Just Talking

[islander]

True. My arousal level is not at its peak I admit that. But I'm not dry. Maybe it's from my celebacy for so long. In any event once in its all good. I always feel myself with my fingers to make sure my natural lube is good enough.
This has happened before but I take the blame for being too horny at the time lol
But I've found that taking my time saves on next day soreness.
I will give it some more time. I'm a runner and try to break at any reason.
Don't want to over think it (too late huh lol)

 

[imac]

You could always just have your partner open you up before he penetrates by sliding in one finger when you're wet and pushing down, that opens up and expands the vagina.

 

[islander]

Reminder

I know you guys were hoping I'd write about dead chickens again. I was thinking of it but schlittle would get mad so I thought of something different. You know they way at times you're reminded on a thread to get back on topic? ( someone is always saying that to me). Well here's a thread that has no topic; say anything you want. Are there parameters? Of course; just act like grownups. No name calling, no slurs, no fighting ,no chilishish stuff. Just say whatever you want, don't let it get heated, if it does switch the subject, etc. Just come to this thread and have fun. I am going to ask that NO MODERATORS POST ON THIS THREAD! The only thing the mods should do is to cruise by once in a while and make sure no one is killing anyone.IF A MOD SEES A BAD POST JUST GIVE HIM A RED THINGY;NO COMMMENTS.LET'S LEAVE THIS TO THE MEMBERS. Okay guys go have fun, keep it nice, because if it get really out of hand then it has to get closed down and I'll look silly, which may be a step up from looking stupid all the time.

 

[islander]

You could always just have your partner open you up before he penetrates by sliding in one finger when you're wet and pushing down, that opens up and expands the vagina.

Thanks Imac.

I ended it. He is someone I want as a friend for life without a doubt and all having sex will do is mess that future for the both of us up. We had a great long talk in person. He understood my point of view and accepted it and we have spoke, text and emailed as we always do since our meeting. I am sure it will take a little time for me to adjust to the not having sex part but to be honest the best part of the whole thing was having an equal and the sleeping together overnight and spending time. We are like two people that have known each other our entire lives. We should have met a million times as we grew up within blocks of each other! Anyway I am so happy for the time we had and the times to come. I am pleasantly relieved.

 

[islander]

Took a week but after a long convo it turns out I shut down over something I thought he said and he never said it.
Giving it a try I think we are worth it. As a full relationship not a fwb.
Big step. Will be my first since divorce. And no hiding we are out in open. Almost two years it took for me to get to this point. It's so scary but I'm happy. I'm safe. Not threatened by him. Very patient guy. Day by day. All I can do.
My BFF was right all along. I'll fess up to that tomorrow lol
I cut and run. But it's different this time. I listened. Wow. What a concept.

 

[islander]

I am a day dreamer. I space out for a few minutes several times a day. This freaks some people out. I always tell them when I meet them "hey I space out every once in a while.... I can hear you but I wont answer until I am finished processing something that popped up" lol

That must drive people NUTS

 

[ThirdArm]

I've been restoring with a baby bottle retainer for my glans while I wait for my ManHood order to come. Well, it must have fallen out when I hopped in the shower or something. Someone put it back on my spot at the kitchen table, probably having no idea where it has been. :biggrin1:

 

[islander]

Hahaha
Like having someone take out my bedroom waste basket and all that is in there are AA batteries and empty water bottles! Lol

 

[islander]

Ugh

 

[Closed039]

Ugh

 

[islander]

I am sorry I have typed it out a few times and delete it. I am just really frustrated I am just venting UGH lol

 

[islander]

My bottom line, no matter how inexperienced you are if you feel comfortable enough to talk to someone for combined two plus hours a day, have sex, talk about topics you've never heard yourself say out loud, how long before you reciprocate flirtacous text and talk!
Either you fish or cut bait. Because I won't wait. I'm sorry. I need the banter. I'm just not that nice!

 

[islander]

Done. Over. What a relief. Just friends. Great experience. Just reminded me to always stick to your gut. Next

 

[Closed039]

Done. Over. What a relief. Just friends. Great experience. Just reminded me to always stick to your gut. Next

Kinda sucks but I know what you mean by "relief." Sometimes its better to just have some finality so you can move on.

 

[islander]

PE honestly I'm so happy
He is a great guy. A total keeper as a friend and had I lusted him and he me the same way we would be in la la land.

One day ill find a man like this recent one (virtually a ten) but he will make me crazy in lust. Ill start dating again after the holidays. I need another break lol

 

[islander]

I wish people who like to kiss would take care of their tongue. Crisp potato chips, sucking on hard candy, burning it from hot drinks, all roughs up your tongue. There is nothing worse than sucking on a guys tongue and it feeling like sand paper

I kissed my friend the other night (just a pop kiss I kiss all my friends) and he has the best soft lips ever. But I have seen his tongue and its a mess. The thought of touching that makes me gag. I decided to tell him in a different way. Telling him that I roughed mine up with chips and I guess its good I am single so no one will feel my roughed up tongue. Hopefully he feels his tongue against his soft lips. He will notice.

 

[islander]

A male friend told me: I am mature and experienced enough to know that what will sustain a relationship is the "wow" factor does not need to be large in the beginning of a friendship. You feel the large WOW once the relationship has evolved.
I said "I agree. The first love kiss happens when you fall in love and it is the first kiss"

So sweet lol

 

[islander]

Why isn't anyone Just Talking? hahaha

 

[ballack00]

If you are really careful with steady hand, put some witch hazel on your finger and swipe it on the skin around the eyes. Wait a few minutes and then wash off. Dont do this and put any compress on there because it will drain into your eyes, not good.

 

[NCC707]

I hate stubbing my toes. I look like an idiot hopping around on one foot and saying "ow....ouch...sh*t....ow".