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Nikki asks, "Does Size Matter?"
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I think all that Nikki is saying is true, however I also think that doing exercises and gaining size does help a mans self esteam and that will help a man in bed for if he feels good about himself that will improve performance.
I agree, the confidence boost from having a larger penis is going to shine through into the mental side of sex, as well as the physical.
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Very true. I am totally in favor of PE for all of those reasons. The same is true of getting the rest of yourself in shape too, however.
I think Nikki's original post on this thread pretty much says it all as far as women are concerned:
I've noticed on this site several times that members say that most women who want/can handle a "big" dick are sluts. I don't see why a woman who would want a certain size dick is a slut or immature. If all women are different then there could be women who prefer larger size, and can handle it.
Personally, I don't think that women who would prefer a man to be a range of sizes is loose, a slut, immature, or inexperienced (notice the contradictions). That's like saying a woman who likes a buff guy is a slut.
And what really puzzles me is that the main purpose of this site is to help men (and women) become better lovers. And the main way we do this is through enlarging our penises. I know a lot of it is to boost confidence, but that would be pointless if women didn't care about the size. We men should just focus solely on hardness, technique, stamina, and confidence, without the need to enlarge our members.
That being said, I am NOT saying that size is the number one, most important factor for women when it comes to pleasure/attractiveness. I do feel though that some are playing it down.
My GF happens to be very deep. At 8.25", I still have a ways to go. My GF is NOT a slut, nor is she solely interested in me because of my dick/physique (thank God). She enjoys when we make love, but she wonders what bigger would feel like. Since doing some kegels and exercises, she has noticed the improvements and loved them (I was 8" when we met, but got up to 8.25" later. At the time, I was starting PE, but not on a set routine and not properly). So, I am enlarging in the hopes that it will give her better pleasure.
Personally, I don't think that women who would prefer a man to be a range of sizes is loose, a slut, immature, or inexperienced (notice the contradictions). That's like saying a woman who likes a buff guy is a slut.
And what really puzzles me is that the main purpose of this site is to help men (and women) become better lovers. And the main way we do this is through enlarging our penises. I know a lot of it is to boost confidence, but that would be pointless if women didn't care about the size. We men should just focus solely on hardness, technique, stamina, and confidence, without the need to enlarge our members.
That being said, I am NOT saying that size is the number one, most important factor for women when it comes to pleasure/attractiveness. I do feel though that some are playing it down.
My GF happens to be very deep. At 8.25", I still have a ways to go. My GF is NOT a slut, nor is she solely interested in me because of my dick/physique (thank God). She enjoys when we make love, but she wonders what bigger would feel like. Since doing some kegels and exercises, she has noticed the improvements and loved them (I was 8" when we met, but got up to 8.25" later. At the time, I was starting PE, but not on a set routine and not properly). So, I am enlarging in the hopes that it will give her better pleasure.
Yeah a big cawk is mostly for self esteem. We feel great when girl comment about our cawks and you are knows as a horse.. Is part of the terrestrial side we have in our DNA.
Lol do you say that because of the spelling of cock? I was honestly going to ask were he was from lol.
LOL
c'mon guys. Can't help. "cock" sounds in my mind too "yankee" lol. Cawk is more appropriate. And I apologize sometimes for missing letters. Is my laptop's keyboard that is fucked up.
c'mon guys. Can't help. "cock" sounds in my mind too "yankee" lol. Cawk is more appropriate. And I apologize sometimes for missing letters. Is my laptop's keyboard that is fucked up.
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Sorry, but in my mind "cawk" is what chickens say, "cock" is what my man has!
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When I really want to get my wife turned on, I buy her a pack of Duracells for her pocket rocket, he,he,he
If your Canadian you'll know what Im talking about......its a nasty stereo type but it unfortunately stuck as Canadian pop culture
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I agree....just because a girl likes big dicks doent make her a slut....
But it all gets down to stereo types....and sterewotypes are going to happen whether your a slut, black, white, gay,,,whatever. People base stereotypes on other peoples experience as well as their own to some degree. Although I disgree I can see where people who say this are coming from...because every size queen I ever knew were certifiable ho-bags...or at least came across as one; like they look/act like they should be off in some rap video somwhere. But just becasue thats "my/their" experience that doesnt make it correct right? But many choose to follow the stereotype rather then rationalize.
