I guess this is my sequel thread to being 20 and never being in a relationship

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Apparently I'm attractive/good looking/cute etc (although I don't feel it in glasses, I would love to wear contacts but I have a droopy eyelid so I'd feel even more self conscious), I even have a good sized penis according to the women who have seen it whether it's in person, on a photo or video (I've sent photos to some girls, some girls have seen it on webcam and one person saw it in person lol) and most describe it as 'big' which is good I guess.
 

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Well I talked to this girl on the phone for over 2 hours last night and we'll probably go on a date not next week but the following one, and hopefully im going out tonight too.
 

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2 hour phone call... why didn't you two just go out that night
 

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2 hour phone call... why didn't you two just go out that night

We live an hour away from each other and I had work the following day so I pretty much went to sleep after we stopped talking.
 

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I see. Hope you two have a good time next week.
 

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hmmmmm, we've talked sex in the past. She thinks I'm so confident and sure of myself that she wants to tie me up...hopefully that happens. But yeah, since she even said she doesn't like the clingy type and I don't either, I said I'll maybe message her next week after she gets back from her parents (she is away for about 4 days at her parents) and she said she doesn't care when I message her (I think she's into me hopefully). I really enjoyed talking to her though, she is about the 4th girl I've talked to in the past year on an extended phonecall but the others didn't go past the hour mark and this one was 2 hours+. All I know is at the end of the first date, I'm kissing her.
 

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How many dates before you usually have sex? I don't really wait to wait obviously.
 

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Because we ended up talking on the phone for 2+ hours again and she sort of subtely said that 2 guys she dated last year stopped contacting her after 'they got what they wanted', so I'm hoping that doesn't mean I have to wait because of those 2 guys.

We'll set something up for the week after Australia Day (which is Sunday 26th January to non Australians), since she's only just moved into a new apartment and still sorting things out and then she is going away with a few days with friends for the long weekend. I suppose maybe I could find another girl and get laid within that time? Hopefully but not likely.
 

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Hopefully sex will happen soon :) Got some feelings that she doesn't think I'm big and I'm probably not her biggest but I guess that's a normal male trait :-/
 

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Probably a lot to catch up on but she loves being on top with me (because I'm her biggest) and we've had sex a lot since when I last posted
 

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Probably a lot to catch up on but she loves being on top with me (because I'm her biggest) and we've had sex a lot since when I last posted
congrats man thats good to hear
 

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What an epic set of threads! I've really enjoyed reading the whole lot (yes, I did...ok I skipped some of the posts) and helped me a lot in how to think about things. It would have been nice to know how you met the girl you finally lost the v-card to but I guess this is real life so well done buddy :)
 

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Wow. I was gone for about a year, and I come back to this! A bit of an anticlimactic ending, and please let us know how things are going now!
 

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I'll be honest, the build up to that final post you made is a let down. You made so many paragraphs talking about not getting into a relationship, and being a virgin; however, at the very end of that long journey you don't give us any details at all. Come on man!
 

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Heheh... I was telling my friend how there's this really hot woman flirting with me, sending dirty texts and such. My friend said, "let me know how things go!"

I replied, "I probably won't because I'll be busy."

I presume this is what's happening with Ryan right now. :)