JAMESMONROE Journal and Log. (Premature Ejaculation) PLEASE HELP!!!! :O)

[JamesMonroe]

James, if you don't mind I have some questions for you. I read that you overcame PE so you might be helpful.

- For those who suffer from PE would you recommend masturbating with or without lube? (I've started using lube recently and I hope it can help decrease sensitivity as it feels vaguely closer to a vagina)

- How exactly does this death grip work?

I'm edging with lube, a tight grip, only imagination and aiming at lasting longer. Hope you can help. Thanks.

You need to find my Death Grip posting and read it. It's all there.
Death grip is done without lube and fast. Never masturbate with porn.
You basically have to tighten your grip and/or rub to create dry friction on all of your penis' sensitive/involuntary kegel/spasm causing spots.
Stop regular kegels. Do only rev kegels.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Newsflash:
I am staring to not last as long as I used to. I can def prob blame it on masturbating to porn. I have to admit I have been doing it a lot since my GF is super tired from work most of the time during the week. Lol. I will stop masturbating to porn again and let you know what happens. But I see my advice seems to be right.....
Not enough sex and too much masturbation to porn = prem ejac.

 

[Rational Mind]

Porn leads you to the PONR too quickly. At least that's what it did to me and it was probably what caused my PE as well as other factors. I quit it now and I'm trying to masturbate only with my imagination.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Porn leads you to the PONR too quickly. At least that's what it did to me and it was probably what caused my PE as well as other factors. I quit it now and I'm trying to masturbate only with my imagination.

Yes u are right and yes that is what caused my perm ejac at first too but I am cured now.

 

[Rational Mind]

Glad you're cured. Besides the death grip would you recommend plateau edging or start/stop edging? I think the first one is more useful for those who suffer from PE because you have to keep stroking even when you're highly aroused.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Glad you're cured. Besides the death grip would you recommend plateau edging or start/stop edging? I think the first one is more useful for those who suffer from PE because you have to keep stroking even when you're highly aroused.

I combined sending with ballooning. I ballooned during edging only at PONR to get my penis used to revieving constant stimulation through PONR, without ejaculating.

 

[JamesMonroe]

I combined EDGING with ballooning. I ballooned during edging only at PONR to get my penis used to revieving constant stimulation through PONR, without ejaculating.

I combined EDGING(not sending) with ballooning.

 

[Rational Mind]

Yeah I agree. Combining edging with ballooning makes more sense because you give your penis much more stimulation!

 

[adios01]

Does having to edge with porn on or off make big difference?? Or does jt make prem worse

 

[Toxic2226]

Depends on the individual in my opinion but it would seem that in most cases I've read the consensus is that porn is bad for PremE.

It certainly shouldn't be relied on for erections and if you are coming to the PONR in less than 20 minutes with it you probably should be switching it off.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Yeah I agree. Combining edging with ballooning makes more sense because you give your penis much more stimulation!

Yes but the point is to be edging/stroking and then you switch to ballooning at PONR to lessen the stimulation and to be able to receive stimulation through the PONR and continue without having to stop at all.
Ballooning if don't the right way is generally less stimulating than full stroke/head edging.

 

[newbie2011]

Ballooning, real sex, death grip, no lube. I basically found the most sensitive spot on my penis and rubbed it dry till I could tolerate more. Most have it at the frenulum, but I definitely have mine on the top of my penis head, rifht behind my penis hole.

Do you need to keep doing this and does it end up not being as sensitive? I have and always have been very sensitive.