I just created a group for those of us interrested in MMO/DO. If you like the idea, please join.
Thanks!
Thanks!
First Dry Orgasm!!!
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I'm sure more will join. Honestly, nothing beats having a few DO's followed by a nice WO. Makes you just wanna go to bed, lol.
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You can start stringing them together now Pirate, that's a lot of fun.
Have you had DO with a partner or only solo?
I suppose these are the sort of things we can discuss in group?
I will go and join now.
Have you had DO with a partner or only solo?
I suppose these are the sort of things we can discuss in group?
I will go and join now.
Hey Pirate, I was going through the thread trying to string some thoughts together on the subject for the MMO/DO group.
Since I incorporated edging/ballooning combo, I really get into it. Paying attention to my breathing and my overall body tension. Last week I was edging, and noticed I was really into it, and just let myself go. My body would feel a rush of sensation, and a bit of shaking all over my body. I've always been a bit of a quiet person but I decided to let myself make noises if I felt the urge. A little moaning went a long way and I felt more in touch with my sensations, sort of like when you're in karate and you scream to put more power behind punches or kicks. I get a little bit of dribble, but lose E.Q, so I'm guessing this could be considered a DO?
Ejac, without orgasm. I have been edging for years before I even knew what edging was. I have been playing with the PONR for a long time, and in my journeys I have been able to tease my self past the PONR just enough to biologically initiate ejaculation yet hold back orgasm.
Once you pass the PONR everything works in nano bits...very fine lines. And how I hold back orgasm...whether through pc squeezing or mental control...I'm not sure, I haven't done it for a while since my primary focus now is orgasm without fluid expulsion.
But you can ejac. without orgasm I know this, and really without the orgasm,...ejac. simply feels like glorified peeing in contracted spurts.. really the orgasm is what we all seek, ejac. without it is like reducing your favorite movie to black and white....not so exciting.
What is good about doing this, is what it implies....that ejac. and orgasm are two seperate events and that it is possible to seperate them and focus simply on pleasure or recurring orgasm...as in this case.
It takes alot of time, but one day....the grail...spontaneous multiples...will be mine.
And hey catchup...You bring up a good point. just recently I have incorperated sound into my edging session, just letting whatever pleasureable sounds come out as I feel them. It really intensifies everything, I mean it was a noticable racheting up of stimulation.
But then sexual experience, a good sexual experience, involves all five senses, leave out one and you don't realize how much your were handicapping your experience until you add it back.
Once you pass the PONR everything works in nano bits...very fine lines. And how I hold back orgasm...whether through pc squeezing or mental control...I'm not sure, I haven't done it for a while since my primary focus now is orgasm without fluid expulsion.
But you can ejac. without orgasm I know this, and really without the orgasm,...ejac. simply feels like glorified peeing in contracted spurts.. really the orgasm is what we all seek, ejac. without it is like reducing your favorite movie to black and white....not so exciting.
What is good about doing this, is what it implies....that ejac. and orgasm are two seperate events and that it is possible to seperate them and focus simply on pleasure or recurring orgasm...as in this case.
It takes alot of time, but one day....the grail...spontaneous multiples...will be mine.
And hey catchup...You bring up a good point. just recently I have incorperated sound into my edging session, just letting whatever pleasureable sounds come out as I feel them. It really intensifies everything, I mean it was a noticable racheting up of stimulation.
But then sexual experience, a good sexual experience, involves all five senses, leave out one and you don't realize how much your were handicapping your experience until you add it back.
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Hi catchup , I like your atavar.
if you are losing a significant amount of eq, you may not be quite there.
But hey you are thereabouts and you are having a good time.
if you are losing a significant amount of eq, you may not be quite there.
But hey you are thereabouts and you are having a good time.
I completely agree, goes the same for women. I remember the first time I gave my ex her first Vaginal Orgasm. The scented candles were on, the nice soft music was playing...everything was just an add on to the romantic night. I remember her turning tomato red! I was the first to give her orgasms despite the fact she was with a guy who was hung. I got my inspiration to try sound in edging when I remembered a scene in the movie American Pie 2. I know it sounds dumb, but I'm glad I tried it.
Pegasus, thanks for the comment on the Avatar. Since I usually Edge after a PE session, I assumed it was just because my Penis was a bit tired, but I'll get there one day!
Well, congrats on the skillz catchup!
Most will readily admit that vaginal orgasm is sometimes an enigma, which is why when all else fails, eat her out.
Even many females themselves are at a loss on vaginal orgasm induction via simple intercourse.
So the fact that you made her cum this way for the first time....well that deserves a pat on the back.
And rest assured that even if you go your seperate ways in the future, she will always remember you as her first in this regard...the first to give her that Heinz complextion!
