How to let your son in on PE

[aimingfor8]

I'm 19 for anyone thinking about talking to their song thinking age, and honestly I wish I had learned about this even sooner than now.
I'm a health student so I know a sh*t ton about general health, and I'll tell you 2 important facts I've learned in my courses:
1. Stress can become the absolute worst detrimental health aspect in your life, and regardless of how physically healthy you are it can cause serious problems.
2. When it comes to self esteem, dick size is numero uno on a vast majority of guys. People with a good self esteem have less stress and live longer, healthier lives.

Maybe not every girl cares if you have a big dick, but if it's bigger than it is now, there is almost no doubt it will make them happier, which in turn makes you happier and gives you less stress in your life.

Make it subtle because it would honestly be kinda awkward to talk about this with my dad (if he had told me about it, actually just kinda found it randomly one day, thank god), but the sooner someone learns about this stuff and the importance (I'd say once you're old enough to legit start having sex like 16-17), the better for them. They'll thank you in the long run when they are having an awesome time with sex, feel on top of the world and never have to worry about such a small thing (which'll actually be big by now, haha pun intended)

 

[deleteduser]

It's interesting that if you look at the poll when guys would want to have learned about PE, the highest ranks are the ages between 11 and 20. While I understand that the results may be a little skewed because of our desire to get bigger, but I have a feeling the results would be pretty similar with your sons regardless.

 

[deleteduser]

I'm 19 for anyone thinking about talking to their song thinking age, and honestly I wish I had learned about this even sooner than now.
I'm a health student so I know a sh*t ton about general health, and I'll tell you 2 important facts I've learned in my courses:
1. Stress can become the absolute worst detrimental health aspect in your life, and regardless of how physically healthy you are it can cause serious problems.
2. When it comes to self esteem, dick size is numero uno on a vast majority of guys. People with a good self esteem have less stress and live longer, healthier lives.

Maybe not every girl cares if you have a big dick, but if it's bigger than it is now, there is almost no doubt it will make them happier, which in turn makes you happier and gives you less stress in your life.

Make it subtle because it would honestly be kinda awkward to talk about this with my dad (if he had told me about it, actually just kinda found it randomly one day, thank god), but the sooner someone learns about this stuff and the importance (I'd say once you're old enough to legit start having sex like 16-17), the better for them. They'll thank you in the long run when they are having an awesome time with sex, feel on top of the world and never have to worry about such a small thing (which'll actually be big by now, haha pun intended)

Thanks for your viewpoints, aimingfor8! It's interesting to get the views of younger PEers about how fathers should let their sons in on PE. Especially interesting was your point that the sooner someone learns about this and it's importance the better. I would add that it's importance in the grand scheme of things is minimal. It's much more important to be a good person, hard worker, socially engaging, and well rounded than it is to grow a big dick. I love your quote "They'll thank you in the long run when they are having an awesome time with sex, feel on top of the world and never have to worry about such a small thing (which'll actually be big by now, haha pun intended)" because in the grand scheme of things, it is a small thing. That's why I don't think it's as big a deal as a lot of dads make it out to be. If you are talking to your son regularly, then bringing up PE, it's usefulness, and proper perspective in life should be no big deal.

 

[PowerliftingChampion]

Well my son is only 23 months old and he's hung like a horse, so I don't see it being an issue

The way he plays with it all the time, he's doing it naturally.

I think I would just leave it in my history or leave it in a window that I minimized and "fotgot" to close if there was anything I wanted my son to see on the computer. But were years from that...

 

[deleteduser]

Well my son is only 23 months old and he's hung like a horse, so I don't see it being an issue

The way he plays with it all the time, he's doing it naturally.

I think I would just leave it in my history or leave it in a window that I minimized and "fotgot" to close if there was anything I wanted my son to see on the computer. But were years from that...

That's what happened with Bigboss512 when he was 14 years old. "I found out about pegym because my father forgot to logout of the site. Just leave the site up an he'll look into it."

