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[TTBB]

Amiok no one thinks you are a dick .. i think everyone is just concerned about your views of the world and woman AND about your low confidence and body image.. WE just want you to find a happy medium within yourself and see that the size of your penis is not all you are.

 

[persian]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

 

[Pirate]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

Nope.
It is just that most of us do not have experience with that situation.

 

[Stretch Armstrong]

The wife and I swing from time to time, of course I wouldn't mind being a little bit bigger!

Surprisingly, a lot of women even in that lifestyle will tell you that size isn't paramount.. just get it up, keep it up.. as long as it's hard and normal. Of course there are size queens there too..

 

[TTBB]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

Nope.. try not to focus on the wrong part of what i am about to say..lol
Often a lot of straight women find themselves in relationships with other women eventhough they have never swung that way before.. why does this happen its because of the way the other women makes them feel and the basic over all physical attraction that is felt ..which is more important then penis .. i believe if a man had a micro penis, there would be an adjustment period.. and it would come down to the mans ability to make the woman feel loved .. If you can get your penis up then it would be utilized no matter what its size is.

 

[Pirate]

Great post, TTBB.
I had not thought about that before, but I have known several (otherwise) straight women who had fairly long term affairs with other women. (Each had a history of bad choices with men, and, interestingly seemed to make much better men choices after their lesbian experiment.)
Clearly, they were able to find a fulfilling relationship without a penis.

 

[Stretch Armstrong]

Great post, TTBB.
I had not thought about that before, but I have known several (otherwise) straight women who had fairly long term affairs with other women. (Each had a history of bad choices with men, and, interestingly seemed to make much better men choices after their lesbian experiment.)
Clearly, they were able to find a fulfilling relationship without a penis.

You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

 

[Batwoman]

You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

Yes, but that is clearly not the point.

 

[W.M.P.]

Great thread you started here, TTBB. There's one too many guys in these forums who seem to be trapped in a mentality where women are seen as beings for whom the ultimate male quality that trumps all is a man-hammer of equine proportions. There's too many fellas here who live a torturous delusion that keeps them from pursuing not only healthy relationship with women but also a healthy relationship with their own selves. One can only hope that they see the light ad wake up to reality, so they can truly enjoy life as it is meant to be.

 

[kingpole]

IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

The problem is TT we men want to satisfy every woman out thier. With this silly notion we stab ourselves in the foot. It is not possible to satisfy every woman out there. So just the few send us into undue sadness. This is the price of sewing wild oats. Its that primative ignorant drive to copulate w/o punitive damage. But punitive damges shall and will come.

 

[More]

Great thread...I do believe this to be true and mostly all the girls i've been with are "size queens",i'm only 6" at that. To be honest I never blamed a size queen for being that because its merely preference. It's the making men feel like they are not men part that I think is wrong done by some of them. Even still TTBB is right putting it first is a long shot, especially after a size queen has been in unsuccessful relationships with big dick guys. Though some take it so serious i've never got one horny and dropped my pants to be told hell no your average or small. They'll fuck, enjoy it and either deny sleeping with you or just say you have a nice size dick.

 

[Pegasus]

NOOO not nice!!

 

[TTBB]

You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

No that wasn't my point but since you brought it up.. you can buy dildos, vibrators and strap on's in pretty much any size including smaller sizes which points towards the fact woman are not size queens..IF we were then all toys would be plus size... and there would be no 3" dildos ..Most women also tend to buy toys that fall between 4"-6" if they buy a larger one its for novelty and not really for regular use.

 

[Iwillbebig]

No that wasn't my point but since you brought it up.. you can buy dildos, vibrators and strap on's in pretty much any size including smaller sizes which points towards the fact woman are not size queens..IF we were then all toys would be plus size... and there would be no 3" dildos ..Most women also tend to buy toys that fall between 4"-6" if they buy a larger one its for novelty and not really for regular use.

Good point which prompted me to do a quick bit of internet research.
The worlds best selling vibrator (The rabbit) comes in a variety of different styles. Well we hear tales of massive vibrators, the key point to remember is that a lot of it stays on the outside. The hand needs to control it and most have buttons and switches to to enhance the experience. I have found the dimensions given for insertable length and circumference(girth) to be revealing.

The Best Seller
Jessica Rabbit Vibrator
Length - 9"
Insertable length - 5"
Circumference 5.5"

The G Spot Version of the best seller

Length - 8.9"
Insertable length - 4.5"
Circumference 3.9"

Finally the MR BIG version of the rabbit

Length - 10"
Insertable length - 6.25"
Circumference 4.6"

So if there are so many size queens who know what a massive cock really looks and feels like and desire this then surely there would be much higher sales of bigger vibrators. Most normal women are looking for a length and girth that some of us will measure up to or surpass and that 99% of the rest of us can confidently aspire to with dedicated PE.

We all seem to struggle to accept that size is not that important so hopefully this shows a better indication of true preference for women.
I also read some reviews where women tell other women to hygenically check their ideal dimensions before ordering. It turns out many are as way off the mark as we tend to believe. Many opted for the less popular bigger sizes when first buying and got more than they had bargained for. Turned out to be too big to use enjoyably!

 

[Pegasus]

Yes, lots of vibes are bought as conversation pieceas too.

 

[CUSP82]

Get you girl a Hitachi magic wand and she won't care if you're not breathing as long as you pay the electric bill! ( I think the damn thing runs on 220 volts!)

 

[amiok]

Amiok no one thinks you are a dick .. i think everyone is just concerned about your views of the world and woman AND about your low confidence and body image.. WE just want you to find a happy medium within yourself and see that the size of your penis is not all you are.

OK, thanks. I'm trying to get better but its not easy. Being put down for pretty much my whole high school life by women has really damaged me.

 

[DudeManDude]

IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

Everyone knows that it doesn't mean as much to women as we sometimes think, but it means a lot to us. Not just in the bedroom, either, but confidence in normal every day situations. My quality of life has drastically been decreased with this problem I'm having, and it's affected my relationship because of it.

 

[TTBB]

Everyone knows that it doesn't mean as much to women as we sometimes think, but it means a lot to us. Not just in the bedroom, either, but confidence in normal every day situations. My quality of life has drastically been decreased with this problem I'm having, and it's affected my relationship because of it.

IF its not important to females ...is it important to men because you all are caught in a huge pissing match? Too much ego is wrapped up in cock..its really not healthy
If the concerns you have about the size of your penis is effecting other areas of your life and your general confidence ... Then you are obsessing and focusing too much on it... LIFE is too short to let a short cock get in the way of enjoying it.

I think a lot of men use their penises as an excuse when woman leave them .. its men who believe their penis is too small because its an easy thing to focus on and blame.. it also gives men something to blame that is not in their control, there for puts all the blame on to the woman, she is flawed ..when in reality relationships breakdown for other reasons ..like the spark is gone ..the respect is gone.. the personality is gone.. the love is gone... not the penis was too small.

 

[GTO]

TTBB - nice post. Very, very nice. thanks.