Hi, there! excuse my lazyness, could not read all the topic. Can someone give me some advice! I want to skip porn for some long period, but can i masturbate on my GF nude photos and our homemade sex videos? Is that porn?
Hey Jamat,
I would certainly recommend using nude pictures of either your GF or other erotic photography but use your homemade sex videos sparingly or not at all.
As a sex blogger, I understand that men are very visually-erotic. This means that when masturbating, for example, they often require some form of visual stimulation for arousal. The challenge with masturbating to porn movies (whether they are homemade or not) is that it leaves nothing to the imagination; your creative mind is not engaged and eventually it atrophies. What many “pornivores” fail to realize is that men, like women, need their imaginations to be functioning properly in order to fully engage in partner sex; otherwise sexual dysfunction can occur. Therefore, excessively masturbating to porn will not only desensitize your penis, it will desensitize your imagination - and both are required for a happy, healthy sex life.
Masturbating to erotic imagery or photography, however, WILL engage your imagination making it a safer more viable solution. Even better, of course, would be to learn to arouse yourself using just your imagination. Yes, it may be difficult; especially if you are used to porn and pictures; but certainly not impossible for men.
BTW...I created a thread offering an NLP Technique to assist in eliminating porn addiction, if you are interested.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectile-dysfunction-forum/62407-therapeutic-help-porn-addiction.html
