Something weird at the nude beach happened

[justregistered]

Hi, i am 43 year old man who has been married for 15 years and i really love my life and we both enjoy our time together but it was a bit of struggle lately. We both had a lot of work and were stressed so we didn't spend much "intimate" time together but the vacation came and i thought it would be a perfect chance to enjoy some quality time with my wife.

We used to go to the nude beach when we were on vacation but this time was different. It was a first day there and it was just as usual, we came there, find the place for ourselves and took our clothes off and went into the water but when we came back there was some young guy that was close to our place and well, he was very hung and it was obvious even though he was flaccid. I don't have a small penis, it's 5 1/2 inches, but it's not huge and wife never complained so i thought size wasn't something that could attract her or matter to her very much but when we got out and sit he was checking that guy out in front of me like i am not there, she was clearly looking at his junk and i didn't know what to say but acted like i didn't notice it.

I thought it's maybe because we hadn't have sex for some time or it was just accidental so after some time i wanted to go to the water again and asked her to go with me but she said that she just want to lay on the beach and enjoy the sun and after i came back this guy was standing in front of my wife and talking to her, i got there and acted a bit protective but in a polite way and after some talk he went away so i didn't know if it'll be to jealousy of me to ask her why did she talk to him etc but acted like it was normal, just meeting new people on the nude beach. I don't know if he approached her or it was vice versa but i was too afraid to ask.

Could it be that my wife got so attracted to that guy and that she wanted him, do you think that means she would cheat on me with some young hung guy like that one or i am just being paranoid? Thanks in advance

 

[CUSP82]

Maybe it might be better to take her to a beach where they where clothes.

 

[15rando]

lmao if i saw naked girls you think i would not look at them? regardless of how tight their vaginas were, or how big there boobs were.

Your wife WILL NOT leave you because of your penis size, but she might leave you because of your insecurity. just a thought.

 

[justregistered]

lmao if i saw naked girls you think i would not look at them? regardless of how tight their vaginas were, or how big there boobs were.

Your wife WILL NOT leave you because of your penis size, but she might leave you because of your insecurity. just a thought.

I know man but the fact that she talked to him and he was standing in front of her with his dick, and i am thinking she didn't really want to join me so that she can stay there and keep checking this guy so that they interact, well, i hope that i am just being paranoid. And the thing that i should take her to the beach with clothes, dunno, we did go to these nude beaches before and it was perfectly normal. Maybe i am really too insecure. Thanks for replies

 

[CUSP82]

And we all know that you didn't even glance at the 24 year old with the double D's!

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

Hi, i am 43 year old man who has been married for 15 years and i really love my life and we both enjoy our time together but it was a bit of struggle lately. We both had a lot of work and were stressed so we didn't spend much "intimate" time together but the vacation came and i thought it would be a perfect chance to enjoy some quality time with my wife.

We used to go to the nude beach when we were on vacation but this time was different. It was a first day there and it was just as usual, we came there, find the place for ourselves and took our clothes off and went into the water but when we came back there was some young guy that was close to our place and well, he was very hung and it was obvious even though he was flaccid. I don't have a small penis, it's 5 1/2 inches, but it's not huge and wife never complained so i thought size wasn't something that could attract her or matter to her very much but when we got out and sit he was checking that guy out in front of me like i am not there, she was clearly looking at his junk and i didn't know what to say but acted like i didn't notice it.

I thought it's maybe because we hadn't have sex for some time or it was just accidental so after some time i wanted to go to the water again and asked her to go with me but she said that she just want to lay on the beach and enjoy the sun and after i came back this guy was standing in front of my wife and talking to her, i got there and acted a bit protective but in a polite way and after some talk he went away so i didn't know if it'll be to jealousy of me to ask her why did she talk to him etc but acted like it was normal, just meeting new people on the nude beach. I don't know if he approached her or it was vice versa but i was too afraid to ask.

