Squirting, give me a womens perspective on this one! :)

[Roguish75]

Thanks so much! I have seen that video. I have really tried researching as much as possible about how to master this. Apparently I need to keep practicing and just make sure she is relaxed. She really gets into writhing around and I wonder if I need to help her to just stay more relaxed?
The dream is to get things as messy as tophat has things going!

I go the total dominant route. When she gets squirmy hold her in place, force her legs apart and own that pussy. I force the squirting, I don't ask for it.

Of course I have to force it when it's ready. I work it and get it ready, both her pussy and her head, but at some point own it and make it happen. Once you've done that enough she will trust it and you, and let it happen easier; but I've had great success with numerous first timers getting them really worked up and then not giving them a choice.

 

[tophat]

Thanks so much! I have seen that video. I have really tried researching as much as possible about how to master this. Apparently I need to keep practicing and just make sure she is relaxed. She really gets into writhing around and I wonder if I need to help her to just stay more relaxed?
The dream is to get things as messy as tophat has things going!

Rubber sheets might be a smart investment ha

seriously though, the way i do it is 2 fingers inside, about 2inches up where you should feel a slightly rough spot (gspot) and use the come hither motion with a fair bit of force, you can also rub in circles. as she starts to get close i feel her push down against my fingers then its all system go, bring up the intensity with your fingers and boom, squirty squirt squirt. I really think the girl plays the big part in this though. if she isnt trying to she probably wont

 

[Vixen65]

IndianaJones,

Yup, I can relate to what you're saying. I squirted for the very first time at the age of 42, 5 years into my relationship with a FB / lover - out of nowhere there it was. We were both really confused. Next time we met it happened again, but this time I felt it was not the vaginal liquid explosion I sometimes get (is that gushing vs squirting?), and I seriously wondered whether I'd peed on myself. I was confused and embarrassed - he was confused and slightly worried. Next time I suppressed it - shifting position.

But the more I thought the more I knew it wasn't peeing. I have that same "valve" thing that guys get - if I'm aroused I can't pee (have spent many frustrated minutes trying to calm myself to pee). Don't know if all women have that, but sort of sounds like your girlfriend does since she couldn't pee.

Googled, investigated - penny dropped - could be squirting. Researched further (Red Tube more than Wiki at this stage) - yup, I'm squirting. Was then still not comfortable with it - partly due to my FBs total lack of excitement (funny scene where I stand there emphatically telling him - "listen, go and look on Red Tube").

Then that summer I had heated sex with a new lover. He loved my orgasms and got completely into the sex - which then got me really going, and I squirted. He was shocked, looked at me with wide eyes and said "did you just squirt?!" I sheepishly said yes, whereupon he literally jumped out of bed, did a victory dance (complete with bicep flexing). Back in bed he kept going on about that being every guys dream, his life-long dream, that he felt like such a high performance lover.

There and then I decided that I love it, some guys love it so I'm gonna do this despite the less positive reaction of some guys, and wiki describing it as "probably incontinence" (like hell it is - I've been pregnant and experienced the slight incontinence most pregs do - this is something completely different).

I find it interesting that your GF squirted when you were FBs, but not now. Sex is different in those two relations - when feelings are involved then a great additional element of sex is the strength of feeling. Could it be that she feels that the intensity of squirting "distracts" her from savoring the feelings? I know I can be like that in relations (vs with FBs). With me it's anal sex - never had it in a relationship, have literally begged a FB to do it.

Think now, older and wiser - and having experienced a relationship where sex fizzled out - I would do it differently.

 

[guiness73]

Rubber sheets might be a smart investment ha

seriously though, the way i do it is 2 fingers inside, about 2inches up where you should feel a slightly rough spot (gspot) and use the come hither motion with a fair bit of force, you can also rub in circles. as she starts to get close i feel her push down against my fingers then its all system go, bring up the intensity with your fingers and boom, squirty squirt squirt. I really think the girl plays the big part in this though. if she isnt trying to she probably wont

Okay, so far that's exactly what I'm doing...two fingers, circles on the gspot...maybe I need to add more pressure and like roguish75 said, keep her legs spread apart and just really go after her. She says she wants to learn to squirt. She already has powerful orgasms, so maybe we're close on this. Practice, practice, practice

 

[Roguish75]

Come hither building up to A LOT of force, like need to change hands force. Take hand out work clit for a bit switch hands build up faster. Continue.

Also when she gets close just really jack your fingers but with upward pressure. And I mean really jack them.

Watch how forceful girls do it to themselves.

You need to totally own that pussy IMO especially if your breaking through barriers the first time.

I've seriously had like eight first time squirters in just the last three months. Totally crazy.

 

[sandiego27]

All the how-to videos I've seen just have the guy mad fingering the chick with the 2 middle fingers (come-hither motion on G-spot) till she explodes. And usually the ones who have never squirted before, only let out a little bit at best.

But I'm one of those guys who LOVES a girl who can squirt, even if she doesn't like to. It's hard to explain how hot it is to a guy. It's like, for women, they know when the man has an amazing orgasm, because she can see him shoot off a load. But for guys, we don't get to see that from women. They cum, and it's all internal, so it's like less satisfying, the fact that some women fake orgasms concludes this. Also, squirting orgasms are like the most intense and leave her shaking/weak afterward, that's some serious Ego-boost for a guy, you were able to give her the utmost pleasure possible, your a stud!

I've never been with a chick who could squirt from penetration via my dick, but have been able to make em squirt with the how-to video 2 finger method. The important thing is letting her know that when she get's the peeing sensation, to let it go, and reassure her that it is NOT urine. That's the part that most women don't understand, they see a squirting video and say "Ew, that's gross, she just pee'd everywhere".

