Hi everyone !
My mesurements for September 2011 :
8.00 inches in lenght.
5.75 inches in with.
No gains for September 2011 but I try to be as regular as I can .
The other day I read some posts about Premature Ejaculation or PE and I would like to share with you guys how I overcame those problems . As mentionnend on my first Post , I first read the Posts about Penis Enlargement and Premature Ejaculation before commiting my self to target these two areas that I had problems with.
By exercissing my Penis I made astounishing gains in the first 6 months but I still remainend a Premature Ejaculator. It was very frustrating in the beginning . I decided to look in to it deeper and I realized that I made a couple of mistakes when kegeling and when having sex.
When having sex I imediatly started to panic . In my mind I was wishing not to Ejaculate after a minute of having sex and guess what ? I would Ejaculate in a minute or less . I would be overarroused and at times I would Ejaculate before even penetrating. You can imagine how frustrating this situation was. Kegeling wasn't helping me either because I didn't take rest days, I was Kegeling every day . So what happend was that my PC muscle became overtrainend and there was times that I couldn't even get a Erection . There was a couple of times that I Ejaculated before even getting a Erection now that was very sceary.
So this one morning I was so fed-up with this situation . I added edging and ballooning to my program and I started to know my body better. In the beginning there was many accidents because I didn't know my PONR. With edging and ballooning I learnend my limits. I've changed my kegel schedule and made sure that I would kegel every other day .
Now when having sex I realized that I was kegeling unconsiously and that made me Ejaculate very quikly . So I decidet to add reverse kegels in to my program and that helped me to relax my PC muscle . Now with the PC muscle relaxed I didn't have the urge to Ejaculate so fast. But I still wasn't satisfied . When edging and ballooning I seemed to have all the control in the world but when it came down to having sex I would last between 2 and 3 minutes now instead of 1 minute or less like before.
Then this one night a miracle happend.
When having sex I wouldn't have any forplay what so ever and as soon as I would get a erection my wife would climb on my Penis and go at it real fast. She was probably thinking to her self " I have to go fast if I want to enjoy this otherwise he will Ejaculate and it's over". So what happend all the time is that my Penis wouldn't have the time to adjust to the warmth of her vagina, and guess what ? I would Ejaculate after 2 - 3 minutes even after having a strong PC muscle. Anyways very frustrating.
So this one night my wife asks me if I feel like having sex and I said yes . She however didn't feel like it at all because she had a rough day. And by telling me that it somehow relaxed me completly. I didn't worry about beeing able to last longer... She asked me what position and I said the missionary position would be just fine. I got an erection without even her helping me and I climbed on top of her. As I penetrated her I had that immediat urge of wanting to Ejaculate. I immediatly stopped inside of her and waited that urge out and calming my mind in the same time I made sure that my PC muscle was relaxed. with the urge to Ejaculate faiding I started to go in and out slowly . After about 5 minutes my Penis got used to the warmth of her vagina and I accelerated going in and out. The control I felt was amazing . It felt like me edging just a hell of a lot nicer. My wife started moaning and she had her first Orgasm . I continued for a while longer and she was having her second Orgasm. 30 minutes in and after her fourth Orgasm she begged me to Ejaculate . I've asked her if she wouldn't mind trying other positions and she agreed. After about one hour and having done a couple of different positions she was pleading with me to Ejaculate because she couldn't take it anymore. So I did and let me tell you it was the best orgasm I ever had and the amount of sperm that came out was astounishing.
You can just imagine how I felt that night. My wife was surprised and asked me if I was taking Viagra and I started to laugh out loud, Honey I don't need that .
From that night on we made changes in our sex life. We did forplay and my wife alouwed me to start slowly and let me tell you it's still a success. I became sure of my self and my insecurities where gone forever it's like I reprogrammed my mind in to lasting as long as I want . I'm also learning about dry Orgasms for the past month now and it works for me . The only thing is that after having a dry Orgasm I have to rest for a couple of minutes before getting a Erection again but I'm working on this . I know that not everyone is the same but if you have the same problems like I had I hope this story helps.
Untill October bye .