That is just the point, if the males want it bigger by all means do it but don't foist it on us Ladies. Yes, I am sure there are some size queens out there but in my 45 years, I never had a conversation with female friends that discussed size (prior to joining PE). I never even knew that size was such big deal to the male species.
We talk about, how you treat us, your grooming, your body shape, and what great lovers you are (not size). Does he goes for foreplay, does he like cunnilingus, is he adventurous, is he kinky, that kind of crap, for some ladies the financial aspect is important and they will discuss your job, your goals, etc. Until I joined this site and started asking my friends specifically about size, we never did speak about it before.
What is the consensus among the ladies: The young ones just want a good time (and for them that does not require a big unit since most know how to get themselves off, I was not that talented at that age) and the older ones just want a working unit. LOL
Like some of the posters have indicated for us ladies sex is mostly in the brain and most of us do not have a porn movie running through it. We want to feel worshiped by you and in turn we want to do the same.
I also know that like the male member posters said NO MATTER what I said the ones hung up on the size thing are not going to listen. As I had posted a zillion times, I experienced the size difference in my life and bigger was not better due to technique.
Great news there is someone for everyone out there. Big or small just wrap your head around that and don't blame your insecurities on the females.
Do you all sit around and discuss vagina sizes?? We don't either. You talk about tits and booties, legs and we talk about butts, character,nice bodies (this description depends on the ladies some like big hairy man, some like small, etc.).
In all seriousness when you are looking at a woman that you are attracted to do you think? I wonder how big or small her vagina is? Sounds ridiculous right? Because it is.