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Good Man Thick-Unit-nothing wrong with setting your eyes on YOUR balls !! Achieving your goals and accomplishing them is what will give you confidence, which by the way, is very attractive to a woman. Education is always a plus. Confidence comes from knowing. One thing though-being over-confident is a turn-off. Good Luck to yo. You seem genuine. Nice, helpful, advice to Amiok.
 

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Learning to drive in the city was the greatest for me too-Amiok.
 

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No big deal.I do not have that much experience also, but I do not let it get me down at the end of the day.
But I all ready had my first kiss and a bit of what would be considered foreplay. That was when I was 14 at a party.
By 17 my self esteem and self-confidence, where in the crapper and stayed that way tell I turned 22 .Even though I was asked out by girls , I would declined them. To this day I can not believe I did that.. Right now my self esteem and self-confidence is fine way higher then it was before it crashed..... I turned 22 about 9 months ago..


Right now I am not wasting my time looking as I am going back to school in a week and will be going out of state.


Thanks dude.
 

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I've read trough the entire thread today(had two cups of green tea and some cookies along the way). I can relate to you somehow, I had a ****ed up childhood: poor family,alcoholic and violent father, always been looked down upon no matter what I did, basically I lost my most important development years, had no respect for myself, I didn't knew how to make friends or how girls worked.If life serves me more s***, I'll demand to see it's manager.. I've had enough.

Last couple of years life got pretty good, hell I feel like my life started just couple of years ago. Catching up with people in terms of personality,character,social position isn't that hard(once you bitch slap yourself and move ofcourse), since most people don't even advance.

Your recent posts tell me you're heading the good way, don't even think of stopping.
 

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I've read trough the entire thread today(had two cups of green tea and some cookies along the way). I can relate to you somehow, I had a ****ed up childhood: poor family,alcoholic and violent father, always been looked down upon no matter what I did, basically I lost my most important development years, had no respect for myself, I didn't knew how to make friends or how girls worked.If life serves me more s***, I'll demand to see it's manager.. I've had enough.

Last couple of years life got pretty good, hell I feel like my life started just couple of years ago. Catching up with people in terms of personality,character,social position isn't that hard(once you bitch slap yourself and move ofcourse), since most people don't even advance.

Your recent posts tell me you're heading the good way, don't even think of stopping.

Ok dude, thanks.
 

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No longer zero. Good thing :). Now I need to keep on keeping on.

Now where to start lol
 

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Here's a 100% sure success routine to having confidence with girls:
1. Go to the nearest bar.
2. Seat next to a girl.
3. Start talking with the girl, no matter what you say, or how stupid she may think you are. Oh, and smile alot.
4. Drink a beer (nothing to do with picking up girls, it's fun and you're in a damn bar :p)
5. Talk to more girls.
6. Repeat this every day, you WILL get rejected ALOT! more than you think, but after less than 2 weeks you will earn the skill needed to pick up girls.

Hell, I just read it myself and it sounds stupid as fuck, but guess what- this sh*t works, better than you'd ever imagined.
Now me and my friends (that have been practising this for years) got to the point where this is as natural for us as walking in the park.
It is way easier said than done though, having the basic guts needed to start with this routine is not simple, you have to MAKE yourself approach girls, knowing you're gonna make a fool out of yourself and be rejected, sometimes in very cruel ways. :p
Amiok, I wish I was there to guide you through the cruel world of picking up!
Being confident in bad, however, is much harder for me, I'm still working on changing my mind state about my penis size- it's all in our heads but the head is one helluva tough organ to change!
 
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No longer zero. Good thing :). Now I need to keep on keeping on.

Now where to start lol

Another thing that is a problem is the mother son bond . It's something you are going to have to tone down quite a bit.
My mother son bond was between me and my grandma . After she had passed away and that bond was gone and that playing field changed.


After that point is when I became more noticeable to other females, my guess is that they could tell that there was something missing for me. Maybe because it's easier to steal someone heart over then having to deal with all the extra drama of the mother son bond. Cause it could get in the way for them.
 

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Zero confidence. I'm used to being the fat kid. The kid who girls like to screw with or use. Had girls tell me point blank I'm ugly, for no reason what so ever.

Being used to it is terrible because I'm not fat anymore really, and no one dares say anything to me. Not trying to sound like I'm a hardass there its just the truth. I've even had girls seem interested recently, but I don't have the guts to make a move because what if they are just trying to play me like back in high school?

But it's good to know that my lack of experience wouldn't be that big of a deal.

I am the same and have 25, is not the end of the world, you don´t know how much free time you have when you
quit to girls.
 

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Another thing that is a problem is the mother son bond . It's something you are going to have to tone down quite a bit.
My mother son bond was between me and my grandma . After she had passed away and that bond was gone and that playing field changed.


After that point is when I became more noticeable to other females, my guess is that they could tell that there was something missing for me. Maybe because it's easier to steal someone heart over then having to deal with all the extra drama of the mother son bond. Cause it could get in the way for them.

Mother son bond?
 

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I am the same and have 25, is not the end of the world, you don´t know how much free time you have when you
quit to girls.

Yea. I got a girl and lost her. Probably better off
 

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Mother son bond?

Got to google that one.

My mom is trying to get in the way but she is wasting her time though. Since there is no mother son bond at all (since that was between me and my grandma.)... It can get annoying sometimes. If I ever got a girlfriend I can guaranteed you she will not meet my parents at all. My mom would just try and wreck it.. As my mom gets jealous too easily.
 
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Mother son bond?

Mother son bond? I'm not saying much here...LOL

Seriously, I love my mother very much, but I do have my reasons for not dating and if I did date it wouldn't be an issue.
 

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I don't know which one to do, LOL or be pissed.

Made an account on a dating site for shits and gigs. And guess who I saw on there?

That's right, the girl who yanked me around.
 

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Another thing that is a problem is the mother son bond . It's something you are going to have to tone down quite a bit.
My mother son bond was between me and my grandma . After she had passed away and that bond was gone and that playing field changed.


After that point is when I became more noticeable to other females, my guess is that they could tell that there was something missing for me. Maybe because it's easier to steal someone heart over then having to deal with all the extra drama of the mother son bond. Cause it could get in the way for them.

Hmmmm. Interesting. Actually my problem is I act too normal... :)
 

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I don't know which one to do, LOL or be pissed.

Made an account on a dating site for shits and gigs. And guess who I saw on there?

That's right, the girl who yanked me around.
Troll her! Troll the sh*t out of her :D
 

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Troll her! Troll the sh*t out of her :D

With your sense of humor why aren't you getting females?

My son has a great sense of humor (even as a baby). I wish he would use it more. I'm sure it would help with attracting females. I love a sense of humor. Thing is, my son doesn't go out to be around the females, that is the first problem. :rolleyes: