SIDE NOTE # 3 : Size really does not matter

[Closed039]

I'd advise you to quickly read through Saiyan's thread at Thunder's. He has a 9.3 (NBP) x 5.8 (midshaft) penis and has been involved in sexual escapades where two other guys were his size or larger. According to your "statistics," that makes the odds of such an occurence damn near impossible.

The reason for this is that larger penises circulate in the sexually active community more than smaller or average penises. It skews the average - big time - and all it takes is one "big" penis for a girl to see all others as "small."

 

[DownLow]

"it wouldn't have mattered about the penis, she would have loved HIM"

I believe it, but then again, its not the point... I think what she actually meant is that she would have loved him despite that.. No one is saying that big dick will make up for everything else, its just part of your overall package and not a decisive one. Will it be a reason for breaking up? rarely (but definitely not never)

When u ask if bigger is better u have to keep every thing else constant. Would she love him more because of bigger penis? probably not? But it still doesnt change a fact that it would be better

I don't think so, she actually laughed when we were talking about it. But he also broke the relationship (they only had sex once), not her. Does my wife like what I have created out of my penis so far with PE? I think so, but sex is no different, her sexual appetite is no different, she rarely comments on my penis, more on my butt, chest, shoulders, etc (other physical attributes that is). Maybe my mindset would be different if I had an 8x6 to startt with, but I truely believe that if the girl wants it bigger, there are other fish in the sea, that is the way I have always played it. Some of the girls of my past were quite surprised of the way I sexed them with a 5x4.5, others maybe not, but I never heard it face to face.

the other issue is orgasm. My wife was with slightly bigger, never squirted. One of the first itmes with me, she soaked the couch. We both wondered what the hell happened. So in that moment alone, penis size has nothing to do with orgasm and the way a female feels when loving a male.

 

[belenkok]

its u who lives in myth not me....
steroids and increase in penis size is a fact
big guys and big penis is also a fact. one hint - hormones

if u use erect finger for fingering u dont know sh*t about fingering then....


and one more thing that u dont get..... its not all about orgasm.... ill get back to boobs example again, why do we like bigger boobs? no practical use... maybe just more pleasant to hold, then again maybe she feels good when she hold ur big dick (and thats already a benefit). Big boobs are essential for spanish sex, well the same about bigger dick, many positions become much more comfortable and available. one more benefit. She may also like to feel full there (and yes some of them like it to go deep)... she might not, but its not a problem a problem is there if she likes to but u dont have big enough to do it...

and when u talk about fucking girl with more than half of ur dick out u forget most important thing, its your own pleasure. and best sex is only when both feel good, not when u rub ur tip.... as said before she can fuck herself with a finger if she only wants orgasm... ORGASM is just one part of the sex....

 

[Closed039]

hey Belenkok, while I understand the point you are trying to make, you are sorely missing out (as are the girls you sleep with) on a great technique. Finger banging or eating a girl the right way can bring them to orgasm in a matter of minutes every time. Its a shame you are ignorant of those techniques.

 

[DownLow]

Ohh Man you just had me Laughing my ass off here.
OK the body builder thing is nonsense but I will agree on a few things you posted this being 1 of them.
( we accept stupid answers, which usually is "its not the size its the technique" but wait I didnt ask if u prefer technique over size, think about a guy with the same technique and tell me that bigger is not better? )

But you guys are mistaking that sex is not love. In the whole sense of the word, it is. Random banging of the bar slut is not sex, it is just screwing. Develop a relationship then ask your girlfriend, fiance, wife if the two guys with the same technique but one is bigger, if the bigger is better.

 

[ultimape]

I'd advise you to quickly read through Saiyan's thread at Thunder's. He has a 9.3 (NBP) x 5.8 (midshaft) penis and has been involved in sexual escapades where two other guys were his size or larger. According to your "statistics," that makes the odds of such an occurence damn near impossible.

The reason for this is that larger penises circulate in the sexually active community more than smaller or average penises. It skews the average - big time - and all it takes is one "big" penis for a girl to see all others as "small."

This does not change anything regarding what I have said . The type of girl that participates in a threesome with 3 monster cocks falls into the slut category . And , like I have said , the slut has seen her fair share of big dicks .

However these type of girls do not interest me , never did . And I don't think that this is what most men are looking for . I think most men eventually look for a nice girl with whom they can connect with .

