Do you think she's interested

[amiok]

Hi guys, I'm pretty much hopeless with women. But, I think this girl might like me so I'm going to state some things I've noticed and see what you guys say. Thanks.

1. She talked to me first and asked my name.
2. We go back and forth with sarcasm, and she laughs at most stuff I say.
3. A few weeks ago she told me her Friday sucks. Something like just school and work.
4. She found out I was graduating and that our names were close. So she said, "Oh we'll probably be near each other."
5. When we're walking recently she's rubbed against me and not pulled away.
6. She makes eye contact when we talk and smiles. Also, she smiles when she sees me often.
7. We hung out the other day at school just talking and somehow we decided to go out for lunch. I didn't really ask her though.
8. Invited me to go out with her and her friends.
9. Said stuff like "Oh I thought Joe was cute until I heard him talk." Also, said something about some guy she knows being cute.
10. Also talked about her ex and some of her dating past.
11. Gave me her number/took mine

7-11 was all one day, which is really confusing. Thanks for any of your thoughts.

 

[CUSP82]

So go have fun, get coffee or whatever, take a walk, see what developes and you'll find out if she's interested!

 

[Pirate]

Yes. She likes you. She sounds sweet.
Compliment her on something, anything. If it is something that she is wearing, she chose it carefully. Women, in general, chose everything that they wear carefully. Recognize and acknowledge the effort.
Ask her out to something you would enjoy: coffee, movie, lunch, walk on the beach. Tell her what you like to do and listen when she tells you something about herself.
Remember what she tells you.

 

[ultimape]

Man ,

She either is obviously into you .

Or she thinks you are gay .

just kidding... if you like her , go for it

take it easy bro

 

[closeed258]

:agreeo what they said:agree:

And if it doesn't work buy a rag and some chloroform and you're guaranteed some pussy

 

[MiniMe]

pull the triggerrrrr!!!!!

 

[Editor]

:agree:do what they said:agree:

And if it doesn't work buy a rag and some chloroform and you're guaranteed some pussy :d

lol

 

[amiok]

Or she thinks you are gay .

I am actually really concerned about that lol

 

[ultimape]

I am actually really concerned about that lol

listen man I meant it as a joke

looking at all your points , they all mean she is into you . the laughing , giggling , eye contact etc..

ALL but points 9 and 10 . Points 9 and 10 kinda place you in the category of "lets be friends" or "you are gay so I can talk to you about my ex's".

But who cares about conventions anyway ? If you like her and if you feel things are right go for it dude !

 

[amiok]

listen man I meant it as a joke

looking at all your points , they all mean she is into you . the laughing , giggling , eye contact etc..

ALL but points 9 and 10 . Points 9 and 10 kinda place you in the category of "lets be friends" or "you are gay so I can talk to you about my ex's".

But who cares about conventions anyway ? If you like her and if you feel things are right go for it dude !

I knew you were messing around. But yea I agree, those two points are the big holdups. I was pretty positive until those.

 

[Pirate]

If she thinks you are gay, tell her that you are so confused and maybe she will try to save you.
Being saved can be a lot of fun.
YARRRR!

 

[amiok]

If she thinks you are gay, tell her that you are so confused and maybe she will try to save you.
Being saved can be a lot of fun.
YARRRR!

Haha. I kind of already told her I wasn't. Might have panicked and just said it.

 

[ultimape]

ok so I probably also have to consider that you are still in school so that changes thing a little . considering that , here's some advice that you might find useful :

Women are very territorial , they instinctively protect their personal space . Much more than men , trust me .

A woman will not like if a guy is too close to her , unless she is into him . That is a really huge sign that you can test without having to say anything .

For example :

- You are sitting . Discretely move towards her so you are almost touching each other . See how she reacts .

- Let's say you are on waiting on a line for lunch or something . Make it so that your hands are barely rubbing against each other ( a slight touch , do not hold her hand or anything ) and see if she moves away or is okay with it . Pay attention to her body language , is she gravitating away from you or toward you ? Even if she backs off , is it because she is nervous ( a positive kind of nervous , almost excited ) or is she uncomfortable ?

there are many ways to test for signs of attractiveness , but most of all listen to your feelings and don't be afraid to make a move if the feelings are positive

cheers

 

[amiok]

ok so I probably also have to consider that you are still in school so that changes thing a little . considering that , here's some advice that you might find useful :

Women are very territorial , they instinctively protect their personal space . Much more than men , trust me .

A woman will not like if a guy is too close to her , unless she is into him . That is a really huge sign that you can test without having to say anything .

For example :

- You are sitting . Discretely move towards her so you are almost touching each other . See how she reacts .

- Let's say you are on waiting on a line for lunch or something . Make it so that your hands are barely rubbing against each other ( a slight touch , do not hold her hand or anything ) and see if she moves away or is okay with it . Pay attention to her body language , is she gravitating away from you or toward you ? Even if she backs off , is it because she is nervous ( a positive kind of nervous , almost excited ) or is she uncomfortable ?

there are many ways to test for signs of attractiveness , but most of all listen to your feelings and don't be afraid to make a move if the feelings are positive

cheers

Ok, thanks. I'm going to graduate college, not high school. (Not sure which school you thought). To your point of being close.

When we were in class together she'd usually sit near me. I would put my book bag on this desk that was between us and she would put her hand on the desk and play with my book bag. Don't know if that means anything, probably not.

 

[Pirate]

She likes you.
Now do something about it.
YARRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ultimape]

yeah man that is another great sign . that means she was trying to reach out , it is a symbolic way to close the gaps between you two ... and playing with an object that belongs to you is another very clear sign that she might really be into you

seriously man , what are you doing still in the forum ?

just call her and go for it bro !

latter let us know how it went

take care

 

[amiok]

yeah man that is another great sign . that means she was trying to reach out , it is a symbolic way to close the gaps between you two ... and playing with an object that belongs to you is another very clear sign that she might really be into you

seriously man , what are you doing still in the forum ?

just call her and go for it bro !

latter let us know how it went

take care

Haha, thanks man. She actually just texted me because she's bored.

 

[ultimape]

Haha, thanks man. She actually just texted me because she's bored.

lol dude , seriously ? SERIOUSLY ?..now was this thread a waste of time or what ? ahahah

here we are talking about whether the girls is into you and the she actually texts you cuz she wants to do something...

I guess that this thread can now be officialy close .

Next time when she is waiting for you in bed naked don't forget to start a thread about whether she wants to have sex or not ! lol

just chilling man , its all good

have fun

 

[Livin Life]

Haha, thanks man. She actually just texted me because she's bored.

Another positive sign.
I would call her back and ask if she would like to come by and hang out watch TV, get a bite to eat, anything.
If it were me I would have been there days ago.

 

[BigO]

she brushed against you and didnt pull away. Dude, shes digging you, mention a movie, any movie and Ill bet you a buck she says " Oh, I want to see that one too" Go for it and have a good time.