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All2Real, I am sure we've all been through something, some catalyst event that brought us here.

For me, it was about 15 years ago when my wife cheated on me. I foolishly asked her if his dick was bigger than mine. She said it was, in fact it was so "huge" it was uncomfortable. She told me he didn't know how to use it like I did, and that my size was good and not an issue. But, the damage was done. I had never ever had an issue with my penis size before. Well that did it. It took me a LONG LONG time to get over that, and I am once again happy with my penis size.

So why am I doing PE? Well because of my weight issues (I fluctuate up and down) and EQ issues, I wanted to try a little self-improvement. A larger penis with better EQ means that when I do slip up and gain weight, I'll still be able to show what I have. It's funny, my PE is more about the rest of my body than my penis itself! I mean, to have a 7.25"+ BPEL but only show 5.25" really sucks!
 

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Yeah, almost all of us have stories similar to that Glandhander. One of my ex's and my current girlfriend repeatedly made comments very similar to what was said to you by your ex wife and over time it has made me develop a near complex when I had never had any complaints from previous lovers.
 

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This was a great story until I read about the cheating part so now it's an okay story but I am glad you have gained and it was noticed!
 

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Last night my girl and I had some amazing sex. I was SO hard and she was screaming, just screaming! She came 6-7 times. After I came, she noticed I was still pretty hard. That hasn't always happened for me. She asked me what has changed, was I doing something different? I just laughed and told her that was for me to know. a few hours later, we did it again and it was just as good. She has also noticed that I've been harder too.

And last week, a few hours after my stealth workout, we had sex. It was so tight, and of course part of the reason was I was enlarged from my workout, but not by more than 1/4" in girth. Anyway, she actually asked me, "Are you getting bigger or am I just tighter than usual?" I laughed and said, "what does it feel like to you?" and that was the end of the conversation, as I had her cumming about two minutes later!

Anyway, my EQ is just awesome since I started back with the PE. And that's with me being 38 years old, 40 lbs. overweight, getting too little sleep, taking 2 medications that sap my energy and have possible sexual side effects and having a poor diet. This makes me want to get in shape and show her and myself what I can REALLY do.

Thank you to all the good people at PEGYM for your knowledge and willingness to help us improve ourselves. :)
Let me pat you on the back my brotha'. ATTA BOY!!!
 

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Does your wife come rather easily? 6-7 times from penetration is A LOT.

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Its nice to hear encouraging success stories such as this, it helps restore the faith when you hear so many stories of guys who have had bad experiences. Congratulations ! :)
 

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Love the mystery aspect of all of this! Congrats on the gains and the baby!!!!!
 

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Thanks everybody :)

UYN, she tells me that to come more than once or twice with other men she had to be on top. She likes that I can take control and keep it going like she needs it. So she tells me anyway!
 

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Ok wait a sec...your NBEL is 5.25 and your BPEL is 7.375, thats a hell of jump there bud! How do you measure???? Either way, glad you got some gains and your enjoying the growth!!!
 

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Thats an almost 2 inch increase man, does that sound incorrect to anyone or just me??!! Calixto, Waylander, UYN help me out here
 

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I think its his fat pad Stick, he's talking about the difference between his bone pressed and non bone pressed, right?
 

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Thats an almost 2 inch increase man, does that sound incorrect to anyone or just me??!! Calixto, Waylander, UYN help me out here

Uh, yes it's correct. I do know how to measure. It's not an increase, it's been that way for years. I'm about 40+ pounds overweight. FAT PAD. My increase is only 1/8".
 

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Uh, yes it's correct. I do know how to measure. It's not an increase, it's been that way for years. I'm about 40+ pounds overweight. FAT PAD. My increase is only 1/8".

Don't get offended Gladhander, just trying to make sure your doing things correctly. Your increase from your NBEL to your BPEL is a large one. You also left out that fact that your 40 lbs overweight so, that would have been helpful bud. I understand your "gains" are an 1/8 of an inch but your 2 inch change from NBEL to BPEL is huge (thats what I was referring too). It's common for men to measure incorrectly so, why I commented in the manner I did. Ease up there buddy and don't get so pissy if information is miscommunicated.
I still love you though!
 

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1/8" gain is a GAIN!
Congratulations Gladhander!
KABOOM!
 

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Ok, ok, sorry I got a little testy there! I appreciate your concern, thanks much.
 

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Congratulations man!

my wife is a multi-orgasmic girl..its AWESOME.

I personally think size matters...I consider myself big and she tells me all the time because she likes my girth...even though its only 5.5" at the base. but for the guys or girls who say "size doesn't matter"....that might be true...but most girls are much more willing to tell friends "yea, he is hung" as more of a "I am so proud of my man and I want to make girls jealous" perspective.

My wife has no other guy to compare too..but I think I knock her socks off :) but I wonder if she was with a guy who was maybe 5" and smaller girth...how sex would be for her? Maybe better...(I doubt it) but at least she can say I am hung :)
 

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Congratulations man!

my wife is a multi-orgasmic girl..its AWESOME.

I personally think size matters...I consider myself big and she tells me all the time because she likes my girth...even though its only 5.5" at the base. but for the guys or girls who say "size doesn't matter"....that might be true...but most girls are much more willing to tell friends "yea, he is hung" as more of a "I am so proud of my man and I want to make girls jealous" perspective.

My wife has no other guy to compare too..but I think I knock her socks off :) but I wonder if she was with a guy who was maybe 5" and smaller girth...how sex would be for her? Maybe better...(I doubt it) but at least she can say I am hung :)

My GF is the same. Multi-orgasmic (vaginally)and a real screamer. In fact, she talks of her orgasms sometimes being contininous or lasting for minutes at a time. She's very vaginal and deep, hard, even painful fucking is what gets her off. She also thinks that size matters.