the foresking all the way down, put the "OK" grip with my fingers under right under the glands and stretch the fuck out of it. Is this correct? The most effective stretch I can do is if I pull down or front. If I pull up i can't hold it for 30 seconds, my fingers slide throught the gland.
While jeling I have a similar problem. Due my curvature and short frenulum the foreskin gets stuck under the gland when im making presure from the base till the top and it hurts. Can you grow the same if you only use the "C" finger position? With that grip I have no problem making hard presure and doing the full motion.
Also, what intensitiy do you have to apply to your stretching/jelqing? I've heard specially when stretching you have to pull real hard. It has to hurt so the ligaments break in order to grow. Is this right?
I guess all information is helpful so, my diet: Is basically a mediterranean diet. Im a rather skinny guy but im pretty lean. The food I eat is all good stuff my mom cooks. I never eat fast food. I don't smoke and I don't drink alcohol. I lift some weights (btw, can you do your enlargement exercises just after lifting weights? as I said I like to do em in the shower after lifting. Any conflict with this?). Post workout I usually dinner + a banana.
PS2: I've read so many people here that sound really wise when it comes to premature ejaculation and penis-related stuff in general at a chemical level, so i have to mention that I grow a pretty ridiculous amount of leg and arm hair. More than my father and im only 21. Can this be related to anything? Im also losing hair on my head. I mean, im NOT going bald, but I have a little widow peak (a bit weird, the left side is deeper than the right side), not noticeable due my haircut, but its there. I visited a dermatologist and said it was normal, that some people have a widow peak naturally but that doesn't mean you are going bald anytime soon. My dad is bald but hes near 60, but he had hair at 35 so I shouldn't be too worried I guess until I start getting old as fuck. All family members mom-related have hair (even my grandfather) so I hope I got their genes hair-related.
The dermatologist gave me a Minoxidil Lacovin 2% and some shampoo that I still haven't tried, because I wanted more information before I put anything on my hair. Anyone has any experiences with Minoxidil Lacovin 2%?
Well thats all for now. Sorry for the massive rant but im really pissed. We'll see how it goes when I visit the urologist and stuff. I guess he maybe will mention anti-depressants to try to last longer. That is the last thing I would resort to, but well, theres nothing much to do if after the frenulum surgery im still cuming as fast. The thought of depending on pills the rest of your life in order to have sex is pretty shitty. Side-effects also bother me. I've heard they can be really expensive aswell. Here in the country where I live, there used to be this pill named "Priligy" (not sure if someone is familiar with it), it got pretty hyped here as "a cure for premature ejaculation", later proved to be pretty meh when it comes to results, and side effects included pretty serious stuff like fainting (I guess that would be a rare case but still). I think it basically was dapoxetina and who the fuck knows what else (I guess you can find it in Google). You'll need the doc permision to be able to buy it, and it's fucking 34€/box, 3 FUCKING PILLS PER BOX! They want to get rich out of fucking premature ejaculators. It's crazy. We'll I don't know what they are prescribing nowadays to fight premature ejaculation, let's wait and see what the urologist offers for a solution.
Btw, I once readed some guy who bought some Kamagra (apparently a cheaper Viagra) just to try out of disspair. Popped a pill of that and besides lasting a bit longer, he was hard as fuck for hours. Even if you ejaculated after one minute, you would go on continuing. Anyone has any information on that one? I think it would be kinda sad relying on Viagra-ish pills at 21, but what the fuck. If anything else works, I'll end up giving a try to anything.
I'll keep you guys updated if anyone cares when I visit the urologist. Thanks for any help/advice.
To have an idea of what im talking about, i'll try to describe it step by step:
1) Put on some porn
2) We start counting here, clock at 0:00 till around 1:30 where im hard
3) Now, im hard enough to be able to masturbate, so I start stroking, lets say, for 10, 20, 30 seconds
4) We are now around 1:50-2:00, where I guarantee I already had to stop any stimulation to avoid cumming. I have to STOP. Any contact with my penis when I feel like im about to cum would in fact make me start ejaculating, including leaving your hand there without stroking. Same goes for the PC muscle. I have to keep it relaxed. If I try to contract it, or do anything fancy with it, what I would do is start ejaculating.
5) I stop all stimulation for about 20 seconds, 30. So we are now at around 2:30. Cock went now semi-erect
6) I start stroking again, for lets say, 10, 20, 30 seconds. So we are at around 2:50
7) I feel like im cumming so I have to stop any stimulation.
