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[TTBB]

:agree:

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

I've read through most of this thread. Not all of it though. And I've also read through many of your posts in other threads TittyTittyBangBang.

You seem like a really lovely person, but do you know how rare it is to read a women write the kind of things you are writing? It makes me a little mad that you think it's just to do with male ego or whatever you said, (sorry I can't remember exactly, i know that's misquoting.). But there is one reason why men are self conscious about penis size and one reason only. And that is women.

I have had friends who are girls all my life, and I've read countless penis size threads and the vast vast vast vast majority that I have seen talk about it have said something very similar to the following. "Yes it matters and any women who say it does not are lying". Any thread (outside this forum at least) will have at least one woman say that almost word for word. A great deal of women say they need at least 6 and a half inches.

In my experience women bring up penis size a lot. Especially when they are in groups or drunk. I HATE talking about sex with women but I work with them and they always bring it up. When I refused to tell them my penis size they then waved their little fingers at me and tried to give me the nick name peewee.

What makes me the saddest is not that women want a big penis, but the fact that they seem to take such incredible pleasure in pointing it out. Almost hoping that I am small. I can't get passed this. Because if I knew a woman who was self conscious about something I would take pleasure in making her feel good about herself, not make her feel worse. I would never ridicule her.

TittyTittyBangBang if all the women or even if just most of the women I interacted with were as lovely and as highly emotionally intelligent as you seem to be I would not be worried about my fairly average size. But from my own experience I have become so disheartened by the lack of compassion from women on this subject I even have doubts to the fact that you are really a woman. I suspect you might be a guy who wants to make others guys feel better, and you know just what to say. I don't mean to offend. I can't see you or hear you, so it's not like i'm saying you are manly or anything. lol

Maybe I should provide links to threads I am talking about where the majority of women clearly state that size is a big deal to them. At least then you will get an idea of why men are like the way they are.

 

[GTO]

Pretty wordy for a first post. But TTBB, along with Batwoman and some others here are in fact female - they just happen to have a very keen sense and awareness that seem to escape other women. They'll probably hit me for this bit being 'older,' more mature women, that helps. I wish more of them could find their way here to the Gym!

And no - I am NOT callin them old - LOL!!!

 

[JonPop]

You may be A Musical Genius, but you are also a skeptic. You are the type that will question everyone and everything that you find on these boards. Why are you here? You wrote a long post in essence calling TittyTittyBangBang a liar. If you cannot accept one fact here, then this place is not for you. (jP

 

[Zanarkand]

Ok. All I know is I have heard many, many girls saying they NEED a big dick. Or seen my friend who is reportedly packing heat getting girls even though he is as ugly as me.

I truly want to believe you, and not calling you a liar, but the girls I've been around are definitely size queens, or wannabes at least.

lol!

as for the second line, ye pretty much same here

 

[TTBB]

I've read through most of this thread. Not all of it though. And I've also read through many of your posts in other threads TittyTittyBangBang.

You seem like a really lovely person, but do you know how rare it is to read a women write the kind of things you are writing? It makes me a little mad that you think it's just to do with male ego or whatever you said, (sorry I can't remember exactly, i know that's misquoting.). But there is one reason why men are self conscious about penis size and one reason only. And that is women.

I have had friends who are girls all my life, and I've read countless penis size threads and the vast vast vast vast majority that I have seen talk about it have said something very similar to the following. "Yes it matters and any women who say it does not are lying". Any thread (outside this forum at least) will have at least one woman say that almost word for word. A great deal of women say they need at least 6 and a half inches.

In my experience women bring up penis size a lot. Especially when they are in groups or drunk. I HATE talking about sex with women but I work with them and they always bring it up. When I refused to tell them my penis size they then waved their little fingers at me and tried to give me the nick name peewee.

What makes me the saddest is not that women want a big penis, but the fact that they seem to take such incredible pleasure in pointing it out. Almost hoping that I am small. I can't get passed this. Because if I knew a woman who was self conscious about something I would take pleasure in making her feel good about herself, not make her feel worse. I would never ridicule her.

