Nikki asks, "Does Size Matter?"

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I don't think that size is ever a substitute for charm, wit, and personality, but it can be a nice addition to the mix. Sort of a surprise bonus.
I am aiming for more length to give me a few more sex position options. I want a little more girth just to give her that nice full feeling but not so much that she can't take me in her mouth or is afraid to take me in her ass.
But my primary objectives are all about EQ and control and generally getting smarter.
I want to be a smarter lover.

I too want to get longer to open up more positions, and to make the positions I try now more comfortable. I like being deep - all the way in - and so does my GF, so in any position I try to get as much of me in as possible. Being longer will allow me deeper penetration for those positions that compromise length, and having a longer penis is less tiring. Don't need to put so much energy into thrusting when you are longer. I do know that I need to lose more weight because they extra belly and leg fat hinders how much of me can get inside too.
 

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I too want to get longer to open up more positions, and to make the positions I try now more comfortable. I like being deep - all the way in - and so does my GF, so in any position I try to get as much of me in as possible. Being longer will allow me deeper penetration for those positions that compromise length, and having a longer penis is less tiring. Don't need to put so much energy into thrusting when you are longer. I do know that I need to lose more weight because they extra belly and leg fat hinders how much of me can get inside too.
I don't know about the less tiring part but that maybe just because I like thrusting: long and slow or hard and fast, it is alllll good! Yeeehaw!
 

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I don't think that size is ever a substitute for charm, wit, and personality, but it can be a nice addition to the mix. Sort of a surprise bonus.
I think all women would agree with this wholeheartedly!

I also agree about positions -- for me, one of the main reasons I think greater length would be fun is that there are positions where it is either hard or impossible for my lover to easily maintain thrusting without popping out. I think a longer penis would help with that and thus could open up some fun new options for us.
 

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I think all women would agree with this wholeheartedly!

I also agree about positions -- for me, one of the main reasons I think greater length would be fun is that there are positions where it is either hard or impossible for my lover to easily maintain thrusting without popping out. I think a longer penis would help with that and thus could open up some fun new options for us.

Quite so.
 

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I don't know about the less tiring part but that maybe just because I like thrusting: long and slow or hard and fast, it is alllll good! Yeeehaw!

I mean it will be less tiring because I don't need to trust so hard to keep it deep enough in a position. I notice that when I lose my erection a bit (i.e. get shorter) after cumming multiple times, I end up working harder to get that deep again. With a longer penis, I can be very deep without having to try and push so hard. And, even if I do lose length after extended thrusts, I will still be "long."
 

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Just wanted to post something intresting I read on an other forum. Didn't feel like making an own topic on it, I think it fits here.

I am gay so I haven't had exsperience on that level with girls however I talk abotu sex with girls a lot and hear about the stuff straight guys never get to hear. Honestly they talk about size but it's not that important.

87% of all females DO NOT orgasm with penis in vagina thrusting. The vagina doesn't hold the right nerve endings to get the to have an orgasm. It's the clitoris. They say the problem with straight guys is that they think it's all in their penis and their penis brings all the pleasure. You need to know how to please a girl in other ways that just with your penis. You have to ralize that sex alone isn't going to make her orgasm like it makes you orgasm. You have to have clitoral stimulation in there and do a lot of other thins to bring her to orgasm. They say straight men just don't understand that concept half the time so it doesn't matter how big their penis is because it sucks anyways.

Just make sure you know how to please a girl with something other than your penis then the size wouldn't matter.

There are only nerve endings in the firt thrid of the vagina. She doesn't have any feeling in the top two thirds. And a females vagina on average is only about 5-6 inches deep. There are only nerve endings in the first two inches. So anotomicly size doesn't matter becauase what does it matter if you are 6 inches or 12 inches? only 5-6 inches are going to fit in anyways so to her it will feel the same and if not shes lying.
 

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Great ,now i am being lectured in how to please a woman by a gay guy.
Don't have time for this.
 

