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Day 11:
With the reintroduction of jelqing yesterday, I am hornier than a rabbit in heat. Not sure how I'm going to get through the next few days without a relapse if I feel this way the whole time.
 

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Day 14 no porn

Having a hard time getting hard enough for pe. Anyone else have this issue? How long does that phase last during this journey?
 

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I did 280 days without porn and masturbating. I ejaculated by misstake when measuting. Now I dont have the urge anymore to masturbate/watch porn. Only when i want to measure.
 

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Hang in there...you can do it...it gets easier and easier...great work!!!

I'm not having an issue not watching, I am having an issue with my poor EQ and ability to get erection for exercises. Just finished 2nd week. How long will this last for most people?
 

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Completed day 71 and on day 72

Kong I know you will be tired of this answer, but it really is totally personal. Some reboot very quickly, and some reboot slowly. To help take the frustration out of this and yet keep some PE activity focus on pelvic floor routine, and stretches. Flaccid massage is excellent also. Don't let lack of erections be a source of frustration. If your wife is willing have her help you get and maintain partial erections for jelqing. You can jelq while stimulating her orally or with one hand. There are many ways to team PE, and they can add to intimacy also.
Mostly don't let your brain convince you that you need porn. Convince your brain that you need your penis again. Stay strong brother.
 

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Completed day 71 and on day 72

Kong I know you will be tired of this answer, but it really is totally personal. Some reboot very quickly, and some reboot slowly. To help take the frustration out of this and yet keep some PE activity focus on pelvic floor routine, and stretches. Flaccid massage is excellent also. Don't let lack of erections be a source of frustration. If your wife is willing have her help you get and maintain partial erections for jelqing. You can jelq while stimulating her orally or with one hand. There are many ways to team PE, and they can add to intimacy also.
Mostly don't let your brain convince you that you need porn. Convince your brain that you need your penis again. Stay strong brother.

I have an amazing wife who knows that I do PE but doesn't know to the extent. She would absolutely help if I asked, but I'm not entirely comfortable with it. Just don't want this lasting too much longer or I'm afraid it will make me want to get back to porn just to get my rock hard erections back. If another week or two go by and I'm still like this I think I could go back.(not out of urge but wanting EQ back) I hope it doesn't take more than a month!!!
 

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I hope not also. Turn to your wife. Learn to be comfortable with yourself and open to her. About the whole PE process. It will be another positive step away from porn and into the real world. It will help with your brain also. You have nothing to be ashamed of, absolutely nothing. Share yourself completely you are perfect.
 

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It's good to be honest and realized the challenge before you...but you can do it! A lot of us are watching your progress and pulling for you to succeed.

Something worth reading to get you through the challenge!

The Slippery Slope of Pornography and the Negative Effects on Male Enhancement

Day 11:
With the reintroduction of jelqing yesterday, I am hornier than a rabbit in heat. Not sure how I'm going to get through the next few days without a relapse if I feel this way the whole time.
 

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and pulling for you to succeed.

hehehe....

On a more serious note:

Day 38. Going fine. I do have some urges on some days, but nothing too bad. Chiropractor is gonna make a killing if I keep twisting my neck looking at all the pretty girls...

Kong: Remember that this is also very much psychological. As long as you put yourself in a negative mindset, you're more likely to create the situation that you're worried about getting into. EQ will come roaring back stronger than ever, but it might take a few weeks. It's now my second time going past 30 days, and both times my EQ was weak up to week 3 or so. Now I get hard as a rock if I shake one too many times after takin' a piss. It's only a few weeks of feeling like crap, and after that period you can start giving your wife the kong dong.
 

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The past week has been an absolute joke. Both in productivity and the amount of relapses. I knew it was going to be hard but apparently i don't know myself. I had loads of excuses to make porn seem ok. Don't be fooled gentlemen! I've hit rock bottem. The whole scenario escalated to porn that does not allign with my morals.

Here goes day 1/173 of no porn/masturbation
 

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Day 39. day 5 or 6 of no MO, I can't remember. My libido is there, I just have fewer urges to get the poison out for whatever reason.
 

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Finally managed to make it to day number 2. The urges were most certainly present but i think that my 5 min meditation session gave me the strength to focus my mind on my goals. The fact that i had to work yesterday was also a factor that saved my ass. I've been "trying" to do nofap/pornfree for 3 years. I mean if i can't go past a week then i must be doing something wrong.

I wasted a lot of my time on porn during the years that matters the most (14-21). I have a long road ahead of me. One step at a time.

Here goes day 2/173 of no porn/masturbation.