I found the A spot. Thanks to those that helped me find it!

[imac]

We tried this last night, I had emailed her the link during the day, so we were prepared. It went like:
Is this it?... how about this?... is this it?... how about now?... oOOooOOOoHHH Yesss right there!
Its not hard to find, the little mouth shown on the video, felt like a balloon knot to me. See this picture of the View attachment 9834 I came up with. You have to go pretty deep. My middle finger is 4.3" and was all the way in to the base.

Afterwards she said this was totally new to her, she came really hard (she said she almost needed to vomit thats how intense it was) just by using my finger.. I added another one, (knowing my wife..) and did the "come here" motion with the two of them. She said that she also felt the urge to pee, so maybe some future squirting here. At one point I was licking her clit too, but she told me afterwards that wasnt really necessary because the feeling inside was so intense. Now I know where it is, I am going to aim for it during sex. The spot I hit this weekend was not the same spot, it was down and deeper.

Congrats man. That method is a great way or giving her extended orgasms. just keep doing the finger motion and tell her to keep cuming hard and her orgasms will get longer and longer.
Try making cum continual for 10 min, she'll think your god lol.

 

[Padawan787]

Is that really the deep spot? I've heard that you have to be at least above average in length to be able to hit it, seems odd that the middle finger can easily do so...You would think that that spot would be getting hit all the time during sex since even a below average penis is probably longer than someone's middle finger

 

[bahamaboner71]

Is that really the deep spot? I've heard that you have to be at least above average in length to be able to hit it, seems odd that the middle finger can easily do so...You would think that that spot would be getting hit all the time during sex since even a below average penis is probably longer than someone's middle finger

I was thinking that too, but I followed the vid, it feels really deep, like a gynecologist digging in..

 

[imac]

Is that really the deep spot? I've heard that you have to be at least above average in length to be able to hit it, seems odd that the middle finger can easily do so...You would think that that spot would be getting hit all the time during sex since even a below average penis is probably longer than someone's middle finger

It's all about the way you stimulate the spot. For women that have never had a vaginal orgasm before I've found that once you've given her that first V orgasm that it kind of activates that spot so that she can have V orgasms from penetration.

And yes the middle finger can reach you just have to dig in deep.

 

[CaptainJohnson]

Is that really the deep spot? I've heard that you have to be at least above average in length to be able to hit it, seems odd that the middle finger can easily do so...You would think that that spot would be getting hit all the time during sex since even a below average penis is probably longer than someone's middle finger

Will elaborate in a second...

It's all about the way you stimulate the spot. For women that have never had a vaginal orgasm before I've found that once you've given her that first V orgasm that it kind of activates that spot so that she can have V orgasms from penetration.

And yes the middle finger can reach you just have to dig in deep.

This is very true. An awareness of the spot kind of needs to exist sometimes for it to "activate". Another reason is, the vagina adapts to penis size. Initial tenting allows for A-spot stimulation, but as the vagina tents further during penetration of a penis, the A-spot distances itself. Larger penises can hit it easier because the vagina can only adapt to size so much, but I can guarantee you can hit the A-spot with a 7 incher in most women when in the right position, it is just not as easy as a 7.5-8 incher has it.

The cul-de-sac requires a larger penis, and was the original spot Bahama hit.

Congrats on finding the A-spot Bahama, and you two have tonnes of fun!!

 

[CaptainJohnson]

Hears a cool article. It's about women who can think there way to orgasm.Yes, yes, yes! How women can think their way to an orgasm... with no help from their man | Mail Online

You might find it interesting to know that men can also do this to women by following the same principals, by talking her through a fantasy and layering it with sensory information and double binds.

When it comes to the subject of orgasm, this is where most of my personal studies lie. I have done vast research into visualization and its importance in the propagation of orgasms. Another aspect is how to trigger emotional response with the proper visual context, and then there is also breathing and pelvic floor muscle activity. The last one, pelvic floor muscles, have been a unique interest of mine much more recently.

I enjoyed the article, and it does a good job summarizing the importance of these things. Thanks for the wicked post, imac!

