Edging 101
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Hey KP, i did my first edging session today after starting the 90day routine, and it was good i think.... however everytime i go near the glans i get this involuntary kegal and i get close to exploding, if i kegal harder the urge to cum gets greater, am i doing something wrong?
Don't kegel, perhaps those muscles are strong enough, edge w/o kegaling see how it goes.
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Hmm, I was edging the other day and I got pretty erect. Without kegeling or reverse kegeling and I didn't feel any urge to cum. So it was like I was very erect but not aroused. Is that possible? I don't know what to make out of this.
What I DID do to get so erect was to grab my shaft with both of my hands, wrap my fingers around it and slide my hands slowly upwards one by one. Oh,I also noticed that when I did reverse kegels the glans seemed to swell noticeably.
What I DID do to get so erect was to grab my shaft with both of my hands, wrap my fingers around it and slide my hands slowly upwards one by one. Oh,I also noticed that when I did reverse kegels the glans seemed to swell noticeably.
sounds like your having good edging sessions, perhaps you better measure that thing.
Wow, this had got to be one of the best threads on PEGYM. I want to thank all the members for giving us all the best advice possible to edge right. Took me a sweet while but I did read through all of it over this weekend. 
Ok so last night, I decided to try out this fairly new technique. I laid on my back on my bed and started to fully relax myself. I started to work the bottom half of my shaft without any lube.. yup.. dry! Just pushing the skin back anf forth. I reached a point where I felt that if I carried on I would cum/ejaculate straight away... so I let go and started doing other things to distract me.
After a few moments I started up again.. working again the bottom half of my shaft where I worked up until I got a feeling that I was going to cum.. so I let go and continued doing this on a number of occassions.. when I let go.. my penis would throb hardly and alot of precum would be produced.. it felt pretty good!
After about 30 or so minutes I was building up to another point (at this point the pressue did seem alot stronger) so I let go alot earlier and nothing happened.. there was a delay then I felt this huge surge and my penis tensed and I cummed hard! It was very satisfying!
The next morning my penis felt alot fullier and it seemed to hang alot lower that it usually does! Looks like that once session worked quite well.
I feel like having that experience every night but I think I should let it built up a bit and do it every other night or possibly 3/4 times a week.. Kingpole do you think that was what you expect for a beginner any other advice you could give me..
Ok so last night, I decided to try out this fairly new technique. I laid on my back on my bed and started to fully relax myself. I started to work the bottom half of my shaft without any lube.. yup.. dry! Just pushing the skin back anf forth. I reached a point where I felt that if I carried on I would cum/ejaculate straight away... so I let go and started doing other things to distract me.
After a few moments I started up again.. working again the bottom half of my shaft where I worked up until I got a feeling that I was going to cum.. so I let go and continued doing this on a number of occassions.. when I let go.. my penis would throb hardly and alot of precum would be produced.. it felt pretty good!
After about 30 or so minutes I was building up to another point (at this point the pressue did seem alot stronger) so I let go alot earlier and nothing happened.. there was a delay then I felt this huge surge and my penis tensed and I cummed hard! It was very satisfying!
The next morning my penis felt alot fullier and it seemed to hang alot lower that it usually does! Looks like that once session worked quite well.
I feel like having that experience every night but I think I should let it built up a bit and do it every other night or possibly 3/4 times a week.. Kingpole do you think that was what you expect for a beginner any other advice you could give me..
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If you can paralel to the ground, some guys can't do this because of high angle and steep upward curves. If this is the case measure the curve use a measuring tape.
Wow, this had got to be one of the best threads on PEGYM. I want to thank all the members for giving us all the best advice possible to edge right. Took me a sweet while but I did read through all of it over this weekend.
Ok so last night, I decided to try out this fairly new technique. I laid on my back on my bed and started to fully relax myself. I started to work the bottom half of my shaft without any lube.. yup.. dry! Just pushing the skin back anf forth. I reached a point where I felt that if I carried on I would cum/ejaculate straight away... so I let go and started doing other things to distract me.
After a few moments I started up again.. working again the bottom half of my shaft where I worked up until I got a feeling that I was going to cum.. so I let go and continued doing this on a number of occassions.. when I let go.. my penis would throb hardly and alot of precum would be produced.. it felt pretty good!
After about 30 or so minutes I was building up to another point (at this point the pressue did seem alot stronger) so I let go alot earlier and nothing happened.. there was a delay then I felt this huge surge and my penis tensed and I cummed hard! It was very satisfying!
The next morning my penis felt alot fullier and it seemed to hang alot lower that it usually does! Looks like that once session worked quite well.
I feel like having that experience every night but I think I should let it built up a bit and do it every other night or possibly 3/4 times a week.. Kingpole do you think that was what you expect for a beginner any other advice you could give me..
You described the classic edging session, and if you were ablw to go 30 minutes before cumming your hardly a beginger. I would say your more in the medium range. Now in order to translate that into lasting longer in the sack. You must evently stroke the entire shaft and head and hold off on cumming for at least twenty minutes.
That's awesome. I did try to take it slow and breathe more through the nasal cavities than mouth.. maybe that helped alot too.
When do you think it would be a good idea to move onto the entire shaft? Also what things can you do to whilst you wait for the sensation to subside after hitting a PONR? I try to watch something on youtube on my phone or something.. maybe that's a little too distracting? I don't like to touch anything unless I trigger anything off.. lol
Good question these are classic.
Now is time to ulitize the entire shaft. when you get to that point of no reutrn but not ready to blow just yet. You can gently rub the glans, lube aup rub the glans. This may trigger a bunch of dry orgasms. Turn off everything to distracting. You want to focus on the penis, get to know it better. Find other feel good triggers like that subtle line between the testicles.
Ok that's great. That does make alot of sense, I think leaving all distractions would be better it does indeed allow more focus. I did not realise the line between the testicles are a trigger point! That's another thing I am going to feel on my next edge session.
I too agree about eventually cumming at the end of a good edge session. I think better out then in! You might as well treat yourself or all that hard work. One last question (for now!) someone who has been masturbating just to get off would you replace it with edging for good? Also how often should this be done? A bit of both or just edging?
2-3 days per week, with a huge explosion at the end. Everyone should learn edging it is better than just getting you rocks off.
That's sounds good to me, because I am new into it I really want to do it everyday.. must feel like buying a new car you want to take it out every day but I will restrict myself to a coupe times a week I think that should be sufficient.
As for masturbation vs edging.. I am loving the edge! It's soo much better than beating it out as quickly as possible..
Thanks for all your advice Much apprecaited. Will let you know how I get on.. might even start my first Log or somthing..
At the end of an edging session your not supposed to cum though right?
Just wondering because I think I read that somewhere.
Just wondering because I think I read that somewhere.
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That's ballooning. You're not allowed to ejaculate there.
Here's an interesting idea: Edge for however long as you like but DON'T CUM at the end. Leave it for a week and cum after 4 days or 7 days. That was you will learn to control the spasms, your arousal level and it would be a bit of an extension to edging.
Here's an interesting idea: Edge for however long as you like but DON'T CUM at the end. Leave it for a week and cum after 4 days or 7 days. That was you will learn to control the spasms, your arousal level and it would be a bit of an extension to edging.