I fortunately choose to rationalize....
many dont
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I am canadian, from toronto, never herd of that sterio type befor, i just no that newfies are known for there wierd terms.
Since I've started PE I personally wish my girl cared a little more about size. Then we could share the enthusiasm every time I measure. Sometimes I find it so frustrating because it means a lot to me and her response is always, "I love it already.". I feel bad for girls because this is probably 100% sincere but it doesn't satisfy what I want to hear.
I do have to say that in this past month she's been taking a lot more interest in it. I think she's seen how hard I'm working at it and wants to support me. I've even gotten a few comments like, "You are hitting places inside of me that have never been touched before.". Now, sincere or not that puts a smile on my face. Yesterday she asked me to send her a picture of my cock to her. I went home for lunch and got it hard before sending it to her. Her response was, "I don't know how I fit that thing inside me anymore."
I think she is doing this for me more than anything but the support is fantastic to have.
Moving on - I don't think girls who prefer big dongs are hoes. Guys prefer different shaped women over others. The ones that bother me are the girls who make it known to every guy within hearing distance that they don't have a chance with her unless they are packin' 10". I can do without those.
I do have to say that in this past month she's been taking a lot more interest in it. I think she's seen how hard I'm working at it and wants to support me. I've even gotten a few comments like, "You are hitting places inside of me that have never been touched before.". Now, sincere or not that puts a smile on my face. Yesterday she asked me to send her a picture of my cock to her. I went home for lunch and got it hard before sending it to her. Her response was, "I don't know how I fit that thing inside me anymore."
I think she is doing this for me more than anything but the support is fantastic to have.
Moving on - I don't think girls who prefer big dongs are hoes. Guys prefer different shaped women over others. The ones that bother me are the girls who make it known to every guy within hearing distance that they don't have a chance with her unless they are packin' 10". I can do without those.
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I think you can believe that one. My personal experience is that 0.5" definitely can make a difference that a girl can feel (and really like a lot!)
As a female, I confess that my first response to hearing that my man was PEing was the same as you describe in your girlfriend: why do that when it is great already? But a little more thought and hearing more about what he was doing got me quite excited about it. It is not just the idea of added length and girth that I find exciting, but also the improved EQ and control that he has achieved from PE. All of that is part of the package and it is a fine one indeed.
You also need to remember that most of us start out quite skeptical about whether or not PE will work. Your girlfriend probably did not want to say anything that might end up hurting you if your PE efforts came to nothing. Now, however, she is seeing results and so she can get exited about it too. So my advice is that you don't question her sincerity in what she is saying now, it is probably just that her views have changed over time as she has learned more.
And I think it is VERY cool that you are telling her about it, that takes guts but there is a big payoff in the pleasure of sharing it!
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I don't think that size is ever a substitute for charm, wit, and personality, but it can be a nice addition to the mix. Sort of a surprise bonus.
I am aiming for more length to give me a few more sex position options. I want a little more girth just to give her that nice full feeling but not so much that she can't take me in her mouth or is afraid to take me in her ass.
But my primary objectives are all about EQ and control and generally getting smarter.
I want to be a smarter lover.
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I agree that size cannot replace wit and charisma. I have a buddy who is notorious for having a big wanger but at the same time for having horrible hygiene and being a liar. If he would wipe his ass better, shower daily and not feel the need to embelish stories for no reason he could probably get with chicks that aren't dumb and smelly themselves.
Yeah. The thing is that many women who are hoes do it to themselves. It's all about ego, and they feel that they have to hit a man where they think it hurts most - the size of his "manhood." They say that they want a "bigger man" to make themselves feel better, i.e. the bigger the dick they can take, the more of a woman they are.
The same is true for many men. They may feel that because they are "huge" that women are automically drawn to them or should be. If they have big muscles, the same goes. Again, it's all about ego.
And for any guy who says that a woman must be a hoe because she is "loose" or because she is deep, he should take a look at himself first. Maybe he is not thick enough or long enough to completely fill that woman. This is not a bad thing, but it is wrong for him to through his frustration on her because of it. I will say it again, women have different-sized vaginas. I am from the Caribbean, most women can take it quite deep, but not all can.
