Ive watched plenty of Lex going balls deep in ths vagina and the ass. Ive even seen Mandingo and Danny D pound away. These guys are easily 9. The fact is some women can take more than you think. Sure, some can't. They have different size vaginas and cervix's like we have different size dicks. Some can just handle it, thats probably why they are in porn.
And there are plenty of 8"nbpel guys in porn. Some 9+. If you look at lpsg there are tons of 8+ and 6.5+ girth and I hear people say guys in porn are not that big?
The infamous Jackxxx is about 9" bpel so he is at least 8nbpel. He has to stand 2 feet from the urninal. Lol. These sizes are way more common. Not all porn uses camera tricks, especially POV. Im close to 8" bpel and many of these guys are clearly 1-1.5" bigger than I am.
But most guys are not 8+nbpel just like most women would not want 8+. But some can handle it. Either way it doesn't really matter. Its clear most women don't put a huge emphasis on size. As long as you are in the average range you are fine. Ive scored plenty of gorgeous women that always cane back for more. They never tell me I have a big dick, cause I don't, but many have said I was the best they have had and Ive sure many of them were with bigger dicks than me.
The problem is comparing yourself to porn. Its not real life. The goal should be to try and be the best lover possible. That might include being a little bigger, but there are way more important things than size.
Sorry, kind of went on a tangent, but I feel so many guys compare themselves to unrealistic people. I know there are many guys even scared to have sex because they think they need a porn dick to satisfy a woman. Not the case.