I have been considering making a thread for sexual visualization training since my initial blog on orgasmic anatomy went up. I will probably do light editing before blogging the first post and starting my little "hub of information" from scratch.

 

[pterodactyl]

Congratz Bahama! This thread makes me happy though im 2 days late =)

 

[bahamaboner71]

Congratz Bahama! This thread makes me happy though im 2 days late =)

Thanks man, you see what you caused lol..

 

[pterodactyl]

Thats what im here for brother lol

 

[bigmoe5067]

When it comes to the subject of orgasm, this is where most of my personal studies lie. I have done vast research into visualization and its importance in the propagation of orgasms. Another aspect is how to trigger emotional response with the proper visual context, and then there is also breathing and pelvic floor muscle activity. The last one, pelvic floor muscles, have been a unique interest of mine much more recently.

I enjoyed the article, and it does a good job summarizing the importance of these things. Thanks for the wicked post, imac!

I have been considering making a thread for sexual visualization training since my initial blog on orgasmic anatomy went up. I will probably do light editing before blogging the first post and starting my little "hub of information" from scratch.

that sexual visualization thread would be much appreciated. ive only been recently using auditory stimulation as a means of building arousal in my crazy method of building orgasms . in a visual context i could not think of anything other than porn for the women to watch, but women seldom have their "ideal porn" that really hikes up their arousal and even then its hard to even watch the screen when getting pummeled in that fashion. it didnt seem worth it to try. having this as a tool would really help me out.

 

[imac]

this video shows you how to stimulate the deep spot/A spot.The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion

There's two deep spots front and back.
View attachment 9823

I posted a link before to video of how to stimulate the deep spot (AFE zone)

What I should of also added at the time is that there is another variation to this.
If you turn your hand down so that you’re finger tip is facing down and with your middle finger slid along the back wall of her vagina. Go as deep as possible, you’ll need to push hard because the back of the vagina is deeper due to the tilt of the uterus.
Now curl the tip of your finger as if to press hard against her tail bone. And repeat.
This is the back deep spot ( the PFE zone).
It will feel to her like she’s being butt fucked. Some women find this exciting and will have a really powerful orgasm.
Another good position to do this is if she is on her knees (spread) with her chest flat to the bed and just use the technique from the video.

Another technique is while she’s laying on her back and you’re sucking her clit slide your finger in deep along the bottom as described above and push down. Keep your finger there don’t move it while you give her oral. It’ll feel like she being fucked by a big dick.

If anyone's going to try these techniques with their partner or any new techniques ( especially if shes never had a vaginal orgasm before ) do NOT tell her you’re going to give her an orgasm.
If you do you’ll put pressure and expectation on her to have one which will create resistance and and stop her from enjoying it let alone have an orgasm.
Her orgasm should be your secret weapon so I’ll say again do NOT tell her you’re going to make her cum from doing this or that to her unless you’ve already done it before because she will not believe you and if she doesn’t believe you’ll only create resistance.
Instead just tell her you heard of a new technique that’s supposed to feel really good and you want to try it out.

 

[bahamaboner71]

I posted a link before to video of how to stimulate the deep spot (AFE zone)

What I should of also added at the time is that there is another variation to this.
If you turn your hand down so that you’re finger tip is facing down and with your middle finger slid along the back wall of her vagina. Go as deep as possible, you’ll need to push hard because the back of the vagina is deeper due to the tilt of the uterus.
Now curl the tip of your finger as if to press hard against her tail bone. And repeat.
This is the back deep spot ( the PFE zone).
It will feel to her like she’s being butt fucked. Some women find this exciting and will have a really powerful orgasm.
Another good position to do this is if she is on her knees (spread) with her chest flat to the bed and just use the technique from the video.

Another technique is while she’s laying on her back and you’re sucking her clit slide your finger in deep along the bottom as described above and push down. Keep your finger there don’t move it while you give her oral. It’ll feel like she being fucked by a big dick.

If anyone's going to try these techniques with their partner or any new techniques ( especially if shes never had a vaginal orgasm before ) do NOT tell her you’re going to give her an orgasm.
If you do you’ll put pressure and expectation on her to have one which will create resistance and and stop her from enjoying it let alone have an orgasm.
Her orgasm should be your secret weapon so I’ll say again do NOT tell her you’re going to make her cum from doing this or that to her unless you’ve already done it before because she will not believe you and if she doesn’t believe you’ll only create resistance.

