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Yep, don't ask about previous partner's size or sexual prowess, misery and insecurity is sure to ensue.
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Yep, don't ask about previous partner's size or sexual prowess, misery and insecurity is sure to ensue.
A girl I know had been with a guy with a 8 inch dick, they broke up and she started seeing a guy that had 6 inches. She was very disappointed by his size at first, but 6 months into the relationship her body had gotten accustomed and she said they had the best sex in her life. For the first time in her life, she squirted. Not with the 8 incher, but with the 6 incher.
Moral of the story: Dick size is FAR from the most important factor in sex. Far from it. A womans sexual experience is IMO 90% mental. If she is really turned on by you, if you really know what you're doing, your size doesn't matter as long as you don't have a very small or big. This is what guys in this forum need to understand, because if they go around believing their quality as sexual partners is primarily determined by the size in their pants, they will go at PE for the completely wrong reasons.
I understand that, I usually would never ask a question like that. It was just a heat of the moment kind of thing.
Thats incredible that you sent me this, because this weekend i made my girlfriend squirt for the first time.
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I think if penis size didn't matter..this forum wouldn't exist. Nail size doesnt matter..hence the nonexistance of NEgym.com . Every woman that I've been close to from my mom to my wife and all the friends/lovers I've had have made some indication that size is important. It is just one thing on an array of things that women are drawn to. Height, washboard ABS, big arms, wide shoulders, a deep voice, CONFIDENCE, intelligence, a sense of humour, nice facial structure, good teeth, clean asshole, sexual prowess, non hairy chests, fat dicks, status and security ..all of this and a lot more combines to determine a mans attractiveness. The thing with dick size is that its more of a surprise than these other things, its a mystery, but it IS just one piece of the puzzle.
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I think if penis size didn't matter..this forum wouldn't exist. Nail size doesnt matter..hence the nonexistance of NEgym.com . Every woman that I've been close to from my mom to my wife and all the friends/lovers I've had have made some indication that size is important. It is just one thing on an array of things that women are drawn to. Height, washboard ABS, big arms, wide shoulders, a deep voice, CONFIDENCE, intelligence, a sense of humour, nice facial structure, good teeth, clean asshole, sexual prowess, non hairy chests, fat dicks, status and security ..all of this and a lot more combines to determine a mans attractiveness. The thing with dick size is that its more of a surprise than these other things, its a mystery, but it IS just one piece of the puzzle.
Of course penis size matters. Same as height matters and looks matter. It depends on of the person - is he too uncomfortable of the truth/unable to face reality/wants to continue living in fairy tale land of equalism OR is the a real man who can admit the harsh realities and his shortcomings?
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Hey guys! Brainhack here posting from the Philippines.
Well, I'm an Asian and when it comes to penis size, we're far off compared to guys from Western countries. Since people are blabbering here about WHEN and WHY size matters, lemme share my two cents:
I've had sex with women from different races, and I'VE NEVER BEEN INSULTED with my size. But lately, I had to break up with a woman of my own race because of this. She had two instances when she was telling me about the size of her exes without me asking about it. First was when we first had sex. She told me that I was different. Not because she didn't enjoy it (hell! she had big-O's like crazy. a few squirts as well!) but because I was a lot smaller compared to guys he used to date. I just ignored it at first but I was so down after that talk.
2nd instance was when we were drinking coffee. She suddenly talked about how big her ex was like it was some Pulitzer-prize story. I just had to end it right then and there. "Size queen? Not worthy of love.", I thought. But seriously, as a guy myself, that's some serious MF hit right on the spot where I was most vulnerable.
I'm an average in Asian perspective (micro, for Western standards). My confidence shrunk. And that's when I stumbled upon this site, trying to gain the size even that of an average Westerner.
I'm wondering, though. I did it with an American lady before (mid-20's, party-goer, damn well EXPERIENCED) and she was having big-O's like crazy too. She then tells me that it's not really the size but the way I was hitting the right spot. I'm not lifting my chair up high here but I've done some crazy research about that and so I'm pretty confident that I was indeed hitting the right spot. Plus some dirty talking and other stuff. She tells me that I'm good in bed, performance-wise.
Which brings me to my conclusion. I think size DOES matter. People say that we need to be happy by what we've got. Yeah, point taken. But what's the use of the word IMPROVEMENT? If we can the best that we can be, then why settle for less? Growing my penis is a priority to me. Not because of the woman who told me I lack in size and not because of a future-girlfriend who might be a size queen. I will do it 'cause it's my job as a man, constantly seeking improvement and self-satisfaction.
On the other hand, I thought, as an Asian, it's quite impossible for me to grow a 9-incher (it may be possible, but not at a distant future). So, when size lacks and I can't do something about it no more, I'll rely on the one other thing that I have. Guts. Confidence. My brain. They say that the sexiest part of a man is his brain. Sense of humor + sexual knowledge = MAN.
All in all, it's really a combination of everything. What will you do with a 9-inch dick if you only know how to put it in and pull it out, or if you've got the knowledge of a sex god but you apply it with a 5-inch dick (and yes, that's my size)?
Any thoughts?