Most will readily admit that vaginal orgasm is sometimes an enigma, which is why when all else fails, eat her out.
Even many females themselves are at a loss on vaginal orgasm induction via simple intercourse.
So the fact that you made her cum this way for the first time....well that deserves a pat on the back.
And rest assured that even if you go your seperate ways in the future, she will always remember you as her first in this regard...the first to give her that Heinz complextion!
I never really thought about it that way 007, Thanks for the kudos. I've only given three women vaginal orgasms, it definitely is something of an enigma. Like you said it's all about being in that certain moment. Another reason for me starting PE is to stay inside a woman when you feel those PC muscles contracting. A little more length and I'm sure I can stay in while a woman starts this.
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I'm curious - how many of you guys who can achieve dry orgasms can do so with a partner? It seems like it takes a huge amount of control, not only of your responses but of the stimulation you're getting. I worry that I may be too, um, actively engaged during sex for him to be able to have DOs. Any thoughts on this, or hints?
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I have not had the opportunity to try it... although I kinda did reverse kegels (without knowing them at the time) when I was semi-close to the PoNR to calm sh*t down. That worked very well. I'm sure it takes a ridiculous amount of willpower and concentration to do that.
Yeah - BatWoman you are right - it is really difficult especially when the woman is wriggling all around. When it is time to stop the stimulation you will recognize signs
- he may slow down or stop completely
- his breathing will change to upper chest area
- be aware of his noises, I go "aaaaghhhhh" sometimes loud if I'm really close
- When the woman is on top I might squeeze her bunz in a certain way so she knows I'm close
If you identify these signs, SLOW DOWN or STOP unless of course you want that 'moment' to happen. As a woman you can effectively manage your partner's arousal level and essentially 'train' him to slow down at the correct time before the PONR happens
- he may slow down or stop completely
- his breathing will change to upper chest area
- be aware of his noises, I go "aaaaghhhhh" sometimes loud if I'm really close
- When the woman is on top I might squeeze her bunz in a certain way so she knows I'm close
If you identify these signs, SLOW DOWN or STOP unless of course you want that 'moment' to happen. As a woman you can effectively manage your partner's arousal level and essentially 'train' him to slow down at the correct time before the PONR happens
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I like zen's answer.
Have long wondered about women's attitude to mmo, some seem intimidated by it,some think it is wonderfull.
My present partner said "I don't care what you are doing or how you are doing it ,just keep doing it". So she is disintrested in the technique but likes the result.
Anyway mmo is usually first achieved solo,where ability/control can be built up without the added variables of a partner. So at least for a time, many guys can do it solo but not duo.
I was in this situation for some time and in fact suffered delayed ejaculation duo.
But then I was in the wilderness without the mentor's and fellow travelers we have here. You guys have a massive advantage,appreciate it.
With time and increased skill, I was able to do it with a partner as well. As time went by and my skill increased further ,I was able to do mmo regardless of the stimulation. In fact, strong stimulation at orgasm point, now causes a rolling series of orgasms ,such that Saint Peter has to slap me out of it and send me back to earth.
Have long wondered about women's attitude to mmo, some seem intimidated by it,some think it is wonderfull.
My present partner said "I don't care what you are doing or how you are doing it ,just keep doing it". So she is disintrested in the technique but likes the result.
Anyway mmo is usually first achieved solo,where ability/control can be built up without the added variables of a partner. So at least for a time, many guys can do it solo but not duo.
I was in this situation for some time and in fact suffered delayed ejaculation duo.
But then I was in the wilderness without the mentor's and fellow travelers we have here. You guys have a massive advantage,appreciate it.
With time and increased skill, I was able to do it with a partner as well. As time went by and my skill increased further ,I was able to do mmo regardless of the stimulation. In fact, strong stimulation at orgasm point, now causes a rolling series of orgasms ,such that Saint Peter has to slap me out of it and send me back to earth.
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I love the idea of DO and MMO. I'm very interested in the whole process and what it might offer my partner. As we are not young things anymore, there is no way that he can have a wet orgasm and keep going. I sometimes feel guilty that I can have more than one orgasm in a session of sex, but he can't. Indeed, sometimes he has had to hold off cumming if we know we're going to want to come back to bed later in the day. So the idea that he might be able to experience orgasmuc bliss with me more than once while we're having sex? I LOVE that idea!!!!! And I have no problem with the idea that I might need to modify my own behavior a bit to make that possible. If he has more orgasms, we both benefit because I value his pleasure as much as my own.
Yeah B.W I completely agree with Pegasus about joining the MMO group, it would be interesting to have a couple's prospective on the subject. I know most of us are here without the knowledge of our significant others
