First Dry Orgasm!!!

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Ooooh.... does that mean I get to be a couple with Pirate? Um, have you asked him yet?
 
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Will we be assigned partners? Who do I GET?
 

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You can start stringing them together now Pirate, that's a lot of fun.
Have you had DO with a partner or only solo?

I suppose these are the sort of things we can discuss in group?
I will go and join now.
Thanks for joining!
Only solo so far.
 

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I'm curious - how many of you guys who can achieve dry orgasms can do so with a partner? It seems like it takes a huge amount of control, not only of your responses but of the stimulation you're getting. I worry that I may be too, um, actively engaged during sex for him to be able to have DOs. Any thoughts on this, or hints?
I want to take a poll on this. I have posted some proposed questions in the DO/MMO Group. Please take a look and give me your suggestions and comments. I want to put up the poll this weekend.
 

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I love the idea of DO and MMO. I'm very interested in the whole process and what it might offer my partner. As we are not young things anymore, there is no way that he can have a wet orgasm and keep going. I sometimes feel guilty that I can have more than one orgasm in a session of sex, but he can't. Indeed, sometimes he has had to hold off cumming if we know we're going to want to come back to bed later in the day. So the idea that he might be able to experience orgasmuc bliss with me more than once while we're having sex? I LOVE that idea!!!!! And I have no problem with the idea that I might need to modify my own behavior a bit to make that possible. If he has more orgasms, we both benefit because I value his pleasure as much as my own.
Your man is a lucky lucky guy!
 

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I have a great idea, if it is ok with pirate you should join the mmo group as a couple.
Mind you, this thread is an mmo group of sorts.
I am more than okay with anyone who wants to join and learn and contribute!
 

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Ooooh.... does that mean I get to be a couple with Pirate? Um, have you asked him yet?
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aye! That works for me! When can we get started?
:)whoo:My best eye patch gets back from the cleaners tomorrow!)
 

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I'm back on my kegel routine because I'm also aspiring to be able to do DO's. I have done kegels for about a month in total, and after about a 2 month break, I'm working them again. I've only exercised my PC/BC twice, and I already notice a difference. I don't know if it's the kegels or what, but I can more easily get a boner now. Also, before, I'd have to hold a mild kegel to get erect. Now I can relax my PC/BC completely and still get a boner. This, I think, is a step in the right direction as it helps me last longer when edging.

Now for the DO part. I'll stop/start a few times (while also experimenting with kegels and reverse kegels to make the urge of cumming go away). Then when it's time to blow my load, I'll hold a very tight kegel right before I feel I'm going to come and then go over the PONR. Then I can hold back ejaculation for a few seconds(3-5), but then I lose control and I ejac. Am I on the right track? Is this the way you do a DO (provided you can hold a kegel hard enough for long enough)?
 

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Sounds like you are on the right track.
Keep doing your kegels and stay with a long term view. Kegel every other day and gradually increase your workouts.
What is your current kegel routine?
 

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Well keep in mind I've kegeled before. But this is how I kegel:

I alternate
- 5 seconds of quick kegels followed by 5 seconds rest
- 5 second kegel hold followed by 5 seconds rest
I do this for 10 minutes

Then, after about 10 minutes, if I'm up for it I will also hold a few kegels for as long as I can. Haven't done this since I started back up though cause they're too weak in my opinion.
 

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Sounds fine. I suggest that you gradually start working in some longer holds. Make your 5 second holds into 10 second holds. Then next month, think about moving them to 15 second holds, etc.
Make sure you give yourself plenty of rest.
Good luck!
 

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Alright Pirate!

I will increase the times whenever I feel up for it! Not yet though! But thanks for the advice! And very good to know that I'm on the right track! I'll be sure to join your group soon!

Happy PE'ing everyone!

(If you're wondering why all my sentences end with exclamation marks it's because I'm excited cause I just measured my first GAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIINNNSSS!!!! =D=D=D)

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
More to come!
 

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yeaa that happens to mee sometimes the urge is to strong for me to hold n some will leak out. i usually stay hard after though...i did 5 days a week of kegal n edgignr routine wud jus edge before i take my showers before bed. yea once i was at ur stage even though i am...took me like 1-2 weeks of pratice to finally get a DO but took lots of effort n patience if you rush the ponr stage or try to get to ur mian goal quickly insted of listening to ur body n how you feel before during or after Ponr itll take longer.
 

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yeaa that happens to mee sometimes the urge is to strong for me to hold n some will leak out. i usually stay hard after though...i did 5 days a week of kegal n edgignr routine wud jus edge before i take my showers before bed. yea once i was at ur stage even though i am...took me like 1-2 weeks of pratice to finally get a DO but took lots of effort n patience if you rush the ponr stage or try to get to ur mian goal quickly insted of listening to ur body n how you feel before during or after Ponr itll take longer.
Hey Mike,
Thanks for posting and for sharing but, please, remember that a lot of guys here are not native English speakers so texting shorthand ("i" "wud" "ur" etc.) makes it really hard for them to read and understand your ideas.
Thanks again,
-Pirate
 

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Yes, even us native English speakers have trouble understanding posts like that! Grammar, spelling, and punctuation really help a lot....
 

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dont worry people he will get the hang of it . if i could do it he can so just take the it on board mike :).
look at you pirate bullying juniors you should be mad at yourself tut tut :p
only messing :)
 

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dont worry people he will get the hang of it . if i could do it he can so just take the it on board mike :).
look at you pirate bullying juniors you should be mad at yourself tut tut :p
only messing :)
:)
I prefer to think of it as "coaching" instead of "bullying." No harm intended. Arrrrg!
 

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I prefer to think of it as "coaching" instead of "bullying." No harm intended. Arrrrg!

sorry to everyone out there with my spelling. I have just noticed that you're post was about me and my grammar. I posted two more things with incorrect spelling for here on out I will check my spelling and grammar. sorry guys!
 

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sorry to everyone out there with my spelling. I have just noticed that you're post was about me and my grammar. I posted two more things with incorrect spelling for here on out I will check my spelling and grammar. sorry guys!
Mike, Don't worry about it. We are all just trying to help each other. :) Keep posting!