Yeah, it's all about EQ man... Honestly. I know that I've had erections where if I squeezed my glands, it felt hard, full of blood, and ones where it's squishy as f.... and soft. If you can obtain and keep erections where your glands are bulging and throbbing and full of blood, that's what causes her to feel it more.
I'd say my EQ is at a 6...6.5 maybe as well. And from others advice here, I'm working on that more than I am girth or length gains, although that would be nice. I think the potential for my dick is to be much bigger erect than I've measured, just never get a bulging hardon.
But when I do.... and when any of you do, dick size or not, you'll be a bang machine.
Everyone here should know women are not like us, they need verbal, emotional, mental and physical stimulus. I kid you not, I've been with women where all I have to do, when they are highly aroused obviously, is tell them to cum for me. Like, I'll be on top, going super slow but my entire body rock hard in a flex, so she can feel how tense I am grazing over her body, her breasts, her thighs, I tense all my muscles and go really slow, and I whisper in her ear that I want her to cum for me RIGHT NOW. And she did.
Sex is not a "feel good" activity. It's an "admire" activity. When you start admiring women, their parts, their minds, their emotions, that's when you'll be turned into a good lover.
The reason why I know all this is because I was different than other guys, I couldn't maintain erections or get them unless I was mentally and emotionally stimulated, kinda like a woman. I couldn't fuck random women, I couldn't fuck a dead slug who just layed there, I had to have verbal and emotional stimulation. And by me knowing I needed that, encouraging it and doing it to them myself, I found out that it is what every woman needs.
Now don't get me wrong, you don't need to be all romantic, sensual, talk sexy all the time to achieve this. You can achieve it in many ways. I had a girlfriend who really got off on public sex. And whenever we were out and I saw the opportunity to allow her to partake in her utmost fantasy, I'd grab her hand and squeeze hard and then I'd pull her to where I saw an opening to allow for it.
Sex would last maybe 3 minutes, or a little more, I wasn't counting, but it was fast. And it was a "stick it in quick" kinda deal. But because I grabbed her hand and squeezed it every time before doing it, it initiated a mental response in her from that physical touch, she knew what was coming. She would get wet as soon as I squeezed her hand. So I could just sorta shove it in when she pulled her pants down over her ass and pressed on the wall. And she would also cum in those 3 minutes because she would be so aroused by me covering her mouth and holding her neck tight and the thrill of it. Not to mention me telling her I wanted her to helped
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So always be vocal, always make sure your woman knows you want her to cum and you don't want to stop until she does, always tell her she's beautiful, sexy, soft, tight, makes your cock feel good, makes you want to cum, makes you hold back from cumming. One thing I always like to say, true or not, is when I first go inside a woman I whisper in her ear I already have to hold back from cumming at how good you feel. This instantly gets them going.
And if she gets really wet, pull out, stick it in her mouth and use your fingers to make her cum, she'll tighten and tense up, then go back in..... I mean if all else fails.