Well, I'm an Asian and when it comes to penis size, we're far off compared to guys from Western countries. Since people are blabbering here about WHEN and WHY size matters, lemme share my two cents:
I've had sex with women from different races, and I'VE NEVER BEEN INSULTED with my size. But lately, I had to break up with a woman of my own race because of this. She had two instances when she was telling me about the size of her exes without me asking about it. First was when we first had sex. She told me that I was different. Not because she didn't enjoy it (hell! she had big-O's like crazy. a few squirts as well!) but because I was a lot smaller compared to guys he used to date. I just ignored it at first but I was so down after that talk.
2nd instance was when we were drinking coffee. She suddenly talked about how big her ex was like it was some Pulitzer-prize story. I just had to end it right then and there. "Size queen? Not worthy of love.", I thought. But seriously, as a guy myself, that's some serious MF hit right on the spot where I was most vulnerable.
I'm an average in Asian perspective (micro, for Western standards). My confidence shrunk. And that's when I stumbled upon this site, trying to gain the size even that of an average Westerner.
I'm wondering, though. I did it with an American lady before (mid-20's, party-goer, damn well EXPERIENCED) and she was having big-O's like crazy too. She then tells me that it's not really the size but the way I was hitting the right spot. I'm not lifting my chair up high here but I've done some crazy research about that and so I'm pretty confident that I was indeed hitting the right spot. Plus some dirty talking and other stuff. She tells me that I'm good in bed, performance-wise.
Which brings me to my conclusion. I think size DOES matter. People say that we need to be happy by what we've got. Yeah, point taken. But what's the use of the word IMPROVEMENT? If we can the best that we can be, then why settle for less? Growing my penis is a priority to me. Not because of the woman who told me I lack in size and not because of a future-girlfriend who might be a size queen. I will do it 'cause it's my job as a man, constantly seeking improvement and self-satisfaction.
On the other hand, I thought, as an Asian, it's quite impossible for me to grow a 9-incher (it may be possible, but not at a distant future). So, when size lacks and I can't do something about it no more, I'll rely on the one other thing that I have. Guts. Confidence. My brain. They say that the sexiest part of a man is his brain. Sense of humor + sexual knowledge = MAN.
All in all, it's really a combination of everything. What will you do with a 9-inch dick if you only know how to put it in and pull it out, or if you've got the knowledge of a sex god but you apply it with a 5-inch dick (and yes, that's my size)?
Any thoughts?
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I have been told several times from women the concern about the size of a man's penis is the man himself. Well I agree to a point. I would love to have a bigger penis so I could do more positions with her. Yea I know she keeps telling me as long as she has her orgasms she is satisified. Us fellows know one thing when we are stroking that thang good she will reach around and pull your ass in closer because she is wanting just a little more or at least that is what I think. Oral sex when I am giving it to her is the best. To me the only thing better is when we orgasm at the same time together. One thing for sure the car runs better if you warm it up first. I love to hear those two words being spoken after the heater is really hot.
I didnt read it all but I will say SIZE MATTERS to the extent that you must have a penis that functions and the girl must want to be with you because she is into you.
After that maybe if it is too big and hurts its bad ( very few fit in here) or if its so small she just cant feel it ( even fewer fit in here) point is most of us are average +/- and we will satisfy our partner that wants to be with us.
Someone i know of with a massive tool has several nice looking girls on the go and they argue over him like crazy and get messed about cos they get jealous of each other and want him for themselves i could not imagine being able to treat women like that and get away with it but as sad and true as it is he does and just goes from one to other as he pleases. Everyone keeps saying it is because of whats between his legs so in this case size definitely matters but is very sad.
Great post!
I agree to all you say, thanks for the part about Loving yourself unconditionally!
From my perspective, as a man, I guess penis size isnt that important in a relationship. Unless the man has a micro
one, but even then things can go really well. We are all different. But like always, from horsepower in cars,
bigger flat-tv or other things...most commonly in US
bigger is always more of the good stuff.. Im scandinavian...by the way... Anyw I believe we can all agree on one thing though. A bigger penis in a relationship or ons is a PLUS, but not considered a really important part.
All the women ive been with like 50+ has never said anything bad about it (I think its very rare, women doesnt want to hurt us), except my former girlfriend when she was angry outside bed...it hurt. Back then I had a average penis, 4.80girth 6.5length or so, not that much. Actually..that was one main reason I started looking at ways to enlarge it...thank you former girlfriend. Now im bigger though. So, if you have a micro penis and PE for a while you will satisfy any girl enough!
So, for me, whatever this post says, and respect to the smaller men out there... For that PLUS reason I will continue
PE until I am satisfied
Bigger is always better to some degree...
I agree to all you say, thanks for the part about Loving yourself unconditionally!
From my perspective, as a man, I guess penis size isnt that important in a relationship. Unless the man has a micro
one, but even then things can go really well. We are all different. But like always, from horsepower in cars,
bigger flat-tv or other things...most commonly in US
bigger is always more of the good stuff.. Im scandinavian...by the way... Anyw I believe we can all agree on one thing though. A bigger penis in a relationship or ons is a PLUS, but not considered a really important part.All the women ive been with like 50+ has never said anything bad about it (I think its very rare, women doesnt want to hurt us), except my former girlfriend when she was angry outside bed...it hurt. Back then I had a average penis, 4.80girth 6.5length or so, not that much. Actually..that was one main reason I started looking at ways to enlarge it...thank you former girlfriend. Now im bigger though. So, if you have a micro penis and PE for a while you will satisfy any girl enough!
So, for me, whatever this post says, and respect to the smaller men out there... For that PLUS reason I will continue
PE until I am satisfied
Bigger is always better to some degree...
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