Just so everyone knows, there is nothing you can say to Amiok to convince him he's wrong or that possibilities for success still remain open to him. Continue to try if you want, but it won't work.
The drive for success needs to come from within. Amiok seems to enjoy the challenge of telling people why he is hopeless.
I remember when I was younger and suicidal, there was nothing anyone could do to convince me my self-destructive thoughts weren't true. Me changing and striving for success had to be something "I" wanted.
People can try to help Amiok, but they seem to help him solidify his feelings.
Amiok, with enough effort, you might convince other people of the way you feel about yourself.
I remember once hearing a rich man say that the difference between a successful man and an unsuccessful man is the way he sees failure.
The successful man will take it as a learning experience and become better as a result.
The unsuccessful man will give up and go for something easier.
Food for thought.