I would suggest that talking to your son is a better approach for a couple of reasons. First, he's going to have questions and need guidance. Second, having him find it that way kind of suggests that it's a secret or dirty, like finding dad's porn stash. Just my two cents. Go back and read our exchange about it (Posts #84, #85, and #86 on the thread).

 

[rhinoguy]

Yeah I am against the stealthy accidently leaving it up on the screen method too HigherOne. This is bullshit having a CIA encounter with your own son. Openness is the foundation of all father-son trust. Tell the little SOB you stretch dick and be done with it.

 

[rhinoguy]

Don't call him an SOB though- that was just a figure of speech!

 

[deleteduser]

Don't call him an SOB though- that was just a figure of speech!

I've been called that before by my dad! hahaha

 

[KMac26]

Even though I'm 18, I don't think I should have been told about this site by my father, I woulda been like "thanks dad!" If he told me about this place when I was about 15. I think if you know about PE, you should let your son know when he is entering puberty. Why would you sell your son short on having a more thrilling sexual future?

 

[deleteduser]

Even though I'm 18, I don't think I should have been told about this site by my father, I woulda been like "thanks dad!" If he told me about this place when I was about 15. I think if you know about PE, you should let your son know when he is entering puberty. Why would you sell your son short on having a more thrilling sexual future?

Even though I feel this way too, you have to realize that some fathers aren't comfortable letting their sons in on PE at puberty. They feel their son isn't mature enough emotionally to handle the knowledge or that physically they may harm themselves overdoing it. I think with proper guidance and talking with your son these things can be mitigated and avoided with him doing PE, but it takes openness and honesty. Not every father and son relationship is like that. It takes work and time.

 

[Wolfmesser]

Even though Im totally in favour of the idea of letting your son in on PE eventually, depending on his maturity level, theres something that I would worry about telling him at say 14 or 15. At 15 or so we are at our horniest, we'll catch ourselves looking at nice asses and breasts in the hallways in highschool and we think about sex on a constant basis, that being said, our penis becomes our "guide" throughout adolesence. I know that at 15, had I only had the enlargment aspects in mind, I not only go at it hardcore, I would also not hesitate telling my friends about such an awesome thing, and at that stage in your life, you think "Oh hells yeah I want a bigger dick!" then next thing you know you get a powder keg effect when your son and his friends yanking at their dick hardcore potentially causing uneccessary problems. I already gave my opinion on it but in my opinion explaining it with both the health and sexual aspects of it is the way to go, just like bodybuilding, you want to look good to the ladies, but you also want to be healthy and feel good about yourself, this approach I think is best, and also leading by example, introduce it carefully, and give him all the details providing hes mature enough to handle it. Its just like the force. lol

 

[deleteduser]

Even though Im totally in favour of the idea of letting your son in on PE eventually, depending on his maturity level, theres something that I would worry about telling him at say 14 or 15. At 15 or so we are at our horniest, we'll catch ourselves looking at nice asses and breasts in the hallways in highschool and we think about sex on a constant basis, that being said, our penis becomes our "guide" throughout adolesence. I know that at 15, had I only had the enlargment aspects in mind, I not only go at it hardcore, I would also not hesitate telling my friends about such an awesome thing, and at that stage in your life, you think "Oh hells yeah I want a bigger dick!" then next thing you know you get a powder keg effect when your son and his friends yanking at their dick hardcore potentially causing uneccessary problems. I already gave my opinion on it but in my opinion explaining it with both the health and sexual aspects of it is the way to go, just like bodybuilding, you want to look good to the ladies, but you also want to be healthy and feel good about yourself, this approach I think is best, and also leading by example, introduce it carefully, and give him all the details providing hes mature enough to handle it. Its just like the force. lol

Excellent post, Wolfmesser! I think that if you slowly introduce PE to your son over time you can get over some of those issues. For example, letting your 15 year old know that after he takes a leak he should pull on his dick up, down, and side to side before putting it away is a good introduction. At 16 introduce jelqs. At 17 introduce some more advanced exercises and kegels. Then at 18 introduce him to the forums. This is just a suggestion. Other guys suggest that if your son grows up knowing about PE from an early age it'll just be normal to him and won't be a big deal. Sometimes it's US as fathers that think it's a big deal, but our sons won't think anything of it if they've grown up with it.