TittyTittyBangBang if all the women or even if just most of the women I interacted with were as lovely and as highly emotionally intelligent as you seem to be I would not be worried about my fairly average size. But from my own experience I have become so disheartened by the lack of compassion from women on this subject I even have doubts to the fact that you are really a woman. I suspect you might be a guy who wants to make others guys feel better, and you know just what to say. I don't mean to offend. I can't see you or hear you, so it's not like i'm saying you are manly or anything. lol

Maybe I should provide links to threads I am talking about where the majority of women clearly state that size is a big deal to them. At least then you will get an idea of why men are like the way they are.

oh where to begin...
Men who are gay are also selfconcious about their penis size..so sorry you can't blame women for all of mans problems, and body esteems... Men are also competing with other men to be the biggest or most impressive, to blow the other men out of the water in the sexual competition which they believe is about size more then sexual skill.. so again you can't blame women for penis problems... sure women have latched onto the penis competition, the king of the mountain and the alpha male slugging matches males have, women have latched onto the fact that mens male-hood in there mind is attached to cock... that a mans ego is attached to his penis.. and by ego i mean self esteem, body image and confidence (those are things that reflect ego)

I am not lying when i say penis size doesn't matter...sure women might have an ideal size...but they also have an ideal man (as a whole )and they will put the ideal man(as a whole) ahead of penis size. Women don't want the biggest penis, or just big penis, they want the cock that is attached to the guy who they are lusting... if a girl is put off you because of your penis size that just means she didn't like you enough as a whole to begin with.

Women talk about wanting big penis when they are drunk because of media and because they are competitive, society has been slowly training through entertainment shows and porn, so women are now mimicking the behavior they see...men have joked about small cock for a long time, women have also latched onto this, because as a whole women have found more of a sexual voice as censorship and moral codes become looser.

I am female, there are a few on here who have seen me and are in my personal circle and can vouch for the fact i am most definitely female...i am no different now that i am older then what i was when i was in my teens and 20's, so i don't think my perspectives have to do with my age.. i do get their has been a shift in mentality with people who are younger...but i also know that not everyone in the world are sheep so not all women are cut from the mold you are talking about .but yes the young do go through a learning curve, and from what i know young guys can be dumbasses too.(guys my age can be no better some are slow with learning curves)
I also don't think i am that special or unique.. i think that is something guys say to discredit what i am saying.. its an excuse that is used to justify why 'you' should not believe my view because then you might have to accept that there are nice women out there who will not give a damn if your cock isn't big...and then what will you have left to blame?

 

[closeed258]

You may be A Musical Genius, but you are also a skeptic. You are the type that will question everyone and everything that you find on these boards. Why are you here? You wrote a long post in essence calling TittyTittyBangBang a liar. If you cannot accept one fact here, then this place is not for you. (jP

He isn't saying Titty is lying, he is saying that to a lot of women size does matter. He is just saying his experience with girls shows size matters as does my experiences but I'm sure to Titty and plenty of other girls it doesn't matter as I've read from men on here as well.

 

[JonPop]

I was referring to the part of the post, that he is questioning TTBB about actually being a female.

 

[closeed258]

I was referring to the part of the post, that he is questioning TTBB about actually being a female.

Oh yeah, I glanced through it and missed that out. lol

 

[Pirate]

Yup. TTBB is a woman. Quite a woman, in fact. No doubts there.
I dispute the notion that guys have insecurities about their size mainly because of women. We have guys here who have size issues who have never been naked with a woman. I think that porn is a much bigger contributor to this sort of insecurity than real life women ever have been.

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

Thanks for the replies.

Ok Titty you make a good point about the gay men, and you are right, there are other reasons that men feel self conscious about their penis. What I should have said was "There is only one reason why I feel self conscious about the size of my penis, and that is women". i do not feel competitive with men. And even if I did my flaccid size is very large considering my errect size, so no men would know it's not all that great.

But i'm not trying to make all women out to be evil and all men out to be saints. I know there are plenty of men who are just as bad towards women's bodies. And I think i'm paying for it, cause that's probably why so many women take such pleasure in making men feel bad about penis size.