Notice the loop?
After years and years of trying to do something with it, nothing worked. I can't get past that loop. I can't last longer than that before feeling that really pleasing feeling on the prostate zone that forces you to flex your PC muscle because the pleasure is not bearable anymore, and if you flex it, you cum. If I stop stimulation, as you can see, nothing changes, since soon (10 or 20 seconds) i'll be on that same point of "im about to cum" again, so sex is unviable, since just by having my cock inside a girls pussy would be enough to make me cum when I reach that point. When I say I have to stop ALL stimulation I mean ALL of it, as I said, including not leaving your hand there. The constant contact with the vaginal walls, temperature, the little vaginal contractions, vaginal juices... all of that is enough stimulation to make me cum, so I can't fuck. Yeah, I can't have sex.
Let me tell you, sometimes i've managed to cum semi erect. More flacid than erect. See point 5. When I get there and I stop, rest for around 30 seconds where it goes semi erect, then continue, I sometimes managed to cum after 20 or 30 seconds when I started to jerk off again. The shaft wasn't even able to get erect on that little time but I felt like fucking cumming again.
I also managed to stop ejaculation by flexing my PC muscle at the right time, but this doesn't help much. This would be helpful for normal people who feel like cuming every 4, 5 or 6 minutes. This is definitely not useable if you feel like cuming practically constantly. In fact it doesn't work if you don't stop all stimulation as well when you do the flexing. Example: Im hard as fuck reaching point 5, where I have to stop all stimulation. I decide to flex it before ejaculating, and if I don't get my hand out of my dick, I would cum anyway, sometimes managing a retrograde ejaculation, where I keep flexing hard as fuck while I feel the little contractions that you do in regular ejaculation, but without ejaculating. This is a pretty retarded thing to do, since you lose your bonner anyway.
Sometimes i've been able to do this like 3 or 4 times in a row. I don't know if this constitutes as being multiorgasmic, but as I said, it's pretty retarded since in real life situation: With a girl, having sex, you would FAIL.
As I said, the thing is, when I do that flexing right at the point of no return and I get a retro-ejaculation, feels like an orgasm, not as awesomely good as just letting yourself go and having a proper orgasm with ejaculation tho. Anyway, so as I said after the retro-ejaculation thing, your bonner fades a lot. So you are with a semi-boner. Definitely you don't feel as if you had a normal orgasm with ejaculation, you still feel like you didn't lost all your hornyness so to speak, but your penis is semi-erect and, if you are not pretty big (like me) it's pretty un-useable. What happens if I continue jerking off at this point is the following: If I don't rest like 30 or 40 seconds, and I inmediately after the retro-orgasm continue jerking off with the semi-boner state, I would cum pretty much inmediately, because my cock is still somehow in orgasm state, having those little involuntary PC muscle spasms that you get after ejaculating. So what I do is stopping for 30 or 40 seconds till this tingling sensation fades a bit. Then, I continue jerking off in semi-erect status, and im able to make it a bit harder again and reach another retro-orgasm if I decide to do a PC flex again when im about to cum. This takes like 40 or 50 seconds, not sure. If I flex again when im about to cum, same will happen, but this time, the semi-bonner will be much poorer, and it will take a bit longer (not too much tho) to be able to retro-ejaculate again. As I said I managed to have like 4 or 5 orgasms like this in the shower in no less than 5 minutes.
Again, this is simply not useable during sex. It's a waste of time. During sex you wouldn't be able to stop every fucking 20 or 30 seconds for half a minute, because the girl would simply get pissed off at you (that is if you didn't came when you tried to flex the PC muscle and stop the ejaculation inside her vagina, and I guarantee you I would came). And it doesn't even feel that good. I would prefeer to be able to have my cock fully erect and be able to stroke it as much as I want for at least 5 fucking minutes. This translates as being sexually functional, in other words being able to at least fuck a girl for 5 minutes. Im not.
Okay lets get straight to the point: I cum really fast. Things i've tried:
-I've tried Kegel routines, reverse Kegels, superKegels, etc. Never worked. My PC muscle is strong enough to be flexed for a minute straight if I tried.
-Trying to fuck/masturbate with your PC muscle totally relaxed: Doesn't work. The sensation of "omfg, im about to cum" will be there, and when it's there, i'll fucking flex it involuntarily if I don't stop all stimulation because the pleasure is way too much.