I would love to try the "Just-the-Tip" method of stimulation the G-spot and forcing a squirt with my dick, I too would do a victory lap!

 

[closed212]

From my experience (I'm not a woman, sorry) I found that making her squirt really depends on the sexual setting (obviously with a mix of the right angle, thrusting and hardness). When we have really HOT sex she squirts and the other night she did, and it happened when I was thrusting into her with her on top. I was really surprised and didn't notice it until we finished her off (heat of the moment eh?).

Bed sheets were soaked and no it wasn't piss. Felt great though. ^_^

 

[Toadstool]

This one girl I'm seeing is a squirter. She cums in 2-5 minutes of touching her and if you know how to touch her just right, she sprays it everywhere.
I asked her what it felt like and she said embarrassing. She also said it felt like sneezing. Like there's this pressure building and it just blows out.
I like seeing it happen so I make her do it over and over again.

 

[LilNudeDude]

I've only been with one female, ever, that did did this. Not even my wife has done it. And it was more like what vixen described it. It happened when I went down her. She later told me that no one had gone down on her before also. But, she GUSHED! Big time! I wasn't sure what had just happened. But, I liked it. Whatever her diet was, it was perfect for her body chemistry. It clear and syrupy. I suddenly had a mouthful of what tasted like pure sugar.

I just started lapping it up. The more I got into the more she gushed. She pulled her legs up and clamped them around my head. It felt like a vice and good at the same time. She finally told me to stop before she passed out. She curled up in a ball shaking and sweaty head to toe. I don't even know how to describe how I felt. Eyes glazed, hyper-ventilating, endorphines through the roof. Not sure what the hell just happened. Wildest thing that ever happened to me.

Sadly, I have never experienced it again. I'm still overwhelmed thinking about it.

 

[Jay1983]

I remember having sex with my ex and in the middle of hardcoring it she says "stop, stop, I have to go pee". I said no you don't, you just need to cum! She fought with me to go to the bathroom... 5 minutes goes by and she comes back and I asked her, "Well how was it? Do you feel relieved?" To say the least she said she didn't even pee, that she couldn't! I said yeah, maybe NEXT time you'll listen to me lol I never tried to make her squirt again because I just figured it would amount to her needing to "pee". Well, now I wish I would have tried again lol damn it! and yeah, she didn't exactly know what I was up to either lol

 

[Paramount]

espesically the missionary position with the legs nearly tucked behind the womans neck

When I read the topic, this is exactly what I was going to say. All women have the potential to squirt--the issue lies in men not hitting it deep enough and in the right position. For alot of women, this is on top--(Sitting on him, so no bent knees!) For others (and myself) I love missionary--but theres different techniques to this. A woman's legs dont have to be up and over your shoulders. A good one is, if you hold her feet, bend her knees and open her legs. You can hold her legs further back this way, while holding her feet, and get deeper than you could with her legs just over her head.

To the OP--yes, women sometimes have a peeing sensation before orgasm. Squiriting feels alot like peeing--so its easy to confuse this, initially. To remedy this, have her pee before sex. That way, she'll know thats she doesn't have too. As a nurse, I can tell you straight away that if she constantly feels like she has to pee, during sex--it's possible that she has a UTI. If she doesn't-- shes just not relaxing with you, and opening up like she did when you were just friends--It makes sense that if she's always concerned about having to be, she's clenching up, and not letting herself enjoy you, like she used too.

 

[Jay1983]

I know it's quite difficult for me to pee during stimulation when I'm aroused with a raging hard on, even when my bladder is ready to pop!, but is it possible for women to actually pee during sex, not considering the whole squirting ordeal...?

 

[Paramount]

Men can't pee with a hard on, because it's the body's way of keeping the sperm non contaminated. Yes, woman can pee during sex--but it's rare. The woman would KNOW, that she's peeing. The exception would be women, usually middle aged, with an over active bladder who experience urgency or incontenance. In this case, intercourse may be limited or non existant depending on her comfort, self confidence and libido.

 

[Boosie]

Men can't pee with a hard on, because it's the body's way of keeping the sperm non contaminated. Yes, woman can pee during sex--but it's rare. The woman would KNOW, that she's peeing. The exception would be women, usually middle aged, with an over active bladder who experience urgency or incontenance. In this case, intercourse may be limited or non existant depending on her comfort, self confidence and libido.

I can pee with a hardon lol, Just hurts like fuck.

 

[billybrown]

"I can pee with a hardon lol, Just hurts like fuck."
well if you can pee & cum at the same time with a hardon, would that count as squirting, LOL?

 

[Jay1983]

I can pee with a hardon lol, Just hurts like fuck.

Try it with a 10/10 EQ.

 

[mikeguima]

Try it with a 10/10 EQ.

With a 10/10 EQ you can't even aim at the toilet. When I wake up with a morning erection I have to get in all kindzzzz of akward positions to be able to aim at the toilet.

Anyways, looks like I'm sidetracking this thread a bit. Go on, fellas.

 

[Ivor]

I had killer morning wood this morning, and had to piss in the sink. It was one of those occasions when I seriously considered doing a hand-stand infront of the toilet. Would almost have been easier.

 

[mikeguima]

I had killer morning wood this morning, and had to piss in the sink. It was one of those occasions when I seriously considered doing a hand-stand infront of the toilet. Would almost have been easier.

Watch out, you might accidently pee in your face...

 

[Jay1983]

Okay dudes, of course it's possible to piss with a hard-on. Now, try to piss during intercourse and/or jacking off, with a hard-on.