Good morning gentleman, I hope I'm not raining on your parade, but I'm a female that would be more than happy to share my personal opinion. I can't speak for all woman of course, just what I know of myself.
I don't consider myself a size queen. I've been with men who would be considered below average and the sex was fantastic! He would joke around about his small stature and I knew he was insecure about that which broke my heart because no matter what I said or did, we all know it wont change someones personal opinion of themselves. BUT because of his perception of his cock, he really put in the effort with foreplay and longevity

I've also been with someone who was well above average, and I was left wanting more. He was, pun intended, cocky about his cock size. He must have thought his size alone was enough because our sex life lacked in the foreplay, different positions, etc. He seemed to think nothing else was needed besides a big cock. Sorry, no matter the size, but especially if on the larger size, you need water on the water slide before the ride

I admit it was somewhat painful at first, and I insisted on being on top first so that I had control of "easing" onto it. If you're large, please make sure your gentle with those ladies that may be tighter than some

and no matter what, foreplay! For the love of God it is necessary!
I would like to say too, large can be intimidating not just for sex, but personally, with having a small mouth and enjoying blow jobs, I worry I wont provide a great bj if I'm attempting to please a large cock

I'm intrigued by an above average aesthetically pleasing cock, but only if attached to someone who knows what he's doing

Hope this helps some, and I hope I didn't offend others. Not my intention.