Could it be that my wife got so attracted to that guy and that she wanted him, do you think that means she would cheat on me with some young hung guy like that one or i am just being paranoid? Thanks in advance

I feel it was disrespectful of you by both him and her...i believe he was probably showing off and she was enjoying the attention. If he had struck up a conversation while you were there it would be different. Standing with his junk in her face was on purpose and she could have altered the situation to show you respect.

 

[jockinthebox]

[h=2]Something weird at the nude beach happened[/h]
You were expecting a Bible study maybe? Don't "weird" things normally happen at nude beaches? ....Always have when I'm there!....just sayin'....

 

[Tamora]

I wouldn't be too happy if some young stud was naked swinging in the wind talking to my wife on the beach..especially if we had a monogamous relationship. Obviously depends on the circumstances. If he was openly flirting I would have told him to sling his hook.

 

[popol5169]

I'm sorry I won't do it again!

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

I'm sorry I won't do it again!

It was fine until you started windmilling your piece and blowing her hair back..

 

[Dangler]

Welcome to the PEGym justregistered.

What is it that you want to deal with or improve, here ?

 

[rbi99]

I know man but the fact that she talked to him and he was standing in front of her with his dick, and i am thinking she didn't really want to join me so that she can stay there and keep checking this guy so that they interact, well, i hope that i am just being paranoid. And the thing that i should take her to the beach with clothes, dunno, we did go to these nude beaches before and it was perfectly normal. Maybe i am really too insecure. Thanks for replies

Now a nude dude talking to your wife at a normal beach would be an act of war, but you took her to the nude beach!!! Guys are nude there I believe.

 

[rbi99]

Also, if a drop dead gorgeous naked woman came up to you while your wife was in the water swimming, would you tell her you are a happily married man and that she should go elsewhere for conversation - NOT!!!

 

[Frog]

it was fine until you started windmilling your piece and blowing her hair back..

lmao!!!

 

[Party]

If you wanted to be naked with your wife in the sun? Why didn't you build a big patio with a six foot privacy fence like I did? Have you asked her what happened? You put her in the situation and left her alone with him, feeling secure, well not so much now, yes? You must have a great relationship to share her for all the world to see. If ya wanna share, then share, invite him over.

 

[DickerSchwanz]

Obviously she fantasized about it. Similar to how you fantasize about other woman.
She might have been horny about it too. Totally normal.

Still doesnt mean she will cheat. But possible it is. Depends on many factors. Is she activly going for it or does she flirt often with other guys ?

 

[rbi99]

This post simply made my day!!! Even the heading is great - Something weird at the nude beach happened...... Imagine that, someone saw a nude guy who just happened to be hung. Not sure what was so weird. I've got a pretty good sized package between my legs, but not sure I would have the balls to take my wife to a nude beach unless I was prepared for her to "shop and compare".

 

[joeamerica69]

This post simply made my day!!! Even the heading is great - Something weird at the nude beach happened...... Imagine that, someone saw a nude guy who just happened to be hung. Not sure what was so weird. I've got a pretty good sized package between my legs, but not sure I would have the balls to take my wife to a nude beach unless I was prepared for her to "shop and compare".

Avert thine eyes woman! :biggrin1:

 

[justregistered]

Welcome to the PEGym justregistered.

What is it that you want to deal with or improve, here ?

I was browsing through the forums because i had problem with erection, sometimes can't get it up etc so i found guys post here with problems similar to mine. I didn't really need to post because i could found everything i wanted through other guys posts.

On topic:
She isn't that type of woman, doesn't really flirt with other men, she has never really gave me a reason to be jealous or suspicious and that's why i was surprised with what happened there, i mean, she's not prude, she talk to other man but not in a way that would make me jealous or insecure as i felt today.

I mean, she is a beautiful woman, especially to me, but i would never think some young stud would go after my 40 year old wife , i am just confused right now. And the worst of all, when we talked about our trip to nude beach later today she said that it was nice and that we should go again...

 

[not2big]

Perhaps he was just a friendly gregarious guy who happened to be well hung.

Jelqing, kegels, and pulse pumping are good for improving erection quality.