Good stuff.

Another technique is while she’s laying on her back and you’re sucking her clit slide your finger in deep along the bottom as described above and push down. Keep your finger there don’t move it while you give her oral. .

Just keep it there? No movement at all? Just press the whole finger down, or just the tip?

 

[imac]

Just keep it there? No movement at all? Just press the whole finger down, or just the tip?

Press your finger down and just keep it there as you suck her clit. It'll make her feel full.

 

[avery dennison]

I've hit the back one.

Found it too! Wife loved it....I had her bent over the arm of a recliner with her face down entering her from behind. Standing behind her I went in aiming for her lower back were my hands were on her ass cheeks then slid along the anterior or back wall of her vagina and noticed she was really getting off in that postion.

The next day we were driving and not really saying anything and out of the blue she says... "You know last night when you were behind me you were hitting areas that was sending jolts through me that were amazing....not sure what's different but I love it"

At almost 20 yrs of being together that's pretty cool....thanks to this thread and PE! :becky:

 

[NCGUY1972]

Its possible.

Basically, that position, but the guy uses his legs to lift his pelvis off the bed and thrust from a higher angle, aiming his penis towards himself and the bed, rubbing against the deepest part of the anterior wall. The AFE Zone can be hit in a number of other positions but this one works best for us. I imagine if you aimed up at the PFE Zone in this same position, it would be effective too. I should try that in this position and see if I get deep enough.

my wife loves that

 

[PenisKing]

Found it too! Wife loved it....I had her bent over the arm of a recliner with her face down entering her from behind. Standing behind her I went in aiming for her lower back were my hands were on her ass cheeks then slid along the anterior or back wall of her vagina and noticed she was really getting off in that postion.

The next day we were driving and not really saying anything and out of the blue she says... "You know last night when you were behind me you were hitting areas that was sending jolts through me that were amazing....not sure what's different but I love it"

At almost 20 yrs of being together that's pretty cool....thanks to this thread and PE! :becky:

So within what range does the penis has to be to be able to hit all the magic spots of a vagina?

 

[thenewdude]

So within what range does the penis has to be to be able to hit all the magic spots of a vagina?

Not really unless your woman also gets stimulated by the slight cervix push which you will tell if you have some length because just before you start to reach bottom the texture of the vaginal membrane is not as smooth. When you hit the bottom, she will move around while fully penetrated (let her control it so you don't ram to hard into her cervix which is painful. Really she feels it even on the tubes; it hurts).

 

[PenisKing]

Not really unless your woman also gets stimulated by the slight cervix push which you will tell if you have some length because just before you start to reach bottom the texture of the vaginal membrane is not as smooth. When you hit the bottom, she will move around while fully penetrated (let her control it so you don't ram to hard into her cervix which is painful. Really she feels it even on the tubes; it hurts).

I see what you are saying. From what I have seen, I think a length of 6 inch is probably a safe length because it is neither short nor long. If the guy knows where he is hitting, he should be able to hit the deep spot with his 6 incher then.

 

[thenewdude]

6 inches really is just fine. Not long enough in most position for most woman to slam into the cervix. Remember that the 1/3 of the vagina from the hymen up has most of the nerve ending. Reaching bottom is neither here nor there when knowing how to work that penis. I know woman who don't like to deal with anything but in the 6 ranch. If average was really not good enough for most women that the Lord would have make it bigger (yes, I do believe there is God).

 

[PenisKing]

6 inches really is just fine. Not long enough in most position for most woman to slam into the cervix. Remember that the 1/3 of the vagina from the hymen up has most of the nerve ending. Reaching bottom is neither here nor there when knowing how to work that penis. I know woman who don't like to deal with anything but in the 6 ranch. If average was really not good enough for most women that the Lord would have make it bigger (yes, I do believe there is God).

haha yeah I agree with your reasoning. Seems like your NBPEL is a little too long by that standard, wanna lose 1 inch and put it on mine? We both will be happy men