You know what? This guy is broken and doesn't want to be fixed. Let him waste his life with his attitude. Let's all go watch curling; far more exciting than this!
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What the hell is wrong with you? I'm not whining just looking at things realistically.
If you can't put yourself in a woman's shoes. Then at least think - would you want your daughter, mom, cousin, friend go out with a 24 y/o virgin loser? No.
Those that say - go out, start doing, approach etc. Would you be OK if I did that with your daughter, mom, friend etc.?
If you can't put yourself in a woman's shoes. Then at least think - would you want your daughter, mom, cousin, friend go out with a 24 y/o virgin loser? No.
Those that say - go out, start doing, approach etc. Would you be OK if I did that with your daughter, mom, friend etc.?
just go find a church nerd chic thats a virgin too,and being a virgin is fine,at least you dont have any stds etc yet.you have to get out there in a social setting or something,chix will most likely not come to your house.go on match.com or something..dumptruck loads of advice has been givin to you so i dont know why this is still being discussed..just go deal with your needs=done....p.s.-be confident,chix will pick up on you being all sad and negative,which will actually repel them all away!
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No one here said that there is a problem with being a 24 years old virgin, you explained what/how you feel and what you think is your problem, other members gave you advice, including ladies, all you have to do is listen, and consider the advice. 
Your state of mind makes it hard for you to accept or see anything other than what you believe is true, which is not, and all that makes some members not take your point seriously, because you keep arguing and dismissing their advice.
Asking the same question over and over again will not yeild in different answers/results, try to apply what you were advised, if and when it fails, come and discuss it further based on your new experience, but just saying that it will not work without trying is not good for you.
I beleive that when you hear a negative response, its more for your own good, than showing personal displeasure with you.
I can understand your problem, all I see however, is that you need to hear us all out, think of what is being said deeply, then work on it, and try to apply it, we will always be here for future guidance, if you show you're willing to improve and solve it positively, it can't be passively fixed.
So please don't take anything here as a strike at your person, but to only get your attention at your real problem, which is negativity.
Good Luck!
Your state of mind makes it hard for you to accept or see anything other than what you believe is true, which is not, and all that makes some members not take your point seriously, because you keep arguing and dismissing their advice.
Asking the same question over and over again will not yeild in different answers/results, try to apply what you were advised, if and when it fails, come and discuss it further based on your new experience, but just saying that it will not work without trying is not good for you.
I beleive that when you hear a negative response, its more for your own good, than showing personal displeasure with you.
I can understand your problem, all I see however, is that you need to hear us all out, think of what is being said deeply, then work on it, and try to apply it, we will always be here for future guidance, if you show you're willing to improve and solve it positively, it can't be passively fixed.
So please don't take anything here as a strike at your person, but to only get your attention at your real problem, which is negativity.
Good Luck!
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Look dickhead if you think you''re a loser well that's issue number one. Change your thinking before you wast your life and someone gives you a kick in the ass, which is what you need.
I have seen ugly guys, guys who are jerks, guys who are fat and have pimples, guys who are ugly fat jerks with pimples and even complete morons end up getting girls and getting married.You want to whine and call yourself a loser then you're not worth our time. You want to be young and go out and enjoy your life and eventually find a girl then it's all up to you.No one here is going to date you. If I was you,and I'm glad I'm not, I'd get my lazy ass of the computer and go out and enjoy myself. Who know you may met an ugly fat jerky girl with pimples that would just love you, unless of course you think you're too good for them.
I have seen ugly guys, guys who are jerks, guys who are fat and have pimples, guys who are ugly fat jerks with pimples and even complete morons end up getting girls and getting married.You want to whine and call yourself a loser then you're not worth our time. You want to be young and go out and enjoy your life and eventually find a girl then it's all up to you.No one here is going to date you. If I was you,and I'm glad I'm not, I'd get my lazy ass of the computer and go out and enjoy myself. Who know you may met an ugly fat jerky girl with pimples that would just love you, unless of course you think you're too good for them.
I do. And no one has answered my question would anyone be OK if I approached someone they knew.
Not acting like I mope I would. Acting like a normal young man who was kind and maybe wanted to share a cup of coffee why not?
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I ask you to be a little bit more realistic.
Discarding advice, and arguing that your broken is not realistic, you can be a cynic or a pessimist, and yet think, use your brain and senses, thats more realistic.
Don't be judgmental with yourself, nor with others, your assumption that you are a loser and that no one will ever choose you is prejudice on both yourself and on others.
Please reconsider.
Discarding advice, and arguing that your broken is not realistic, you can be a cynic or a pessimist, and yet think, use your brain and senses, thats more realistic.
Don't be judgmental with yourself, nor with others, your assumption that you are a loser and that no one will ever choose you is prejudice on both yourself and on others.
Please reconsider.
I'd be fine with you approaching someone I knew, but you would probably not get far with them if you act like you do in this thread!
Im the same as you 24yo V. Yet I went to a party tonight. Had fun with friends, scaned field, got drunk as hell, then I got hit on by girls. Thankfully I had enough wits to know that "when smashed with alcohol dont trust anyone". But still, I was hit on by girls despite the fact that Im a 24yo virgin. Just start going out. Geez its hard to type anything when you see everything in double.
PS. Is my english better when I'm drunk?
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If you treated her well and she liked you then I would be happy for my daughter or sister. If you came over acting like you are here I would have my son punch you in the nose but since I cant I am thinking that you dont really need to be here any longer so by and have a great life.