-Edging. I've been doing this forever. Always trying to spend at least 30 minutes in a fap session, never cum too fast. But again, read the 7 steps I described. Im still at that 30-50 second margin loop, so no progress done.
So now I ask: What is there for me left to try?
You know what. God or whoever that cunt up there is has a sense of humor. So he gives me the ability to attract girls easily. Tick there. He gives me the ability to bring these girls to bed. Tick there. He gives me a 5.9 inch penis that is 3.9 flacid (so be sure to not get your pants down unless you at least have a semiboner), with premature ejaculation to boot. FML
The last thing I can think about that has something to do with my premature ejaculation is my frenulum being short. My penis is uncut, so I have the foresking intact. I can get my foreskin all the way back down flacid, but when its fully erect, I can't without the frenulum being really tight. I can pull the foreskin back down the glans if im holding it with my hand and putting presure down, but since at this point the frenulum is really tight, if I stop holding it with my hand the foreskin go up and cover at least half the gland. This, besides being annoying as fuck and having the risk of tearing your frenulum, makes for a less aesthetically pleasing cock.
Another thing I hate about my cock is my curvature. It's curved like 40 degrees or so to the left, which also kills the aesthetics of your cock and makes it look smaller. Also it's pretty anoying because the girl wouldn't be able to blowjob you nohands, since she would always need to hold it with a hand to avoid it falling down to the left.
The way the curvature is done and the way the frenulum curves aswell makes me think that the curvature is a result of having a short frenulum and during development the shaft curved.
Anyway, the main problem is not being able to fuck, and here is some medical research that link frenulum breve with premature ejaculation:
My last resort is getting a frenulum surgery. I have to do this anyway since I fear its going to get teared since its a bit short. As I said, I can get the foreskin all the way back, but at this point is already tense and I get that sort of skin ring at the bottom of my glands (get the idea right, it's not a phimotic ring case, is just that remaning skin gets stuck there because I can retract it fully due the frenulum being too short). I hope that I get rid of some sensitivity aswell since i obviously have way too much. I've also heard people talking about getting a little bonus in lenght, so I guess nothing bad can come out of it.Wabrek and Wabrek.*
Dyspareunia
Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy Spring 1975: Vol.1, No.3, Pages: 234-41
"A tight frenulum can also cause dyspareunia. In the course of healing, scar tissue forms which shortens the frenulum even more and predisposes it to even more tearing and scarring, and a vicious cycle is set up."
*Sometimes it leads to premature ejaculation.*
S. Rejasse
Ejaculation prématurée - (French text)
Premature Ejaculation
J Urol (Paris) 1987;93(9-10):557-60
"There is nothing which leads to premature ejaculation more often than in those specific cases where the frenulum of the prepuce is too short. If it is still present following the first sexual encounters this anomaly frequently leads to premature ejaculation, however it is easy to cure under local anaesthetic without being admitted to hospital. Therefore it is the responsibility of every doctor and surgeon to detect this and to enquire after the sexuality of the man concerned, because most of the time, the patient himself will not dare confront the problem. In this matter the doctor has a truly prophylactic role in averting a catastrophic development."
The only thing that scares me about the surgery is the unaesthetic marks/bumps that may result from it. I've heard people talking about some disgusting bump in the frenulum area after the surgery. Anyone got the surgery done and can comment on results?
What method did the surgeon use? Afaik there are 3: scalp, electric-scalp and laser. Whats the best one? (whats the one that leaves less marks). Can't find much information on this out there.
Also something very interesting i've found is this method:
Tying Up the Frenulum
The pictures are impressive. I can't see the frenulum anymore, and I can't see any ugly bump or scar, looks great.
The problem is I've *never* heard anyone talking about that method, and theres no fucking way im doing it to myself, even if its "simple". Do you think urologist are aware of this method? If so, why the hell aren't they applying this by default to everyone? For me aesthetics are as important as functionability. It pisses me off a lot that it seems that unless you aren't a porn actor or something it doesn't matter if they leave you an ugly bump or scars and you aren't allowed to complain. I want my penis looking as good as possible, fuck. Im sure everyone with a penis wants that.
Im going to an urologist soon. I've never been to one. I will tell him (or her, I hope. Why the fuck there aren't hot girls as urologists) about my frenulum problem, then I'll tell him I cum really fast, if both problems are linked and so on. Embarrasing as fuck but I can't take it anymore. I hope something can be done about it, otherwise im not sure what im going to do. A life without being able to please a girl is not a life, but a cognitive hell of frustration.
