First Dry Orgasm!!!

[v3n0m]

i was able to get a couple of DO a few min apart and still have a good EQ after solo.
the thing now is being able to achieve it with my wife with out releasing my load in her..seems difficult to do in theory.

 

[ninja_42]

I've had drygasm before, although I'll admit not in a while.
I was talking to one of my friends about it a while ago.
He said that he'd read about it and that apparently a lot of the time you basically ejaculate into your bladder?

I guess some doctors feel it is risky, maybe increasing your chances of prostate cancer??
However on the other hand, it shows true mastery of your body (especially your penis & sexuality).. and some consider it to be basically holy/spiritual.

 

[Pirate]

There is a difference between a dry orgasm, (you don't ejaculate) and a retrograde ejaculation (you ejaculate into your bladder.) I enjoy the former but have never experienced the latter, though it does not sound particularly fun.

 

[ninja_42]

Good to know Pirate, thx.
That makes me feel less hesitant about trying/achieving them again.
I've been kinda trying to avoid them.

On top of all the things that interest me, I'm kinda a martial arts buff.
- & In some martial arts / cultures / religions etc.. ejaculating is kinda like giving up your life-force.
Which is one of the reasons I started trying to have dry orgasms. (That and I was trying to work towards having multiple orgasms)

Now I'm thinking I might try and get back into it.
My question is, how can you tell the difference??
- I haven't heard anyone say that a retrograde ejaculation (as you called it) is painful

 

[Pirate]

As I have said, I have not experienced a retro however, I believe that your urine would appear cloudy due to the presence of semen in it.

 

[Pirate]

I have recently been experimenting with controlled partial ejaculations. In the past, when I would ejaculate, I would prolong the process by emptying myself, especially during oral sex. Then, when I learned about DOs, I would focus on not ejaculating at all. My focus now is to go ahead and ejaculate but not empty myself. I find that I still get the satisfaction of ejaculation but my recovery time is greatly shortened and I am re-armed quickly.
Yarrr!

 

[CUSP82]

Rock and roll Pirate!

 

[Pegasus]

Hmm how interesting,most guys experience partial ejaculation while training for dry orgasm , Once they master dry orgasm they rarely use partial.

 

[Dangler]

Partial ejaculations reminds me of a term "short shot".
When a bartender never quite filled the shot glass to the top w/ booze.
Used to ride this guys azz something horrible.

 

[Pirate]

Well, I can report that controlled partial ejaculation does offer at least one significant advantage over DO: you don't have to decide prior to PONR what you are going to do. You can happily be enjoying sex all the way to ejaculation and then decide to shut things down after you begin to ejaculate. I, at least, recover for the next broadside much quicker after a partial than I do after completely emptying my magazine.
Yarrr!

 

[camaro]

Many sea-dogs shall follow a captain of such skill!!

 

[Pirate]

Thankee Camaro!
Yarr!

 

[vdtice]

Hello mates! In my battle with prematureejaculation i started to do kegel and reverse kegel. 500 kegels and few reverse kegels because i find them very hard to do.
After a while something happened to me. When i was edging, after 15 mins i was near PONR and i relaxed my muscles, and a huge amount of precum came out from my dick. My dick was still hard and i continued edging. I decided to pass the PONR and in that moment i did a hard kegel. I almost did it but a small amount of sperm came out. Like 30%. I didn t had a strong orgasm feeling and my dick became limp. Im on the right way? When i will be able to hold the entire amount of sperm, my dick will be still hard and ready to continue? Or even if i hold the sperm, my dick will become limp? Also, if i do reverse kegel wihile i pass the PONR my sperm comes out whitout a strong orgasm because i can relax my pc muscle BUT NOT 100% I think that 70% . I really need an opinion. Bye!

 

[Pirate]

You are doing fine and are on the right track. You are strengthening muscles and learning to use them in new ways. It will take a while for you to gain more control and for your body to adjust.
Keep practicing!
Yarrr!

 

[Pegasus]

Yarr Pirate would vdtice be ae jack tyar of the dry orgasm crew ye started say long back?

 

[Pirate]

Yarr Pirate would vdtice be ae jack tyar of the dry orgasm crew ye started say long back?

Aye!

 

[Shikamaru]

I guess my best way to cure Pre-E would be becoming MMO. After reading these articles, on the MMO stuff, i believe this is how i last the longest with women. Whenever i get close to PONR whether its couple minutes, early, or a while, when i feel myself get to a 9.9 on the arousal scale, i hard kegal. sometime's it'll feel so great, and no semen comes out, that I do think I know how to DO. there have been lots of times where i do a partial or where my timing is bad, and i kegal but i tottaly lose my erection and i feel like its retrograde? where it goes back into your semen. these are the worst during sex because i can't get it back up at all. now partial i can get it back up, but the sexual drive isnt there as much. Need more feedback from anyone else who has become MMO. I also need to read up on more material and start a MMO log.

 

[Shikamaru]

I believe timing is the biggest factor, and next is strength. Waiting until where you feel like your right about to cum, like you feel the cum coming up, you hard kegal. Sometimes you did it to late, or the sensation is too strong and you will cum. Over time, you will master the technique and be able to hold your cum back. I don't know if this is a cure to Pre-E because eventually i want to not have to do any techniques and just be able to stroke away with no problems. That urge to cum for me is still there, when i do a DO, or my erection quality isnt the same. maybe i still need to work on my techniques and figure it out more.

 

[Pirate]

Oh aye, it is all about timing and that takes practice, shipmates!

 

[Bueller86]

Since we resurrected this thread ..... I read up on this and it never 'clicked' with me, so it went into the mental thrash can. Since then I've started to edge (about an hour session) and at the beginning of my training it is quite difficult (for me at least) to judge the PONR and pull back on the physical/mental stimulation. I found that over time I was able to have a D.O. if I try to stop the orgasm in the midst of it, by hard kegeling (reverse kegeling at that point made it worse actually --- strange). So, for me its not as pleasurable as a full on O, but it does allow me to continue on, which has its benefits of course - but it takes some 'getting used to' in keeping going.

When I first started to 'do' this with my wife it was a little unfulfilling as I attempted prolong the session by trying to stop my O and had a D.O. (I think) and sorta stopped even though I have now found that there really isn't a refactory period, but for me the desire to continue on does diminish especially if the wife is 'starfishing' so no real additional motivation to push on to the next one.