i feel really depressed right now, because theres this girl at work, and i think shes into me and i think that if i was to ask her for her number shed probably give it to me. and maybe something would happen. but at the same time theres this battle going on inside me with myself over whether we should or not, cause theres a part of me that is really horny, and wants too fuck so bad, but then theres another part of me that dosnt wanna expirience sex as i am for i know its not what i want, its not the quality im looking for. and i also dont want others knowing how i am. i just dont wanna be that kind of guy. and all of these issues have made my drug problems resurface. ive relapsed recently. the whole point of me doing what i did was so i could get her off my mind, cause i was so horny and i just couldnt stop thinking about her, or sex. and i knew that i would ask her for her number or something. iw ouldve done something. so i did it to take that drive away from myself. and it worked but now im depressed i did this to myself, and that the drive is gone and im feeling much less sure of myself.
plus on top of all this ive not been practicing my edging recently so i cant control my orgasm like i used to. ive taught myelf to do so twice. but it takes months of practice, and once i would get things under control, i would try to make something happen with someone, but they either wouldnt be interested or would already be in a relationship. and after trying a few times and getting really burnt out on edging due to how much i had been doing it and for how long. i would stop and take a break for like a month or more. and then lose everything and have to str=art all over. i have noticed it takes less time everytime you teach yourself to last longer, but it still takes months.
im very sad that i want sex so badly, but i want a certain kind of sex, and i cant have it. all i can do is imagine what it would be like. honestly whats the point in being here if theres this amazing thing that you know exist but you just cant get a hold of it. im not suicidal or anything. but i long for nothingness. i hate the duelistic nature of reality, and i dont want good or bad. i wished i could just not be, not expirience. i wish for a lack of creation. for creation is the source of all my suffering.why must things be this way? its as if the creator wanted us to be miserable on a massive scale.
im a 26 year old virgin, ad everytime i come across a pretty girl, its just torture, cause i could do something, but i cant do what i want. i cant be what i want. so it feels pointless to be at all.
a great example is this: what if your getting to know someone or dating someone, and they are into a type of sex that your not into. in some circumstances with a relationship, sure sometimes they figure it out, but most the times you end up leaving them for someone whos into the same type of sex as you. its the same thing only its just me and me alone in this situation. im not into the sex im able to give. im completely willing to put on hard work and dedication to gaining it. but i cant even do that right now. and most likely this injury wont be fully healed till im atleast 30. i just feel horrible now, typing that out just made things worse. it just kinda made it sink in deeper that im miserable and am going to be miserable for much longer no matter what i do.
plus on top of all this ive not been practicing my edging recently so i cant control my orgasm like i used to. ive taught myelf to do so twice. but it takes months of practice, and once i would get things under control, i would try to make something happen with someone, but they either wouldnt be interested or would already be in a relationship. and after trying a few times and getting really burnt out on edging due to how much i had been doing it and for how long. i would stop and take a break for like a month or more. and then lose everything and have to str=art all over. i have noticed it takes less time everytime you teach yourself to last longer, but it still takes months.
im very sad that i want sex so badly, but i want a certain kind of sex, and i cant have it. all i can do is imagine what it would be like. honestly whats the point in being here if theres this amazing thing that you know exist but you just cant get a hold of it. im not suicidal or anything. but i long for nothingness. i hate the duelistic nature of reality, and i dont want good or bad. i wished i could just not be, not expirience. i wish for a lack of creation. for creation is the source of all my suffering.why must things be this way? its as if the creator wanted us to be miserable on a massive scale.
im a 26 year old virgin, ad everytime i come across a pretty girl, its just torture, cause i could do something, but i cant do what i want. i cant be what i want. so it feels pointless to be at all.
a great example is this: what if your getting to know someone or dating someone, and they are into a type of sex that your not into. in some circumstances with a relationship, sure sometimes they figure it out, but most the times you end up leaving them for someone whos into the same type of sex as you. its the same thing only its just me and me alone in this situation. im not into the sex im able to give. im completely willing to put on hard work and dedication to gaining it. but i cant even do that right now. and most likely this injury wont be fully healed till im atleast 30. i just feel horrible now, typing that out just made things worse. it just kinda made it sink in deeper that im miserable and am going to be miserable for much longer no matter what i do.