Im young and im not interested in relationships. Im interested in having sex with hot girls. I can't do this and feels really bad. Feels even worse knowing that your only problem is that, because you can attract girls easily, but can't deliver good sex.
PS: Im really interested in Penis Enlargement in general. Im wanting to start exercising so I recently started with the newbie routine off Thundersplace. I do them at the shower with really hot water to warm up. It's basically 5 minutes of warm up, 10 minutes of stretching, 10 minutes of jelqing, warm up again. The problem is I can't be on the shower for 20 minutes because my parents would think im retarded, so I stretch and do the jelqings when im here on the computer. Is there any problem with this? Another problem I have is that when stretching, it's really difficult for me to hold the penis in order to make a proper stretch. I think its all the frenulum's fault. It's REALLY annoying because since it's tight it can hurt and the foreskin gets on the way. What I do to stretch is, when totally flacid, I retract the foresking all the way down, put the "OK" grip with my fingers under right under the glands and stretch the fuck out of it. Is this correct? The most effective stretch I can do is if I pull down or front. If I pull up i can't hold it for 30 seconds, my fingers slide throught the gland.
While jeling I have a similar problem. Due my curvature and short frenulum the foreskin gets stuck under the gland when im making presure from the base till the top and it hurts. Can you grow the same if you only use the "C" finger position? With that grip I have no problem making hard presure and doing the full motion.
Also, what intensitiy do you have to apply to your stretching/jelqing? I've heard specially when stretching you have to pull real hard. It has to hurt so the ligaments break in order to grow. Is this right?
I guess all information is helpful so, my diet: Is basically a mediterranean diet. Im a rather skinny guy but im pretty lean. The food I eat is all good stuff my mom cooks. I never eat fast food. I don't smoke and I don't drink alcohol. I lift some weights (btw, can you do your enlargement exercises just after lifting weights? as I said I like to do em in the shower after lifting. Any conflict with this?). Post workout I usually dinner + a banana.
PS2: I've read so many people here that sound really wise when it comes to premature ejaculation and penis-related stuff in general at a chemical level, so i have to mention that I grow a pretty ridiculous amount of leg and arm hair. More than my father and im only 21. Can this be related to anything? Im also losing hair on my head. I mean, im NOT going bald, but I have a little widow peak (a bit weird, the left side is deeper than the right side), not noticeable due my haircut, but its there. I visited a dermatologist and said it was normal, that some people have a widow peak naturally but that doesn't mean you are going bald anytime soon. My dad is bald but hes near 60, but he had hair at 35 so I shouldn't be too worried I guess until I start getting old as fuck. All family members mom-related have hair (even my grandfather) so I hope I got their genes hair-related.
The dermatologist gave me a Minoxidil Lacovin 2% and some shampoo that I still haven't tried, because I wanted more information before I put anything on my hair. Anyone has any experiences with Minoxidil Lacovin 2%?
Well thats all for now. Sorry for the massive rant but im really pissed. We'll see how it goes when I visit the urologist and stuff. I guess he maybe will mention anti-depressants to try to last longer. That is the last thing I would resort to, but well, theres nothing much to do if after the frenulum surgery im still cuming as fast. The thought of depending on pills the rest of your life in order to have sex is pretty shitty. Side-effects also bother me. I've heard they can be really expensive aswell. Here in the country where I live, there used to be this pill named "Priligy" (not sure if someone is familiar with it), it got pretty hyped here as "a cure for premature ejaculation", later proved to be pretty meh when it comes to results, and side effects included pretty serious stuff like fainting (I guess that would be a rare case but still). I think it basically was dapoxetina and who the fuck knows what else (I guess you can find it in Google). You'll need the doc permision to be able to buy it, and it's fucking 34€/box, 3 FUCKING PILLS PER BOX! They want to get rich out of fucking premature ejaculators. It's crazy. We'll I don't know what they are prescribing nowadays to fight premature ejaculation, let's wait and see what the urologist offers for a solution.
Btw, I once readed some guy who bought some Kamagra (apparently a cheaper Viagra) just to try out of disspair. Popped a pill of that and besides lasting a bit longer, he was hard as fuck for hours. Even if you ejaculated after one minute, you would go on continuing. Anyone has any information on that one? I think it would be kinda sad relying on Viagra-ish pills at 21, but what the fuck. If anything else works, I'll end up giving a try to anything.
I'll keep you guys updated if anyone cares when I visit the urologist. Thanks for any help/advice.
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