I think you hit A spot but the didn't hit THE A-spot haha. I think what you hit is the cul-de-sac. I don't know CJ is the expert on vaginal anatomy
I found the A spot. Thanks to those that helped me find it!
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imac
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this video shows you how to stimulate the deep spot/A spot.The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion
There's two deep spots front and back.
There's two deep spots front and back.
CaptainJohnson
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Yes, although worth noting is most of the information I have found on women's experiences with these spots have shown they seem to get more satisfaction from the cul de sac.
I am not a big fan of calling it the Deep Spot. David Shade is one of the many guys from the PUA world to name an erogenous zone for himself. Another guy (I forget who) started calling a spot the U-Spot. Every big seduction guru just wants attention. Shade claims to have discovered a spot that had already been researched. He popularized and coined the term "deep spot" for something already called the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Somewhere along the lines, the cul de sac also came up. Studies on the Skene's gland have gone on for years, and David Shade didn't know about it.
If you want to call them deep spots, that is fine, but recognize they are anatomically different, and when referring to specific spots, it may be more beneficial to call them:
AFE (Anterior Fornix Erogenous) Zone
PFE (Posterior Fornix Erogenous) Zone
or for a more layman term...
A spot
P spot
This allows us to differentiate between the two spots, which guys have trouble doing when calling everything in and around the cervix the "deep spot". Some people even think it is on the cervix itself because of this confusion.
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CaptainJohnson
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Eh, don't change it. Most people don't know the difference anyway, and the fact you hate any spot helps to show some guys are having success with it. I am glad things have gone so awesome for you! Realize that P-spot is a strange term as some people call the male prostate the P-spot. I actually just remembered the other PUA named the cul de sac the U spot. I usually hate going with what PUAs make up, but that is actually a pretty good name.
All in favour of just going with U-spot?
I hate how many random terms people have made up. It leaves me so lost on what to call crap...
Screw it I'll make a big thread about it.
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BB,
If you hit the A-spot or the cul-de-sac, who really cares? If your woman experienced great pleasure and you both had an awesome time, it's a spot to revisit! Put this one in the GPS!
If you hit the A-spot or the cul-de-sac, who really cares? If your woman experienced great pleasure and you both had an awesome time, it's a spot to revisit!
Put this one in the GPS!Captain J somehow I imagine you in some labcoat doing all kinds of vaginal experiments somewhere..!
I am still gonna try that other position you mentioned.
I am still gonna try that other position you mentioned.
Yes for sure. Awesome results garanteed.BB,
If you hit the A-spot or the cul-de-sac, who really cares? If your woman experienced great pleasure and you both had an awesome time, it's a spot to revisit!Put this one in the GPS!
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imac
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CaptainJohnson
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Well my girl and I were planning on role playing doctor sometime soon...
CaptainJohnson
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I could see this working out well. Most women are used to stimulation from the underside of the clit during oral, but much like anything, stimulation can occur at a number of angles. I've actually found direct stimulation to the tip of the clit less effective than the sides around the circumference of the clit. Applying any sort of stimulation from the top would feel very different than from the bottom. I usually give oral on a slight angle when my girl is coming close to the finish-line, licking both down and up. The directions are usually 1 o'clock to 7 o'clock and back, or 11 o'clock and 5 o'clock and back. Light suction is also quite effective, as one can gather from the Nina Hartley video. Another neat trick, try googling Harlequin's Kiss. Not everyone will like the HK though.
i like to pull back the hood with one hand, while applying heavy pressure to the pubic bone, and circling the clit with my tongue in a swirling motion, effectively massaging the entire mass that can be made external from the hood. some girls cannot handle this at first, and must be worked up to that level stimulation over a few weeks.
imac
Retired Moderator, Member of the Month Nov 12, PE
Thats fair enough if you don't like calling it that that's just the name I prefer because I think it sounds better and probably because years ago when I started researching female sexuality I stumbled across David Shade and bought some of his stuff which I found priceless.