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A little homophobic, are we? So what if he's gay? He's obviousely hanging around women enough to know what the word is.
 

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OK redirect, where is Batwoman to save the day?!?! Baybabe? Ladies?
 

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No doubt they want to be lectured on what women want by a gay guy too.
Also I am tired of people telling me every woman I ever met is lying to me.
We have women here who can tell us what women think.
 

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No doubt they want to be lectured on what women want by a gay guy too.
Also I am tired of people telling me every woman I ever met is lying to me.
We have women here who can tell us what women think.

Also, that piece of literature is quite discouraging to hopeful PEers.
Basically, it brings about the question that what is the point of enlarging your penis beyond 6 inches if a woman cannot 'feel' anything past the first couple of inches?
So then most guys who average sized penises like myself would have no point in doing any PE, as according to that quote, a woman won't be able to hold anything beyond that?

:bad:
 

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Whoa! I look the other way for a few hours, and see what happens.
Hetero, you're new here so maybe you don't realize that these are big topics that we dscuss a lot. First -- getting truth fom the horse's mouth, so to speak. There are a few of us real live females here to answer questions, and the guys prefer that to getting more hearsay off the web. And you gotta admit that something quoted from some unknown forum and written by some unknown gay guy who got his info Gid knows where is stretching it a bit!
About size -- there are tons of threads here on the matter (including this one) that would refute some of the main points of what you posted. Us ladies all agree that size matters less to us than mist guys think, but the bit about length over 6' being wasted since we can't feel it -- that's just wrong. The pussy doesn't feel sensations the same way other parts of the body do, but women absolutely can feel the difference in how much they are being filled. Some folks here also have experience with the A-spot (see the thread on G-spot) which only comes into play when a guy has a really long cock. Finally, some positions work much better if you are long... and some of these can be quite pleasurable for a lady. Anyway, even though a guy can do a great job of satisfying a lady with a 5" or 6" penis, there are lots of reasons to grow a larger one if you want to, and ladies will notice the difference.

And lastly, please don't be offended if people have responded negatively to your post. We're an open, honest community here, and people speak their minds. Even if they get a bit grumpy at times!
 
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Anyway, even though a guy can do a great job of satisfying a lady with a 5" or 6" penis, there are lots of reasons to grow a larger one if you want to, and ladies will notice the difference.

I totally agree with you.:)
 

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BW, Thanks for the reality check.
(That was just plain weird redirection.)
 

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Some folks here also have experience with the A-spot (see the thread on G-spot) which only comes into play when a guy has a really long cock. Finally, some positions work much better if you are long... and some of these can be quite pleasurable for a lady. Anyway, even though a guy can do a great job of satisfying a lady with a 5" or 6" penis, there are lots of reasons to grow a larger one if you want to, and ladies will notice the difference.

And lastly, please don't be offended if people have responded negatively to your post. We're an open, honest community here, and people speak their minds. Even if they get a bit grumpy at times!

I hate to digress here, but I posted a question about the depth of the A-spot in the origianl G-spot thread that wasn't answered. I wanted to know how long of an erect length (EL, as opposed to BPEL) most guys need to hit the average A-spot.?
 

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This is a good question.
I certainly seem to have been hiting it regularly, since my dick reached 7.75" bpel, but there is bound to be a lot of individual variation. Will be very interested in other responses to this question. There just might not be a lot of info out there nsf.
 

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Let's start a A-spot thread. I will do so now, so we can keep all the discussion in one spot where people can find it in the future.
 

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This is a classic thread that I think every member should read. So I am giving it a sticky.
 

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- Size matters because we can get made fun of about it by girls. Rumors spread fast, a guy I know is still known as "Tootsie-Roll" by many because a girl said he had a pinky finger sized dick in junior high. If size didn't matter, then why would it be a joke to put other men down?

- Just like my girl wouldn't want me day-fantasizing about another girl with huge tits, I don't want my girl fantasizing about a guy with a huge dick.

I hate being a negative person but I'm in a very bad mood right now, sorry.