but there is no rush...she likes you then it a slower build up won't be a problem... women miss make out sessions once sex starts happening so enjoy having make out sessions and build upon it.
Yea, believe me I won't rush anything haha.
but there is no rush...she likes you then it a slower build up won't be a problem... women miss make out sessions once sex starts happening so enjoy having make out sessions and build upon it.
Just make sure you are still advancing things.. like next step hands roaming.. then hands roaming under clothing(can be the same date)
then top half of clothes coming off.. and keep building and heading in the direction of sex .. she will indicate what pace she is comfortable with .. but you also have to be comfortable... but always moving forward.
look. next time you are getting intimate. kissing or whatever. just start making your way down south. i usually just slip my hand through the back and grab a butt cheek. then i slowly tickle and make my way to the pussay. as long as the girl does not stop you, you keep going until you get what you are looking for. if she stops you, keep being playful and try again. being close to the region and rubbing and tickling will get you a long ways.
and just cuz you are now fingering her it does not mean she has to suck your cock or fuck you. focus on her at first. keep focusing on her and still never mention anything about her doing things to you. just let your hands do the talking.
other than that i did not really read the thread much, but i hope this helps.
That's the spirit, me bucko!Hopefully I'll get her to surrender the booty.
Sorry, couldn't help but join in on the pirate fun haha.
That's the spirit, me bucko!
It is more than okay to tell her that you are new at this. She will LOVE that knowledge!
Ok. I actually wonder if she knows yet or not. I mean she had to be able to tell when we were making out haha.
What she does or doesn't know, you've been given some great advice above. Take what you've learned here and keep putting one foot in front of the other with her and you'll be in like flynn......
What she does or doesn't know, you've been given some great advice above. Take what you've learned here and keep putting one foot in front of the other with her and you'll be in like flynn......
I've heard that for years and I've still never met this Flynn guy
Great job amiok! Good stuff there ... keep the cruise control set and enjoy the ride!
Sounds like you've got a girl who knows what she wants which in your situation can be a super positive thing. I'm happy for you man. Just go at a pace you're comfortable with and I'm sure she'll steer you in the direction she wants to go.
I think it is "in like Flint" in reference to the movie series in the 60's starring James Coburn.
You are doing great Amoik. Steady as she goes, shipmate.
Oh, I didn't know that Pirate. Thanks for the clarification. I've only been saying "In like Flynn" since I was oh.....I don't know, 15??? ha ha ha. Better late than never I suppose.....![]()
If you want to move towards sex with her but don't want to risk moving too fast and scaring her off, try this: next time you're making out with her start to feel her up with your hands. Don't go right for her tits or down her pants but start slowly exploring her body while you kiss her. You'll be able to tell whether or not she's ok with it by how she responds. If she's into it (which it sounds like she probably will be), move to her tits and butt. Don't rush through this part either...it's fun for both of you and it's letting her know that you're into her and not just trying to get laid. If she's liking what you're doing, it's probably time to show her that you're ready to move to the next step. She would probably be ok with you going right down her pants at this point, but instead of reaching right down her pants, move your hand down and put it on her pussy through her pants (or whatever she's wearing). This will let her know that you're thinking about her pussy, but you're not done making out with her yet. I like to think of it as a way of saying "I'll get to you in a minute" haha. Once she starts grinding her hips on your hand, it's time to go for it!
Also, girls like knowing that you are turned on by what they got, so don't be afraid to tell her how good she looks, how much she turns you on, how much you like her butt, or whatever. And compliment her on how she looks when you first see her! They want to know that all the hard work they put into looking good doesn't go unnoticed. If she knows that you're really into her and really enjoying what you're doing, she's likely to feel the same.
I know you're getting bombarded with tons of information and it may seem really confusing, but most of this stuff will just happen on it's own. You'll be able to tell what she's comfortable with and that's all you really need to know to move things at the right pace. So THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU WILL GET is to just relax, let it happen, and enjoy yourself!
Oh and make sure you bring a condom. Or two.
If you want to move towards sex with her but don't want to risk moving too fast and scaring her off, try this: next time you're making out with her start to feel her up with your hands. Don't go right for her tits or down her pants but start slowly exploring her body while you kiss her. You'll be able to tell whether or not she's ok with it by how she responds. If she's into it (which it sounds like she probably will be), move to her tits and butt. Don't rush through this part either...it's fun for both of you and it's letting her know that you're into her and not just trying to get laid. If she's liking what you're doing, it's probably time to show her that you're ready to move to the next step. She would probably be ok with you going right down her pants at this point, but instead of reaching right down her pants, move your hand down and put it on her pussy through her pants (or whatever she's wearing). This will let her know that you're thinking about her pussy, but you're not done making out with her yet. I like to think of it as a way of saying "I'll get to you in a minute" haha. Once she starts grinding her hips on your hand, it's time to go for it!
Also, girls like knowing that you are turned on by what they got, so don't be afraid to tell her how good she looks, how much she turns you on, how much you like her butt, or whatever. And compliment her on how she looks when you first see her! They want to know that all the hard work they put into looking good doesn't go unnoticed. If she knows that you're really into her and really enjoying what you're doing, she's likely to feel the same.
I know you're getting bombarded with tons of information and it may seem really confusing, but most of this stuff will just happen on it's own. You'll be able to tell what she's comfortable with and that's all you really need to know to move things at the right pace. So THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU WILL GET is to just relax, let it happen, and enjoy yourself!
Oh and make sure you bring a condom. Or two.

