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Personally, whispering "Inky dinky Parley vous..." has always worked pretty well for me.
 

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I'm like the others who mentiond that they like dirty talk, but not demeaning talk.

That's why I don't like most porn. If anyone knows of any porn series that are not demeaning, but are still hot, I'd be interested in hearing about them. I'm thinking about porn I could watch with my wife.

Back to dirty talk. My wife and I do a little bit of it, but I'm not entirely comfortable with it with her, for some reason. I had a girlfried who liked it though. It was mostly dirty phone talk when we weren't together. It kept things interesting while we were apart.

It was really fun with her, because she was kind of shy and unsure of herself, but when she said "I can't wait to suck your cock" she sounded very sure of herself, and anything but shy. It was a huge turn on. I'd go from totally soft to rock hard in seconds.
 

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I have liked dirty talk. If it isn't what turns you on, it can kill it. Everyone has the level they can take. I brought up dirty talk with my FWB and he said he was going to go by my talk. We gave each other permission but have not done it. I never felt it was really 'in the air'. We refer to each others bits as cock, dick and pussy.
 

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I have liked dirty talk. If it isn't what turns you on, it can kill it. Everyone has the level they can take. I brought up dirty talk with my FWB and he said he was going to go by my talk. We gave each other permission but have not done it. I never felt it was really 'in the air'. We refer to each others bits as cock, dick and pussy.

I agree that it sometimes just doesn't feel like "it's in the air". I only did it with one girl, and she started it, and started it early. I think that's what made the difference - that it was part of our relationship very early on. It feels a little weird(dirty), I think, when it's introduced later.

With the girl I did it with, it was light stuff, nothing crazy. And it just felt like a playful, harmless part of our relationship - not really a big deal. It was lots of fun though.
 

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Depends what sort of sex you're having too. Sometimes it feels like the most natural thing in the world, others, I feel like even saying the 'f' word would bring us both crashing out of the zone.

Sorry, bit of a captain obvious comment..
 

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Oh yes..... different kinds of talk for different kinds of sex, absolutely!
Every time is different (even with the same partner).
Some people never figure this out, I fear.
 

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My new girlfriend seems to be hinting it, but being a bit naive I'm not sure, maybe one of you ladies can fill me in whether she's asking me to or not?

At first during deep kissing and foreplay she would tell me "talk to me" Whisper in my ear what you want" etc, etc, I would always respond with things like "I want you, I can't wait to be inside you, you're so hot, so wet, you feel so good, your sounds are making me hot. Mild stuff like that.

The other night during intercourse, she started saying "I want your cock, your cock feels to fucking good, fuck me harder"

Based on this, should I assume the door is open for more intense dirty talk? I don't want to freak her out?
 

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Oh yes..... different kinds of talk for different kinds of sex, absolutely!
Every time is different (even with the same partner).
Some people never figure this out, I fear.

Variety is the spice of life as they say.. never was this more true than in the sack ;)

The other night during intercourse, she started saying "I want your cock, your cock feels to fucking good, fuck me harder"

I think you know the answer to this ;)
 

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Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....
 

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Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....

I know I do! Although sometimes it can be confusing. The last time I had intercourse with me girl she asked me to slow down a few times, so I did and she came.....then the other night I was recalling that and was working at a medium to intense pace and she yelled out "fuck me harder" so I did to a point I thought I was going pretty hard and she yelled our again "harder baby, harder" and then I went crazy on her and she came really super hard.

I love it when a woman tells me in her "bedroom" voice what she wants. I don't think the control is lost, but mutual at that point. I like no questions as to if I'm doing things right or wrong either. Just tell me and I'll be more then happy to accomodate. For me it's a huge turn on.
 

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Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....

Oh hell, yeah! And if she's good, maybe she'll get what she wants.. actually if she's a bad, bad girl she probably will too, lol ;)
 

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Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....
Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....

Chalk it down! I absolutely love it :)
 

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I totally love it...........I remember in days gone by when I was with the psycho.....if I wasn't making enough noise during say...a blow job, she thought she was doing something wrong.......oh to the contrary, I was just in such a state of "OH MY GOD" that I couldn't speak..........I miss those days.........don't miss her (not because I didn't care about her, because I did, I didn't miss the emotional abuse).
 

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I like erotic talk. I write a fantasy in great detail and email it to him the night before I will see him. I usually get a text video of him masturbating and the audio is all about me, what I said and how it makes him feel. Then the beautiful release sound.
I especially like the cum shot in the video and his fingers full of cum and rubbing it around his head. It causes my entire insides to do flips and I'm in my panties before I know it. I'll usually text back my wet fingers.

I enjoy the " I wish your beautiful face was right here" or " I need your lips on me right now"

In person I prefer to be the verbalizer. I love his sweat falling from his chin onto my lower back or on my face depending on the position.

Break time!
 
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I like erotic talk. I write a fantasy in great detail and email it to him the night before I will see him. I usually get a text video of him masturbating and the audio is all about me, what I said and how it makes him feel. Then the beautiful release sound.
I especially like the cum shot in the video and his fingers full of cum and rubbing it around his head. It causes my entire insides to do flips and I'm in my panties before I know it. I'll usually text back my wet fingers.

I enjoy the " I wish your beautiful face was right here" or " I need your lips on me right now"

In person I prefer to be the verbalizer. I love his sweat falling from his chin onto my lower back or on my face depending on the position.

Break time!

I love everything about this post.
 

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I like erotic talk. I write a fantasy in great detail and email it to him the night before I will see him. I usually get a text video of him masturbating and the audio is all about me, what I said and how it makes him feel. Then the beautiful release sound.
I especially like the cum shot in the video and his fingers full of cum and rubbing it around his head. It causes my entire insides to do flips and I'm in my panties before I know it. I'll usually text back my wet fingers.

I enjoy the " I wish your beautiful face was right here" or " I need your lips on me right now"

In person I prefer to be the verbalizer. I love his sweat falling from his chin onto my lower back or on my face depending on the position.

Break time!

Hey Islander, you have a sister???;)
 

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I like erotic talk. I write a fantasy in great detail and email it to him the night before I will see him. I usually get a text video of him masturbating and the audio is all about me, what I said and how it makes him feel. Then the beautiful release sound.
I especially like the cum shot in the video and his fingers full of cum and rubbing it around his head. It causes my entire insides to do flips and I'm in my panties before I know it. I'll usually text back my wet fingers.

I enjoy the " I wish your beautiful face was right here" or " I need your lips on me right now"

In person I prefer to be the verbalizer. I love his sweat falling from his chin onto my lower back or on my face depending on the position.

Break time!

Goosebumps. my god. Please right a book, sign it, and send it to me! haha
 

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No sisters sorry lol

soaked........ ;)
 

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The other night during intercourse, she started saying "I want your cock, your cock feels to fucking good, fuck me harder"

Based on this, should I assume the door is open for more intense dirty talk? I don't want to freak her out?

Absolutely, YES! She's going to be into it (as most women are).