How to let your son in on PE

[deleteduser]

Thanks to wanttogrow for getting a conversation started on "helping your male children" regarding would you let your son in on PE. This thread is "How to let your son in on PE" for those guys that said they want to, but don't know how to get the conversation started. This thread is for needed advice and success stories on how other members let their sons in on PE and made it through. Those without sons can contribute by discussing would you want your dad to let you in on PE, and if so, how would you want him to go about it and at what age?

 

[kimish]

I think a great time to bring it up would be like out taking a walk, something laid back and relaxing to help set a calmer mood. Casually bring up how exercising your body is for overall physical and mental health and non-chelantely bring up the fact that there are exercises for the penis too and that these exercises are for overall penis health and you may get a bonus of a few extra inches in the process.

 

[Stretch Armstrong]

Get a book called "exercising the penis."

Tell him, "Son there are some things every man is self conscious about. How big his arms are, how his hair looks, what girls think of him, and also how he stacks up with other men in the locker room. I too had these concerns, and this is what helped me."

Then give him the book. Explain to him there are things that can be done to maximize that part of his body, and the book helps explain that. Then offer your support for any questions he might have.

 

[deleteduser]

Any members' ideas of approaching the pe conversation, like how to initiate the conversation, etc.?

 

[Wolfmesser]

I would introduce it in a subtle way, like explain it along with masturbation and lifting weights, how both are a normal thing when you become a man.

 

[deleteduser]

Get a book called "exercising the penis."

Tell him, "Son there are some things every man is self conscious about. How big his arms are, how his hair looks, what girls think of him, and also how he stacks up with other men in the locker room. I too had these concerns, and this is what helped me."

Then give him the book. Explain to him there are things that can be done to maximize that part of his body, and the book helps explain that. Then offer your support for any questions he might have.

I think giving him the book "Exercising the Penis" is a great idea! I don't know if I would emphasize size as much as I would emphasize general penis health. One thing we don't want to give our sons is size complexes more than society already bombards them with.

 

[MegaHuge]

If I had a son and he asked me about sex I would give him condoms, and tell him about the jelq, stretch, and uli. Then I would tell him they help him perform. Not a thing about an increase in size. That will be the bonus.

 

[deleteduser]

How would you bring it up with him though? Just out of the blue? Or wait for him to come to you first? I like the idea of introducing it during the sex talk. Kind of kills two birds with one stone!

 

[ridiculed]

If my son takes after me down there genetically he'll most likely research penile enlargement on his own.

 

[deleteduser]

I would introduce it in a subtle way, like explain it along with masturbation and lifting weights, how both are a normal thing when you become a man.

I think that's key, to make it a normal part of being a man, and talking about it like it's no different than lifting weights or masturbation. We teach our sons to be successful in school, to be the best athletes they can be, and when you think about it, PE is no different than any other exercise. Look at all of us on this forum. We made PE normal, so it IS normal for us to talk about.

 

[Jama]

Saying anything while there too youg could mess them up for sure! They could be severly insecure and messed up in the head about sex.

 

[deleteduser]

Saying anything while there too youg could mess them up for sure! They could be severly insecure and messed up in the head about sex.

I agree. I think it would be best to introduce it not as a size thing, but as a penis health thing, and slowly, over time, get more into the size and sex aspects of it. Kids are exposed to a lot more these days earlier because of the Internet, TV, etc. Even the most watchful parents can't filter all of it. Guiding your son to be raised as a young man includes constant guidance on sex, girls, drugs, etc. PE would be no different.

 

[rbi99]

I seem to be the only guy here who hasn't or isn't going to bring up PE to his son. But what I find interesting in this thread and the similar poll, is everyone is saying they will and how they will, but I haven't read a single response from anyone who has specifically mentioned PE to their son(s).

 

[Jama]

Yep I agree, but at which age is doing PE too young? Keeping in mind the effects of possible growth stunt and mental issues that can appear.

