I don't think that size is ever a substitute for charm, wit, and personality, but it can be a nice addition to the mix. Sort of a surprise bonus.
I am aiming for more length to give me a few more sex position options. I want a little more girth just to give her that nice full feeling but not so much that she can't take me in her mouth or is afraid to take me in her ass.
But my primary objectives are all about EQ and control and generally getting smarter.
I want to be a smarter lover.
I too want to get longer to open up more positions, and to make the positions I try now more comfortable. I like being deep - all the way in - and so does my GF, so in any position I try to get as much of me in as possible. Being longer will allow me deeper penetration for those positions that compromise length, and having a longer penis is less tiring. Don't need to put so much energy into thrusting when you are longer. I do know that I need to lose more weight because they extra belly and leg fat hinders how much of me can get inside too.