I'm also aware that women look for other qualities in a man than just a decent size penis. It's just that a decent size penis is pretty important to most girls these days. But just now , before posting this, I have again googled "is penis size important" and found loads of woman who says it is, and not one single one who says it's not. The general opinion seems to be it has to be at least average or they would dump the guy even if he was perfect. Here are some quotes from the first forum that popped up.

"ok sweetie,..no matter what women tell you, size IS important"

"my preference is about 6 1/2 to 8 inches I guess...give or take"

"As I said to Jimmy...mouth, tongue, fingers, toys....theyre all great....but, again (for securitygirl lol ) as I also said...sometimes a girl just wants to be dicked...the fuck....down "

"Penis size is VERY important........... lol"

 

[TTBB]

ok i am just heading out the door so i will post this quickly .. might come back later to respond to the rest of your post but for now i will say

Google..... "penis size not important"

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

You may be A Musical Genius, but you are also a skeptic. You are the type that will question everyone and everything that you find on these boards. Why are you here? You wrote a long post in essence calling TittyTittyBangBang a liar. If you cannot accept one fact here, then this place is not for you. (jP

That's a bit of an overreaction I think. So I was skeptical about the gender of someone who I have never seen or heard, or even seen a photo of. It may be a fact but I had no evidence. But now people have replied saying they know for sure she is a woman so that is good enough for me.

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

ok i am just heading out the door so i will post this quickly .. might come back later to respond to the rest of your post but for now i will say

Google..... "penis size not important"

Ok i've got to leave now, but I just googled what you said and saw lots of men saying penis size isn't important. No woman so far though!

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

Oh and I just logged on to twitter. I promise i'm not lying when I say this was the tweet that was at the top of my home page.

"Just to let everyone know; I seen a really really BIG PENIS today. Didn't get to try it out though oh... maybe another time..."

That was Charlie Sheen's porn star girl friend though. Just thought it was pretty funny seeing that after our discussion. lol

Really got to go now...

 

[Closed039]

Oh and I just logged on to twitter. I promise i'm not lying when I say this was the tweet that was at the top of my home page.

"Just to let everyone know; I seen a really really BIG PENIS today. Didn't get to try it out though oh... maybe another time..."

That was Charlie Sheen's porn star girl friend though. Just thought it was pretty funny seeing that after our discussion. lol

Really got to go now...

Seriously? I don't even know where to begin with this post. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your skepticism. But it really hurts your argument to put forth this kind of evidence. Yes, I know it is a bad coincidence that that particular tweet was at the top of your page. But use your head dude.

She is a porn star. She saw a big dick - *shocker.* She didn't get to try it out? Well that's her job, and you know that there is so much acting in porn, her tweet was probably an act as well. I'm sure shes simply devastated that she missed out on that large cock, because she probably hasn't been stuffed with enough of them.

Now, if that quiet girl from high school had tweeted that, maybe this would be a different story...

Edit: I don't really mean to rip into you - I just read your post a little closer and I think you did post knowing that the above example was not the norm, but still...

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

Oh my god. I was about to rip into YOU until i read this part of your message.

I just read your post a little closer and I think you did post knowing that the above example was not the norm, but still...

Yes I know it's not the norm, that's why I pointed out that she was a porn star. I thought It was pretty clear I just pointed it out cause it was a humerous coincidence.

 

[Pegasus]

Oh god, not yet another self proclaimed genius!

 

[Closed039]

Oh my god. I was about to rip into YOU until i read this part of your message.



Yes I know it's not the norm, that's why I pointed out that she was a porn star. I thought It was pretty clear I just pointed it out cause it was a humerous coincidence.

Yes, apologies. In my haste to be a dick I didn't fully read your post. :bad:

 

[GTO]

I think we can all agree that there are obviously some worlds where it is important - VERY important. And in others, not so much. And if you are not a part of the other world, then why should you concern yourself with what that world thinks?

In porn, it's ALL about size - big boobs, big ass, big dick, etc. It's ALL size related. In the other world, eh ... not so much. You have to put your mindset into the one you live in.