Problems Of Getting TOO Big?

[Horseman1978]

Just a little update on this thread....

I commented earlier, so scroll up and read that so that you understand the context of what I'm writing here.

I'm currently 7" (17.8 cm) bpel and 5.75" (14.6 cm) eg. I've been married 25 years and only had sex with her. Recently, we were making out and dry humping and she basically ordered me to penetrate her immediately. Normally, there's a lot more foreplay and the act of penetration takes 30 seconds to a minute of gentle pressure and light "knocking at the door" to enter, but she's premenopausal and things are different; please lus, she was really turned on and super wet, and literally said, "get inside me NOW"!.

At her behest, I just slipped in smoothly but not roughly, and she gasped. I had not tried to enter her vagina quickly in years, and she immediately pushed me out and said; "do that again, but slowly please lol.

Our next couple sexual encounters were met with reminders to enter slowly and use adequate lube. Since I pump a few times per week, I've noticed my girth is getting closer to 5-7/8" (14.92 cm) and her complaints during initial penetration are becoming more frequent. Just for grins, I tried pumping with a ring yesterday and my girth was 6-1/8" (15.55 cm). After I provided her lots of foreplay, a few oral orgasms and some good silicone lube, she was able to take me in and use the vibe on her clit for some of her most powerful orgasms to date. She really liked the girth, and said she felt really full, but this morning she said we need to take a break from pumped sex, as the muscles around her opening were achy.

i am of the opinion that 5.5" to 5.75" girth is going to be pushing the comfortable limits for most women.

Cheers,

Horseman1978

 

[Azmike]

Just a little update on this thread....

I commented earlier, so scroll up and read that so that you understand the context of what I'm writing here.

I'm currently 7" (17.8 cm) bpel and 5.75" (14.6 cm) eg. I've been married 25 years and only had sex with her. Recently, we were making out and dry humping and she basically ordered me to penetrate her immediately. Normally, there's a lot more foreplay and the act of penetration takes 30 seconds to a minute of gentle pressure and light "knocking at the door" to enter, but she's premenopausal and things are different; please lus, she was really turned on and super wet, and literally said, "get inside me NOW"!.

At her behest, I just slipped in smoothly but not roughly, and she gasped. I had not tried to enter her vagina quickly in years, and she immediately pushed me out and said; "do that again, but slowly please lol.

Our next couple sexual encounters were met with reminders to enter slowly and use adequate lube. Since I pump a few times per week, I've noticed my girth is getting closer to 5-7/8" (14.92 cm) and her complaints during initial penetration are becoming more frequent. Just for grins, I tried pumping with a ring yesterday and my girth was 6-1/8" (15.55 cm). After I provided her lots of foreplay, a few oral orgasms and some good silicone lube, she was able to take me in and use the vibe on her clit for some of her most powerful orgasms to date. She really liked the girth, and said she felt really full, but this morning she said we need to take a break from pumped sex, as the muscles around her opening were achy.

i am of the opinion that 5.5" to 5.75" girth is going to be pushing the comfortable limits for most women.

Cheers,

Horseman1978

Horseman, thanks for sharing. It certainly depends upon the woman. Vaginas also come in different sizes. I think some or maybe many women have an issue with 6” girth but many do not. It depends on their size, have they had kids and the level of lubrication-both lube added and lubricator they create. Some women as they near and enter menopause do not produce enough lubrication for larger girth penetration. In some cases women who add hormones, especially estrogen, and/or the O Shot or other current radio frequency vaginal rejuvenation therapies can regain lubrication and heighten sensitivity.

 

[Ieatazz]

So, the wife and I went to my friend's wedding where I was wearing nice dress slacks (with a rather short crotch area) with loose boxers underneath. We sat on the second row with nobody in front of us. My flaccid has been around 6-6.5" inches these days and it was pushed up and off to the side where my wife was sitting, causing a serious lump. She said "put that thing away before someone sees it."

I replied "where do you want me to put it exactly?" And tried to adjust discreetly to no avail.

This was not an occurrence I had thought about but when wearing nice dress pants it definitely shows - and I was thankful I was wearing black. I don't think I can wear lighter colors - like grey - without the line being visible. A bit of a downside...

Dude!

That isn’t a downside, that’s fucking great!!

I wear white shorts a little tight all the time..

I made a cashier at Speedway gasp! Like literally gasp for air when she looked!

I DGAF what anyone says and I’m not embarrassed about my dong at all…If they’re gonna look in its direction, they’re gonna get a fuckin eye full…

If you really wanna hide it, tighty whities and push it under your sack…

 

[Sam R]

Before I hit the end I can feel a really tight spot right before it. My wife says that part isn't uncomfortable but she doesn't like me ramming her cervix especially from behind. Thankfully no IUD to deal with. That makes me cringe a bit just reading it.

Lately it’s been actually a bit distracting because I am so conscious of hitting that IUD that I can’t just go balls deep hard (which is really the way she likes it)…so it’s actually causing me to adjust angles and depth etc to avoid contact. Which sucks. Hence why I am focusing only on girth exercises and not length. Used to be able to cum three times a day with her, now usually only two.

 

[TheAce]

OK, a downside I never thought about happened recently. I got a bout of jock itch recently. In battling this, I now try to ensure everything downstairs is good and clean and dry. I also started using gold bold to ensure things stayed that way.

I never had this problem before in my life and then I realized - I have stretched my balls out with a ball stretcher so they now hang lower than before and my unit is OVER twice the size as when I started in terms of volume - and double flaccid length easily...

With all that new area creating folds under the skin I now have to pay close attention to keeping things dry when before I was almost always turtled up tight with my balls doing the same. Food for thought as you grow...

 

[Big Al]

OK, a downside I never thought about happened recently. I got a bout of jock itch recently. In battling this, I now try to ensure everything downstairs is good and clean and dry. I also started using gold bold to ensure things stayed that way.

I never had this problem before in my life and then I realized - I have stretched my balls out with a ball stretcher so they now hang lower than before and my unit is OVER twice the size as when I started in terms of volume - and double flaccid length easily...

With all that new area creating folds under the skin I now have to pay close attention to keeping things dry when before I was almost always turtled up tight with my balls doing the same. Food for thought as you grow...

This is something to consider. Increased activity as well as having a larger penis will increase the chance of issues like jock itch without proper preventative maintenance.