Ok well I've got some good news for those of you that have been going through this. I have talked to my wife at length about the issues with our sex life, and like many of you have said, the "exhausted" thing came up a lot. But we have made sure to keep open our communication, and let each other know how we feel, and we've made sure to go out on dates, hell we even watch a little porn together here and there. I am happy to report that with the help and suggestions I got from this site, my wife and I are back on track towards a good sex life. Still not where I would like it to be, but for now that is my compromise. I have to admit at first I was thinking that maybe she was having an affair, but I now truly believe that is not going on. Why else would she be trying? She must care. For what its worth, I would like to say to anyone who loves their wife, wants to be married for the long haul, and wants to enjoy their marriage(as you should), should ignore the guys here that have nothing good to say, and go out and give it your best shot. It will be worth it I promise you. So to those who chose to try and help, I thank you very much! Your help will always be appreciated!
Denny
Women in many ways are as strong or stronger than men but in some-ways are weaker. We as men need to study our wives and learn their strengths and weakness's. Then change our actions in love to let them use their strengths and shore up their weakness. This is usually a long term process of getting to know the person you have married and how they react to various life demands. Sense life is in a constant cycle of change this process is on going.
An example. My wife and I lost our home four times to two floods and two hurricanes in a ten year time span. Also one business failed due to a hurricane related issues and the other was damaged, closed for a month. Talk about stress in marriage. She actually did better in these events than I did. Although her body would not handle the physical stress of the events long term but emotionally she was solid. I could handle the physical stress but the mental got to me. We worked together to get pass these events and now life is normal again. This most likely is a temporary thing as again life is always changing. Look at the recent earthquake as an example. I'm just thankful my issues are so small. The best to you and your wife. Marriage isn't always easy but it is the best thing I ever found and my wife made it that way for me.
Have a great PE day.

