The AP90 (Anti-Porn)

[Mindful_Artist]

Day number 4 for me,
No porn no matter what, one day one moment at a time.

Motivation is to change the way I look at women so I can have more enjoyable sex.

But biggest one is to continue to build a deeper and stronger connection with myself.

Stay solid like the mountain, adapting to any weather conditions . Good luck to everyone who is manifesting self improvement in their lives.

 

[MRPOPO]

day 2 no porn.

 

[kong15]

Day 18 no porn

 

[hero_man]

75/90 No Porn

 

[closed224]

Day 76, I think masturbation can be healthy. It does not have to center around thoughts of porn. Edging is better as you can train your mind/body to be ready for good sex with a real woman. If thoughts of your favorite porn are what storm through your mind during masturbation then it is best avoided until those triggers are gone.
I luckily am married to a high sex drive woman. So my urges are taken care of by her, but also I have a real person to fantasize about when edging.
Stay strong my brothers, and keep rededicating yourself if you relapse. I vote MrPopo the rededication king. Just my vote. Good job everyone, keep it up.

 

[banjilord]

I'm so happy that i feel more confident. Holding conversation with people tends to become more natural. And girls act different around me. One of my female colleagues gave me a compliment. Even tough she saw me a few weeks back with a new haircut because i obviously went to the barber. But she came up to me and said "So you've got a new haircut?" I answer "Yeah" and she responds with "it makes you look 5 years younger" with a genuine smile. I liked the compliment, normally i would shy away but this time i accepted the compliment.

The urges are most certainly present. I believe with meditation and the abillity to focus on your life goals, you will overcome your addiction.

Here goes day 4/173 of no-porn/no-masturbation.

We're aiming for greatness, gentlemen. Remember that every single action that you do, has an effect on your future self.

 

[getinbig]

Kudos to hero_man, wishful and kong! You guys are doing great and kong is building some momentum. Inertia is a good thing...once you get going, it will keep you going. Keep it up guys! I'm pulling for you!!!

74/90 No Porn

 

[Closed054]

Congratulations to everyone of you on this thread. You are strong and beautiful. Yes you can overcome addiction, One day, one minute, one second if you have to at a time. Keep going, so proud of each of you.

 

[Derock]

a friend as a joke put on a porno . I immediately averted my eyes , but I saw something ... I have to start over ...

 

[TheAnimal220]

a friend as a joke put on a porno . I immediately averted my eyes , but I saw something ... I have to start over ...

I wouldn't say that. If it wasn't your conscious decision to find such material and act upon your desires, I'd give this one a pass.

Day 42.

 

[bigbutlimp]

This a difficult one.I identify as a porn adict,and am in SLAA 12 step programme,but part of my thinks some level of this stops worse things(repression and no outlet).

Some Feminist and Christian approaches say its all bad but"all subjects fantasise"(sorry my psychobabel again).

I do eroticise so much:someone said even this site could be porn in hidden form-I dont agree,but theres a strong sexual element and it can excite me.Part of that just natural.

Im an internet addict,but paradoxicaly have no computer,so use it very little(like alcoholic acnt have drink).But when away "binge"on someone elses PC.The net is the real problem as regards porn:I dont really count published stuff like stories and cartoons,but they are dieing out.

I dont use the net at home at-all,I have a typewriter!.Sometimes I think I should never use it!.As regars por,would be great if everbody could replace it with sex based on intimacy,but this not sustainable 100 percent of the time forever-its not realistic.Men in particular(careful sexism alert!)have something "extra"(no not that!).

Best of luck to you if thats your path anyway.

 

[getinbig]

It's all about integrity. Good for you Derock! You'll be stronger and better able to overcome this darkness. Hang in there and keep focused on all the good that comes out of conquering this. Pulling for you brother.

a friend as a joke put on a porno . I immediately averted my eyes , but I saw something ... I have to start over ...

 

[kong15]

Day 19 no porn
1-EQ improving
2-libido back
3-Morning wood back

Took about 16-17 days to start to feel halfway normal again. Now I am starting to feel really good.

 

[hero_man]

76/90 No Porn

 

[MRPOPO]

Day 76, I think masturbation can be healthy. It does not have to center around thoughts of porn. Edging is better as you can train your mind/body to be ready for good sex with a real woman. If thoughts of your favorite porn are what storm through your mind during masturbation then it is best avoided until those triggers are gone.
I luckily am married to a high sex drive woman. So my urges are taken care of by her, but also I have a real person to fantasize about when edging.
Stay strong my brothers, and keep rededicating yourself if you relapse. I vote MrPopo the rededication king. Just my vote. Good job everyone, keep it up.

Haha! wishful I think you just gave me an awesome new nickname! thanks for the support brah, I've some what made progress I relapse but the time between relapses has increased quite a bit so it's good.
day 3 no porn

 

[TheAnimal220]

Day number 43.

 

[kong15]

Day 20 no porn

Very long session with the wife. Much longer than when I was watching porn and very intense orgasm. Loving this!!!!

 

[hero_man]

77/90 No Porn

 

[getinbig]

This gets better every day! Hang in there and be our hero! Pulling for you...

77/90 No Porn

 

[getinbig]

You're starting to reap the benefits. Hang in there brother...much better to focus on the real thing than garbage that is fake and only hurts your performance with your wife. Give her your best. Proud of you. Don't give up!

Day 20 no porn

Very long session with the wife. Much longer than when I was watching porn and very intense orgasm. Loving this!!!!