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Got a date tomorrow with a different girl.
 

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Congrats, at least one Of us are making progress

LOL. Thanks and you will. Not like I am hot or anything I am pretty ugly ;). Oh for those who may find it interesting she is black.
 

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So? Have a bit of an Oreo going on, good, good ;)
 

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LOL. Thanks and you will. Not like I am hot or anything I am pretty ugly ;). Oh for those who may find it interesting she is black.

well if it doesn't work with the girl i want, 2011 will go out as a write off. i went into 2011 with high expectations, if i dont have anything happening by end of 2011, i'll go into 2012 with no expectations.
 

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Amiok you are my hero. If I don't change anything in seven months I'll be in the same point as you when starting this thread.
I've read this whole thread and I must say that it is like a good novel with a happy end. I was really caught up while reading this. Every progress you made filled me with hope that someday I'll change my life. Right now I'm working on boosting up my confidence and selfesteem by signing for kick boxing lessons and joining the gym. I even joined this site in order to inprove self-evaluation on a different level. I know that my problems are in my head but I'm trying to overcome them as hard as I can.

Thanks everyone for a great thread to read.
http://pl.bab.la/slownik/angielski-polski/self-evaluation
 

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Hanma: Lol

Ryan: What you need is to not idolize one girl and say "oh she is the only one I can be with". I mean I still want the girl who took my virginity, as sad as that is, but I am going out with other girls because I can't screw myself into being lonely again waiting for a chance that most likely will never come.

arkham: Thanks man. Good luck and yea you must change your thinking.
 

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Hanma: Lol

Ryan: What you need is to not idolize one girl and say "oh she is the only one I can be with". I mean I still want the girl who took my virginity, as sad as that is, but I am going out with other girls because I can't screw myself into being lonely again waiting for a chance that most likely will never come.

arkham: Thanks man. Good luck and yea you must change your thinking.

I wouldn't say I'm really thinking like that, kind of gone past those thoughts. I just want to convince my mind that this time is the final time I ask her out and unless it's a yes and we go out, it's a no and I move on.
 

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I wouldn't say I'm really thinking like that, kind of gone past those thoughts. I just want to convince my mind that this time is the final time I ask her out and unless it's a yes and we go out, it's a no and I move on.

Good stuff bud.
 

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Well she canceled. Ahahaha. Now the world is right.
 

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So a weird couple of days. First this new girl cancels on Saturday, not a big deal I wasn't that into her. Then the girl I am kind of dating? I haven't seen in weeks. Then I wake up and see on facebook that my first messaged me for some reason. So last night I am having a weird mix of emotions just feeling bad. Then out of nowhere this girl I am "friends" with who lives 1000 miles away tells me she loves me. Oh great, just my luck.

I finally get a girl at 23 who is a heartless slut and steals my virginity. Then when I find a girl who I truly like etc etc she lives 1000 miles away and tells me she loves me.
 

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So last week the one girl texted me "I want sex" Thing is she won't have sex unless we are together. So pretty much she is trying to force me into a relationship. I want sex, I want a relationship, and I do like her but geeze don't pressure me.
 

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So last week the one girl texted me "I want sex" Thing is she won't have sex unless we are together. So pretty much she is trying to force me into a relationship. I want sex, I want a relationship, and I do like her but geeze don't pressure me.

I'm a little confused now. Is this the same girl that told you she loved you or is this somebody different?
 

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I'm a little confused now. Is this the same girl that told you she loved you or is this somebody different?

Oh this is the girl who kinda blew me a few weeks ago lol. Sorry. The girl who "loves me" lives 1000 miles away.
 

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Oh this is the girl who kinda blew me a few weeks ago lol. Sorry. The girl who "loves me" lives 1000 miles away.

Ah OK. Thanks for clearing that up. I'm having troubles keeping up with your social life. :D
 

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So last week the one girl texted me "I want sex" Thing is she won't have sex unless we are together. So pretty much she is trying to force me into a relationship. I want sex, I want a relationship, and I do like her but geeze don't pressure me.

This girl is crazy. She wants me to be her boyfriend. She wants sex and all this sh*t. But every time we are supposed to hang in the last month, she is tired or this happens or that happens.
 

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This girl is crazy. She wants me to be her boyfriend. She wants sex and all this sh*t. But every time we are supposed to hang in the last month, she is tired or this happens or that happens.

I have no clue on what to tell you other than this girl could be trouble for you. Just my opinion so no offense. :)