And those type of girls have not been with that many men by the time they are 30 and it is still highly unlikely for them to have even been with a monster dick . It can happen , its just not very likely at all .

The odds are very good and work in favor of all men that are not huge .

 

[belenkok]

i didnt even say bodybuilders....

i said naturally big bodied guys (not fat, not built up in gym...)

and ultimape if u dont believe in effects of hormones go and drink women hormones for 2 years, just dont be surprised when u find urself with proper women boobs

 

[ultimape]

steroids and increase in penis size is a fact
....

If there is any fact about steroids and the penis I assure you that it does not paint a pretty picture on size , erections or performance . Besides we are talking about general issues , do you think the whole world is on steroids or something ?

big guys and big penis is also a fact. one hint - hormones
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one hint - ignorance .

if u use erect finger for fingering u dont know sh*t about fingering then....
....

there are many fingering techniques .

I was talking about 1 specific situation where I was using a technique using an "erect" finger ( like finger fucking ) which requires you to hit her g-spot .

And this technique , as PEskeptic as put it , is awesome to make a woman orgasm .

This technique also showed me at the time that penis size had nothing to do with making a woman orgasm , and this was my entire point in the thread .

If you refuse to accept that any of this is true , I really could not care less , but obviously you would be losing out big time man .

She may also like to feel full there (and yes some of them like it to go deep)
....

OK this is true . But a bit irrelevant for the point of the thread which is to say that penis size has nothing to do with woman pleasure and orgasmic satisfaction .

And a note to the wise here : even if she like to "go deep" please remember that most women have a vaginal depth of only 5-7 inches so if your penis is 6+ and you are going deep you might be hitting her cervix which is very painful for them .

its u who lives in myth not me....
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okay then , maybe one day you will see the light brother

 

[ultimape]

i didnt even say bodybuilders....

i said naturally big bodied guys (not fat, not built up in gym...)

and ultimape if u dont believe in effects of hormones go and drink women hormones for 2 years, just dont be surprised when u find urself with proper women boobs

You do understand that countless studies have been made to try to correlate penis size with any number of variables ( height , hands , body type , weight , feet etc..etc.. ) and that all studies end with the same conclusion : that penis size has no correlation with any of these variable at all .

A small guys is just as likely to have a monster cock as a big guy .

Regarding your hormone comment , again we are talking about the general population here . I don't know about you but I am not acquainted with that many guys that have taken women hormonoes for 2 years . Maybe I just hang in the wrong circles . I should get out more .

 

[diamondback]

I read something above I think accurately illustrates the importance of penis size. A big penis gets about as much attention from women as the attention given to big boobs by men. Big boobs have almost no role in the actual sex act but they are admired by men and a woman with big boobs has an advantage, all else being equal. In a setting where most men are nude, a large penis will draw the attention of women, not all women some seem not to care, but most women will turn their heads to look just as most men will turn their heads to look at some nice boobs. In a one on one sexual encounter the erotic effect of a large penis on the female is largely visual and I understand women are not as visually stimulated as men are, but it is a factor. In actual love making the fingers, tongue, toys and experience can play a much larger role that the penis. The biggest advantage of a big penis in the actual sex act is probably that it makes more positions possible. I base my observation on 35 years spent at nude beaches, primarily Blacks Beach near San Diego.

 

[CUSP82]

Steroids will harm you in the long run, they will not cause your dick to get bigger and belenkok may want to make his posts more to the point and less, how shall I say, condescending. Okay I said my peace.

 

[closeed258]

I thought high testosterone gives you big balls, but steroids make your balls shrink. I think steroids would be bad for cock size as well, not make grow despite higher testosterone levels.

 

[GTO]

Very good article here folks - be sure to read the whole thing:

Anabolic Steroids: Mechanisms and Effects

 

[mrmark]

I think it depends on the situation
If you are in a relationship with someone you take them as a whole,well i do anyway if she has small boobs,big boobs,medium boobs it does not matter to me because i am intersted in her as a person rather than just one aspect so i would imagine the same would be for the ladies.
If it is a one night stand for example and she just wants fun or maybe cheer herself up after a bad event then maybe she might feel a bigger dick could give her more pleasure or maybe she is just curiuos about a bigger dick.
But anyone who knows anything about sex knows you can make her cum quicker and more often with your tongue.

 

[Livin Life]

But you guys are mistaking that sex is not love. In the whole sense of the word, it is. Random banging of the bar slut is not sex, it is just screwing. Develop a relationship then ask your girlfriend, fiance, wife if the two guys with the same technique but one is bigger, if the bigger is better.

There is nothing to mistake here !
Your example is very weak and very untrue.

POT CALLING KETTLE !! POT CALLING KETTLE !!
Down Low these are Your stats when starting here
I started PE in November of 2008. Stats were:
FL- 2.75
FG- 3.25
(close estimate as full erection and measuring wasn't cooperating)
EL- 5 (maybe just a little more than that, but I want to be honest)
EG- 4.5

Here are yours from 6/2010
Erect bone pressed 6.25"
Erect base girth 5"
Erect midshaft girth 4.5"
Erect base of glans girth 4.25"

Low Downs ultimate goals !
Ulitmate goal of
NBPEL of at least 7 (natural erection, not post workout)
Midshaft girth of 5.5+

Do not tell me I am simply getting bigger just for myself bull crap it may be for you and its also for you WIFE !!
You mean to tell me if you get your new updated goal of 5.7" girth your wife will not enjoy it a WHOLE LOT MORE ??
or is she going to say I wish you did not get any bigger you were back at your old size ?
Here let me post your signature at the bottom of your page.

Down Lows signature !
Goal: approx 7.25 EL x 5.7 EG - Length for me, Girth for her

So what you are saying is your getting bigger to give your wife MORE pleasure ? and we all know bigger girth gives more pleasure to a women, well there is nothing wrong with that I think its great that you are bettering your sex life with a (bigger dick.)
I am in the same boat as you been married for quite some time and my wife and I enjoy my larger size much more,
and she always asks me do you want to make love ??

So when you ask the ridiculous question of asking your wife who is in love with you is bigger better you know darn
well what the answer is, her ya go in case your memory is bad.

Down Lows signature !
Goal: approx 7.25 EL x 5.7 EG - Length for me, ((Girth for her))

 

[belenkok]

Steroids will harm you in the long run, they will not cause your dick to get bigger and belenkok may want to make his posts more to the point and less, how shall I say, condescending. Okay I said my peace.

you can say whatever u want to say but facts remain facts....

and i only brought steroid effects up to prove that naturally big guys have bigger dicks, and girls who go after big-boned guys may have met a lot of big dicks, which in topic authors belief is impossible, even better he claims that only 1% have bigger than 7inch....

 

[spanky]

Even she was like what the hell have you done to me ?

Man, I love that reaction

 

[spanky]

Dear lord, belenkok. Yes, facts do remain facts, but untruths do not prove other untruths. The stats are well known (I can't believe this is still in dispute), and ultimape is right on the money, I promise you. Look at it this way, younger, less experienced guys typically say size matters, but older, more experienced guys typically say it doesn't, That should tell you all you need to know.

 

[ultimape]

naturally big guys have bigger dicks, and girls who go after big-boned guys may have met a lot of big dicks....

whatever gets you through the day is fine by me brother . However please understand that you are living in this fantasy world where the big guys have the big cocks . This is a myth , not true , a fantasy my friend .

Show me a single scientific study that supports your claim . If not you are simply regurgitating the same old wives tales and perpetuating the same old myths .

So many tests have been made to correlate penis size with different factors including Height , Weight , Bodytype , Other Body Parts ...and guess what ? It's all random . The penis is unique in its development and it's size does not correlate with body structure at all .

You have small guys with giant cocks just as you have big guys with micro penises .

When it comes to penis size , Mother-Nature is very much random ( aside from the well known slight variations with African / Caucasian / Asian etc.. )

which in topic authors belief is impossible, even better he claims that only 1% have bigger than 7inch....

I said 8+ inches . Depending on the study you select that % might vary from 1-2% , although I can't remember ever having seen any credible study where the % of the population larger than 8 inches was more than 3% .

If you know of a better scientific report on penis size that you think might add something new to the table please feel free to share it with all of us .If not you are simply regurgitating the same old wives tales and perpetuating the same old myths .

In the meanwhile here is another interesting read for you :

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/12932-penis-size-how-common-large-ones.html

7.527 inches: 1 in 44
8.352 inches: 1 in 741
9.177 inches: 1 in 31, 574
10.00 inches: 1 in 3.5 million

 

[Closed039]

i only brought steroid effects up to prove that naturally big guys have bigger dicks

Exactly what is natural about steroids?