 

[Jama]

I seem to be the only guy here who hasn't or isn't going to bring up PE to his son. But what I find interesting in this thread and the similar poll, is everyone is saying they will and how they will, but I haven't read a single response from anyone who has specifically mentioned PE to their son(s).

I have a long way to go before I have a son. I doubt I will bring it up to him though. If I did intend for him to have the option of learning I would have a book or two around about PE. If he finds it and reads it then whatever.
I just fear people introducing it too young and causing more harm then good.

 

[deleteduser]

Personally, I think if they're already masturbating, a light routine would benefit a young man as long as he doesn't overdo it. He's already playing with it, so why not put those efforts into something productive? I wouldn't let him in on the site or any hardcore PE, just a light stretching routine and a 5 minute jelq a few days (2 or 3) a week. I would just say it's to keep everything in working order down there for the long haul. As for stunting growth, people used to say that about lifting weights as a teen. We now know that a moderate weight lifting routine does not stunt growth in teens. The mental issues I agree with completely. That's why you have to be a DAD to your son and continually have that open communication with him and guide him.

 

[TinyMutantNinjaTurtle]

I seem to be the only guy here who hasn't or isn't going to bring up PE to his son. But what I find interesting in this thread and the similar poll, is everyone is saying they will and how they will, but I haven't read a single response from anyone who has specifically mentioned PE to their son(s).

Well I am the second one. I will tell my children but not during THE TALK ,i intend to wait till at least 16.
This is why.
I believe that a mans penis IS intimately attached to him as a person. We all know that guy in the locker room with the 9" dong that wants to swing it around and be a giant dick as well as have one. People get spoiled too easily and its safe to say nobody wants theyre son to be that guy. i think if we teach our kids too early as in the talk,we will create a generation of asses. just like all good things they start as a noble cause but the next generation normally doesnt understand what it truly means. I think by making them wait till they are 16 it wil help them to fully appreciate what they have, think how much we all love and appreciate PE ,if it was always there then it wouldn't matter.
but probably the most important reason to wait.....


We Cant get adults to stop injuring their selves overdoing it with PE and i cant see giving PE to a 13 year old boy!!

please consider what ive said sorry for my bad grammer

 

[kimish]

For all the fathers on here debating on when or whether or not to share this information, i myself included. First and mostly is you have to make sure your child is mentally mature to handle such information. Many kids from 12 up to even 18 are not ready mentally. THe second thing and this is just as important as the young boys maturity level is the approach that you, the adult, take in initiating the conversation and what comes after such as questions the little one may have.

I believe my son is close to ready for our PE talk but I am holding off for a little bit. This may be the right move but will never know. My son is very mature for his age, from what I see of him but as we all know that could be a front. Anyways, as I prepare for our discussion I will play out a variety of scenarios in my head to get a jist of what may come, that way I am some what prepared. I will think of all the questions that I would've asked given it was me in his position and I will think of a variety of educated answers. It will all be about penis health as opposed to penis enlargement. Communication needs to be important IMO. After all you want to know if your son has injured himself with the light stretches you let him on and so forth. To me, this is when pointers can be given out. Im babbling now so Im going to get off. I Can't wait to read some of the other replies.

 

[Pirate]

I have two copies of "Exercising The Penis" to give to my sons, should the proper opportunity arise. I think that I am ready to talk with them but I do not intend to force the subject. If and when I see an opening, I am ready.

 

[deleteduser]

I have two copies of "Exercising The Penis" to give to my sons, should the proper opportunity arise. I think that I am ready to talk with them but I do not intend to force the subject. If and when I see an opening, I am ready.

Great idea to give them the book! Any ideas on how to go about it, Pirate? I think just making it normal like you're talking about lifting or sports or anything else is a good way to go. The more at ease you are, the more at ease they will be. I think the most awkward part for a lot of dads would be saying the do PE and it works. For some reason a lot of us are ashamed of this, and we're generally not used to sharing personal things with our kids.