I should also point out that while he's on the fringe of the PUA world he's not one himself and has never claimed to be a seduction guru he intrest lays in female sexuality that's why he's gained a reputation in that world because just like the men on this site the guys from the PUA community also want to become better lovers (Well most of them anyway I'm sure there some who are out to just validate there own insecurity's)
I've also never said in any posts that there are deep spots all around the cervix I've only said there are two spot one at the front and one at the back ( the AFE and the PFE)
I should add that there are some women that really enjoy direct stimulation of the cervix but most find it uncomfortable and unpleasant.
CaptainJohnson
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I never said that you did say there were deep spots all around the cervix. I said David Shade said it. I've read a lot by him claiming the cavity of the cervix is like a doughnut around the cervix. It is somewhat plausible, but the areas that are sensitive are on the anterior and posterior walls, as opposed to side to side.
Well, a minute of oral isn't that much. Try 5 to 10 minutes. Sometimes that is what is needed. Also, review this thread:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/39563-how-make-girl-cum-oral-sex.html
see that thread. it has alot of great info.
as for what i had said. it is very simple. you have to go at it at angle because of your hand placement. take your hand and place it so your middle finger and index finger are on each side of her clit, and your palm/meat of your hand on her pubic bone and just above it. squeeze your two fingers lightly together, press your palm down on her pubic bone/above it, and drag her skin toward her navel. this will put a tremendous amount of pressure on her g spot, but if your hand is placed wrong it will put to much pressure on her bladder. i will also evenly pull back her clitoral hood so all of the external clitoris is exposed. from here i just start with side to side motions, then up and downs, and then i quickly swirl my tongue in a circular fashion around the clit until she cums.
if you do this start slow. some girls are just too sensitive to go under the hood like that. and dont start with it. its something to work up to after a few minutes of playing.
also its the perfect time, if you can multi-task, to go after her gspot. one hand is already applying pressure externally, so if its not too much to use your tongue and both hands at the same, effectively tonguing her entire clit while massaging her gspot while pressing on her gspot externally
as for what i had said. it is very simple. you have to go at it at angle because of your hand placement. take your hand and place it so your middle finger and index finger are on each side of her clit, and your palm/meat of your hand on her pubic bone and just above it. squeeze your two fingers lightly together, press your palm down on her pubic bone/above it, and drag her skin toward her navel. this will put a tremendous amount of pressure on her g spot, but if your hand is placed wrong it will put to much pressure on her bladder. i will also evenly pull back her clitoral hood so all of the external clitoris is exposed. from here i just start with side to side motions, then up and downs, and then i quickly swirl my tongue in a circular fashion around the clit until she cums.
if you do this start slow. some girls are just too sensitive to go under the hood like that. and dont start with it. its something to work up to after a few minutes of playing.
also its the perfect time, if you can multi-task, to go after her gspot. one hand is already applying pressure externally, so if its not too much to use your tongue and both hands at the same, effectively tonguing her entire clit while massaging her gspot while pressing on her gspot externally
imac
Retired Moderator, Member of the Month Nov 12, PE
Hears a cool article. It's about women who can think there way to orgasm.Yes, yes, yes! How women can think their way to an orgasm... with no help from their man | Mail Online
You might find it interesting to know that men can also do this to women by following the same principals, by talking her through a fantasy and layering it with sensory information and double binds.
You might find it interesting to know that men can also do this to women by following the same principals, by talking her through a fantasy and layering it with sensory information and double binds.
We tried this last night, I had emailed her the link during the day, so we were prepared. It went like:
Is this it?... how about this?... is this it?... how about now?... oOOooOOOoHHH Yesss right there!
Its not hard to find, the little mouth shown on the video, felt like a balloon knot to me. Its located in the area "above" the balloon knot. (not touching the knot at all).
See this picture:
It feels like you have to go pretty deep, like further than where I usually go.
My middle finger is 4.3" and was all the way in to the base.
Afterwards she said this was totally new to her, she came really hard (she said disney world fireworks and she almost needed to vomit thats how intense it was) just by using my finger.. I added another one, (knowing my wife..) and did the "come here" motion with the two of them. She said that she also felt the urge to pee, so maybe some future squirting here. At one point I was licking her clit too, but she told me afterwards that wasnt really necessary because the feeling inside was so intense. Now I know where it is, I am going to aim for it during sex. The spot I hit this weekend was not the same spot, it was down and deeper.
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