Some of you have the most insane insecurities. I will never understand them. The major one thinking that you must have a large peen to keep your woman with you and to keep her from cheating. When in fact you keep her by being the best man you can be. But now I can see that I too have the most absurd insecurity. I have been reassured over and over and I simply keep taking the comments in a negative way. To the point where I have actually ended relationships thinking it is bad. The comments on the amount of my natural lubrication. It is as if I need to tell them upfront NOT to mention it. Because if they do I am immediately defensive. That is so fucked up. I think it has gotten worse since being on this site. So many of you comment on large vaginas or wanting that super tight feeling. When most of the time that means she is NOT ready for intercourse, she is not fully aroused. If you enter her and she is not naturally lubed you will tear her, hurt her. Yet I am blessed with a high level of arousal meaning a lot of natural lube. That does not change my vaginal opening. It is still tight but once in you can't hurt me. It just feels freaking good. But no, I am convinced too much arousal, too much natural lube is not as enjoyable for him. Sure for me its great. He can say OMG you are so wet or OMG tell me that is all for me or whatever he wants to. Too late, the moment he comments on it I am defensive. WTH!