 

[wind chill]

Well if i had a son there would be no point in telling him.He would do the same thing i did.
Do a in-depth long long search and he would find it.

 

[deleteduser]

Well if i had a son there would be no point in telling him.He would do the same thing i did.
Do a in-depth long long search and he would find it.

I think that this misses some of the point of letting your son in on PE. The point isn't just so your son has the information to grow a bigger dick. The bigger goal is a father son bond where you can be honest and open about anything with each other. When we hide things, we do that for a reason. Is that because we are ashamed or embarrassed, for protection of the other person, or because it's an awkward conversation? We need to look at ourselves as fathers and realize that the uncomfortable talks with our sons give the very guidance and bonding that they need. For years, dads have abdicated their responsibilities to their sons, letting moms, TV, friends, and the Internet guide their sons. If you can be your true self with your son about PE, you open the door to being authentic with him in many things and he with you, as you lead by example of sharing with him.

 

[rhinoguy]

Mellow, gently choreographed conversations are the way to go. You can't know the whole dialog going in, only that you want to hit certain topics and open the conversation. Yes it is awkward getting started. Yes your son is going to see an awkward conversation coming a mile away. I assure you that you will feel in the end the trouble was worth it though, and even if it goes less well than hoped, having made an attempt to open the door is worth a ton. I still think back to specific conversations my father started with me about life and about sex when I was a kid in his home. Some of them went well, others went so-so and one I can think of kind of missed the boat. But I always valued his love for me as a kid. It does matter to try and have quiet personal talks with your kids. Once every now and then is all it takes, maybe once a year if things are going ok. More often if not. Tell Joey I would like for us to take a walk so we can talk about something that has been on my mind, something that may not be all that comfortable to talk about at first.

 

[deleteduser]

Mellow, gently choreographed conversations are the way to go. You can't know the whole dialog going in, only that you want to hit certain topics and open the conversation. Yes it is awkward getting started. Yes your son is going to see an awkward conversation coming a mile away. I assure you that you will feel in the end the trouble was worth it though, and even if it goes less well than hoped, having made an attempt to open the door is worth a ton. I still think back to specific conversations my father started with me about life and about sex when I was a kid in his home. Some of them went well, others went so-so and one I can think of kind of missed the boat. But I always valued his love for me as a kid. It does matter to try and have quiet personal talks with your kids. Once every now and then is all it takes, maybe once a year if things are going ok. More often if not. Tell Joey I would like for us to take a walk so we can talk about something that has been on my mind, something that may not be all that comfortable to talk about at first.

Excellent post, rhinoguy! I agree with you that "one and done" is a bad way to go. Talks over time are a way to ensure he's doing PE properly and that you guys have a good father-son bond.

 

[wind chill]

I think that this misses some of the point of letting your son in on PE. The point isn't just so your son has the information to grow a bigger dick. The bigger goal is a father son bond where you can be honest and open about anything with each other. When we hide things, we do that for a reason. Is that because we are ashamed or embarrassed, for protection of the other person, or because it's an awkward conversation? We need to look at ourselves as fathers and realize that the uncomfortable talks with our sons give the very guidance and bonding that they need. For years, dads have abdicated their responsibilities to their sons, letting moms, TV, friends, and the Internet guide their sons. If you can be your true self with your son about PE, you open the door to being authentic with him in many things and he with you, as you lead by example of sharing with him.

i guess your right.I'm pretty far away from having a son so i don't worry too much.

 

[deleteduser]

i guess your right.I'm pretty far away from having a son so i don't worry too much.

True, but it's always good to keep this in the back of your mind for future reference.

 

[deleteduser]

i guess your right.I'm pretty far away from having a son so i don't worry too much.

Maybe start with your dad. Keep it in the family!

 

[deleteduser]

Any guys on here let their son in on PE? Or any sons let their dads in on PE?